Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!

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New thread as I see the old one is about the run out.

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I'm honestly shocked that they haven't got you on better pain relief already.

I am so sorry you've had such a bad night and day.

Oh sweetheart, I'm SO sorry to hear you've had a terrible night & day. It's just not bloody fair!!

let the pain team know exactly how much pain you've been in!! NONE of this 'not too bad' type nonsense, ok! Demand the good shit.

you saw yesterday just how quickly you can feel better & stronger! This is a horrible blip! Hopefully you'll soon be on the up again!

i really hope everything is arranged for Jacob & your Mum to arrive tomorrow, they need to come. Being far away doesn't make it any less real, you just feel like you need to be close to the sick person.

it doesn't matter what it is, let us know if we can help in any way. If there's anything you'd like, but don't know where to get it in London or if you need a 'not related' visitor, whatever xx

lots of strength & love
we (& no doubts lots of 'still lurkers!') are all sending you love, strength & support
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Thinking of you and hope your pain eases soon ❤️

Oh Pamela, I'm so sorry to hear you've had such a difficult time since the op. I praying that they get the pain under control as soon as possible for you. Sending so much love.

I'm so sorry you're having an awful time at the moment Pamela, and thank you for taking the time to update us when everything must be such an effort. I do hope the pain specialist can offer you some respite so you can at least get some sleep. Holding you and your lovely family in my thoughts and sending you as much virtual support, strength and good health-giving vibes as I can muster

Just another message of love and support x

Sending the gentlest of hugs, Pamela. I really hope they can manage the pain better for you.

Love that.

You and your family are in my thoughts Pamela. I’m shocked at the lack of pain relief. Oramorph (in my opinion) isn’t nearly as strong as IV. I really hope they get it sorted soon. Lots of love xx

Pamela I'm so sorry you're struggling. I hope effective pain relief can be sorted, enabling you to sleep and recover from the surgery. I love that image from @thegreylady

Pamela, don’t worry about updating the thread when you feel so unwell. Concentrate on yourself and update only when you want to. I hope the pain team will help make you comfortable.

I had gallstones 21 years ago and had doctors come to my home and give me morphine injections. Not the same thing i know but excriutiating pain is exhausting.

sending faith hope and love your way

Hoping you get the terrible pain managed.
You are in my heart Pamela. Will keep thinking of you and hoping pain will ease soon ❤

Thinking of you and hoping you get some effective pain management x

Hi Pamela
The only good thing about being in hospital is drugs!
Here's to getting as high as you can.
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Goodness. I am wondering if they should be trying another non morphine pain med.
Morphine I didn't think was particularly useful in bile duct issues it can increase the pressure at the sphincter of Oddi.

So sorry you've had such an awful night. Nights like those feel endless. I hope they manage to get on top of your pain so you can get some sleep tonight. Thinking of you and sending love from a wet sunny can't-make-its-mind-up Wales.

I'm sorry things are so tough Pamela 😞 I hope they get a handle on your pain quickly. Sending you huge love x

Just wish their was something we could do to alleviate the pain for you.
Praying for it to subside soon for you.

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Pamela

This is just like one long living nightmare for you.

I am so sorry you have been in so much pain and hoping they are able to administer something much stronger that does the trick.
You are in my thoughts everyday.

Thinking of you & hope they get your pain under control soon. Xx