Had paramedics out to dh this morning as he fell and i couldnt get him up safely. Hes now completely bedbound and slurring his words. I think he will be gone within the next week... im completely devastated as it is now sinking in that hes actually going to leave me. My head understood the terminal diagnosis but my heart never truly believed it.
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echt ·
03/12/2015 06:22
Ludoole so very sorry to hear of your sad news. I hope there is comfort for you and your boys, if not now, then later, that your DH died at home as he wished
My thought
for you and yours are from what I see in my garden: bougainvillea and crucifix orchids. I wish you strength for now, and know the hope and joy will be there in the memories of your lovely DH and the boys' splendid dad.
PunkrockerGirl ·
03/12/2015 06:33
Ludoole I'm so very sorry. Please take comfort in the fantastic way way you cared for him., enabling him to be at home as he wished.
He is at peace now, no more suffering.
confusedandemployed ·
03/12/2015 06:36
I'm very sorry for your terrible loss Ludoole. It's a long time now since I lost my mother and then, 6 years later, my then DP but I well remember the sense of loss, but also of being lost.
Wishing you and your boys strength and love
Doyouthinktheysaurus ·
03/12/2015 08:25
I'm so sorry Ludoodle
My thoughts are with you and your boys.
PestoSkiissimos ·
03/12/2015 08:46
Another MNer here wishing you much strength & love. I do so hope you have someone who can be with you today
patterkiller ·
03/12/2015 10:49
I'm so so sorry please remember to look after yourself in the coming weeks.
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