my world has fallen apart

[Emz8369]

I had to call the police last night and report my dad as my daughter told her aunty that he has been abusing her, i just feel so lost right now and don't know what to do, think, feel or say.

Shitty day today :-(

Sorry to hear that Emz. Anything in particular, or just everything?

Daughter had a friend over on the condition that she (daughter, not friend) help sort her room as she wanted to rearrange it, all started well until daughter started messing around and then came downstairs after about ten minutes i came to see what she was doing and found her on her netbook so took it off her and asked her to come back upstairs and help, i went back upstairs and heard daughter shouting and screaming at her younger sister so came down and told her to stop otherwise i would send her friend home at which point she started shoutingand screaming at me so i called her friends mum and explained the situation and friends mum came and took her home and now everything else just getting on top of me

BUMP
Hope your both ok?..

Thanks anewyear

Oh pet.

Sounds like you're all understandably stressed out.

Thanks ParsingFancy tomorrow is a new (and hopefully better) day

And now the shops are advertising for fathers day :-(

Oh Emz.

There must be so much still bubbling up for you about him, too.

It just makes me want cry

Hugs are supposedly unMumsnetty, but have a great big one anyway.

(((Emz)))

Thanks

I just feel so lonely right now :-(

What have you been up to today? Still got workmen underfoot, or is the end in sight?

I spent some time with my little sister today, no the workmen are done and have gone now

Is that the sister who wanted to keep in touch with her father? Hope things went OK between you.

Got anything nice planned for today?

Yeah it is we talked about it and she has changed her mind, ahe doesnt want to talk to him anymore.
I saw my sister and we had a walk around town but it went downhill when i went to go home as i saw him in the bus station as i was going for my bus

Oh that's marvellous that your sister is in accord. I imagine all of you are on very difficult journeys at the moment, getting to grips with this.

So sorry you saw him at the bus station. But well done on getting out at all. Hope the sun shone for you a little bit (been alternating with chucking it down here).

Im just glad i only saw him from behind and he didnt see me i dread seeing him face to face tho

I'm glad you went out, and that your sister has changed her mind. As ParsingFancy said, everyone will be on their own journey, probably at different stages too.

I know it sounds horrible but it would be so much easier if he was dead at least then we wouldnt have to worry about bumping into him when we were out

But then he wouldn't be facing justice, although I can see what you mean about it being easier.

Do you think he would speak to you? If so practice saying something like

'The police have already told you not to contact me, I am not willing to speak to you.'

That way if he did try to speak to you you have a ready response.

back again have had a really good day out with my youngest daughter and a friend and her children

Glad you've had a good day out.

me too, knackered now tho, not looking forward to monday as oldest daughter is going on a residential with the school