Baby 5

[gracex4]

Hiya I'm new to this like literally just downloaded the app 5mins ago 😬 but I wanted to see how many big families are out there and when I searched it on here so many negative comments it shocked me! I'd like to chat with mums 4 or more ☺️

@gracex4

Why should I not have 1 child when you have 4 or 5? Wouldn't it be better for us to have 2 each? It is only overcrowded because of families like yours. I'm not the one that needs to make the changes.

@Wolfgirrl we haven’t ‘made our decisions so have to stand by them’ we wanted big families and didn’t really care about the environment when we chose to do it.

You know, I thought I was done at 4, but after this chat I reckon I need to have at least another 3.

Wolfgirrl why are you commenting when nobody cares what you think at all. Are you lonely and need someone to interact with? It's embarrassing!

The problem isn't larger families got most people, it's larger families and benefits/public services. Thee Ed majority of larger families I've met in real life are not working and there's multiple dads. The other issue is that circumstances change, I found myself a single mum and goodness knows how I would have coped if I had more kids.

@mesmeri
Quads would be perfect!

I'd smash it on my own like a super single mum if that ever happened I feel your points really judgy

@okiedokieme
My husband has a very well paid job. We have 3 homes. The kids are well cared for. I work from home.

@gracex4 I was a single mum for 1e years. I could do it again in a heart beat!

we wanted big families and didn’t really care about the environment when we chose to do it.

Yeah I'd noticed that.

My husband has a very well paid job. We have 3 homes. The kids are well cared for. I work from home.

Doesnt change the environmental impact although I suppose it is better than not working or relying on the state.

@okiedokieme

Plenty posh folk have 3/4/5 kids.

My husband has a good business I have a small business I run from home and get this..... I'm the manger of a care home looking after elderly that don't have any family to look after them!!!!!!!

You know, I always thought that too, Otter.

I didn’t mean that post to sound snooty just can’t stand when people assume everyone is on benefits! So what if they are? I was on benefits for 3 years and I’m not ashamed of it! But now I’m in a better situation

If some of my residents had children they would have a much better EOL

@EsmaeDe get off your high horse your a world ruining child breeding snooty cow now

@gracex4 as I suspected 😆🤣

I know. I'm part of a huge catholic family, I'm used to households that make all of yours look small. 5 or 6 was pretty average. Small was 3 and big was 10+.

But - that isnt an excuse for me to carry on the trend. It isnt an identity, it is a lifestyle choice. It impacts other people, and I care about other people as well as just myself.

Yep, more insult the person as you dont have a leg to stand on