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IVF / ICSI November

327 replies

bubu24 · 05/11/2024 12:17

Anyone starting stims in November?

I started stims last night. I'm on a long protocol. Started in October with norethisterone and then Buserelin. This is my second IVF cycle.

First cycle I didn't take the Buserelin, had 8 eggs collected, 3 blasts, none normal (1 high level mosaic in the freezer)

I'm on a 2 cycles package, so hoping this one is the lucky one 🙂

OP posts:
Magix86 · 06/12/2024 15:19

Congratulations @hopefullsosbry 9 eggs is great! Get lots of rest this evening. Keeping everything crossed for your call tomorrow x

Magix86 · 06/12/2024 15:28

All 11 of ours that fertilised are still going on day 2. We have 8 top grade, 2 good grade and one slightly lower.
Will be in for transfer on Monday and we'll see how many we have at that point🤞🏻

Has anyone else had a lot of bloating after their egg collection? I feel a lot bigger than I did when I was on stims 🙈 still feel a bit uncomfortable moving around and not sure if anyone has tips on a quicker recovery?!

Cosyseason1234 · 06/12/2024 16:38

@Magix86 absolutely brilliant news! Have you got a chilled weekend planned?
I felt completely normal by day 3 after EC,day 2 was abit tender,I did find a light walk in the park helped.

Elena3 · 06/12/2024 17:32

@Magix86 great news! Fingers crossed for Monday x

I had a lot of bloating, essentially ohhs, could only walk very slow and couldn't even breath deeply. I was totally unprepared for this, day 3 post egg collection was the worst one. I was trying to drink a lot (coconut water has electrolytes, everyone says you need electrolytes), but I don't know if that actually helps. I quickly realised I get much worse if I eat a normal portion of food, so I changed it to really small portions but more often food intake, not to overcrowd any precious space that remained in my intestines being squished already...

Magix86 · 06/12/2024 18:00

Thanks @Cosyseason1234 @Elena3 this is day 3 so hopefully tomorrow will be better then! I think it might have been after lunch that was more noticeable...will try smaller meals. Trying to keep the fluids up. Just a chilled weekend for me, maybe a little walk but nothing too strenuous!
Hope you're both doing OK x

hopefullsosbry · 06/12/2024 18:23

Thanks, tomorrow can’t come quick enough !
@Magix86 that’s really good for 11 to be still going strong !! Won’t belong and your transfer will be in .. 🧡💫

tpeas · 06/12/2024 23:30

Congrats on good numbers @hopefullsosbry and @Magix86 ! I was the same as @Cosyseason1234 , had some stomach pain the two days following and was basically ok after, although on the bloating, I have gut issues which were def flared up by it and it took me a week to get back to normal.

hopefullsosbry · 07/12/2024 10:05

We got a call .. out the 9 eggs we got only 4 were mature and 4 fertilised.. so we just have to wait now until Wednesday to get the 5 day update to see if any are suitable for biopsy for PGT-A testing 🤞🏽 will update in Wednesday , hopefully we get at lest 1 💫

Cosyseason1234 · 07/12/2024 10:30

@hopefullsosbry amazing that 4 fertilised ❤️ come on little embryos!

ivfjourneyandme · 07/12/2024 11:20

@hopefullsosbry well done on 4. All the best little embryos

hopefullsosbry · 07/12/2024 12:44

Thank you @Cosyseason1234 @ivfjourneyandme

Magix86 · 07/12/2024 14:54

@hopefullsosbry amazing that all 4 mature eggs fertilised! That's great news 😀 hoping for more good news Wednesday 💖

Magix86 · 09/12/2024 16:00

I've just posted on the December thread but will add here too. Hope everyone is doing OK.
We had our day5 transfer today.
We had a 4AA put back and they have frozen a 3AB. They are giving the rest another day to see if they catch up but I feel really down that we had 11 going on day 2 and now are left with only 2! We were told on day two that 8 were top grade and 2 were good grade so I really don't know whats happened 😕

Cosyseason1234 · 09/12/2024 16:09

Hi @Magix86 amazing that you have 2 successful embryos ❤️ hope the transfer was ok?
I felt exactly the same as you,we had 13 fertilise and only 3 embryos to freeze and I felt quite disheartened.
After some googling and speaking to people who have been through it before,I actually do feel happy with it now.
They say 30-50% don’t make it to blastocyst and we had severe MFI and I am 37 so old in IVF terms 😂
Got everything crossed that this transfer works for you 🌟

Magix86 · 09/12/2024 16:16

Thanks @Cosyseason1234 😊 I know I should be feeling so much better to have actually gotten to this point and need a reality check! I'm also 37...although actually I turned 38 today haha 🥹
We used donor sperm due to my partner's azoospermia so that's playing on my mind a little...that we chose the wrong donor etc. This whole ivf thing is a complete drain. If I'm honest I was hopeful this would be all we needed and I wouldn't have to go through another egg collection, especially as I'd be even older then. Was really hoping that with a 50% loss we'd still end up with 5. But I really am so grateful to have the 2. We will see what happens. The next 10 days are going to be torture!

Cosyseason1234 · 09/12/2024 16:36

Awwww @Magix86 happy birthday to you! Hope you can enjoy some treats later 🎂
If there’s one thing this awful emotional rollercoaster has taught me it’s feel what you feel and take some time to process everything! Your feelings are valid and infertility is, let’s be honest, pretty shit 😂
This transfer is a top quality embryo,it’s got a really good chance of working 🤞 don’t worry about further egg collections etc now, I constantly overthink the next step and panic myself and generally it turns out to be an unfounded ivf worry 🤣

hopefullsosbry · 09/12/2024 16:37

@Magix86 best of luck and hope your wee embryo implants nice and snug .. that’s good you have another chance with the extra frozen and I am sure you will get some that make day 6, both my rounds I got day 6’rs.. the good thing is they are all still going strong and none arrested so they might just be slow. Fingers crossed you won’t need them and this little embryo sticks .. 🤞🏽💫💖

Magix86 · 09/12/2024 16:52

Thank you @Cosyseason1234 @hopefullsosbry I really needed to hear all that 💖 going to try to switch off tonight now. I've had my pineapple and Brazil nuts hahaha and will relax with a good film 🥰

hopefullsosbry · 09/12/2024 17:03

@Magix86 hops you can relax and fingers crossed for you. Keep us updated how testing goes, I think only two others in the thread that are in tww? Hope you are all doing good also .. luck to all 💫🤞🏽

bubu24 · 09/12/2024 18:36

@magix86 happy birthday and congrats on your transfer. Nice little present to transfer on your bday 🙂 As others have said don't think about the other embryos as there's a really good chance you won't need them anyway. I'm rooting for the little one you have now, go little embryo, go 🥰

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tpeas · 09/12/2024 19:44

Congrats on your transfer @Magix86 I hope it's the one! I was also disappointed with numbers so I feel you - out of 20 eggs we got no freezes but just keeping everything crossed for the one that has been transferred. Good luck with the 2Ww, I'm officially halfway through mine now. And happy birthday!

ivfjourneyandme · 09/12/2024 19:50

@tpeas hows the wait going??

tpeas · 09/12/2024 21:06

@ivfjourneyandme thanks for asking. I'd say it's been mixed. I've not had any bleeding which I'm taking as a good sign but unfortunately since EC (sorry if TMI) my IBS has flared up and I've been having quite strong pain and discomfort to the point I'm sometimes unable to sit up, which I hope won't harm things. However the pain is higher up in my stomach so I'm trying to tell myself it's just the hormones giving me a bad flare up and hopefully won't damage our chances. How are things going with you?

ivfjourneyandme · 09/12/2024 22:02

@tpeas oh you poor thing. The things we do eh? I’m ok thank you - just trying to ride this rollercoaster that is IVF! Got another scan Wednesday (will be day 14 of stims) to see if EC will happen 🤞🏻

Magix86 · 10/12/2024 11:18

Well done for getting halfway through the wait @tpeas ! Nearly there 🙂
Was expecting a call from the clinic this morning but instead had quite a simple message sent through the portal, just saying no other embryos made it to day 6.
I feel so disappointed at our numbers but also just seeing this in a very short message from the clinic hasn't helped. I feel like they think perhaps they've done their job now so don't really care about ongoing/further contact. Maybe I'm just being oversensitive but it's made me quite sad to have the info shared in this way and I've then had to send a reply asking for more information. 😔