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IVF/ICSI May or late April

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AnnieStar12 · 10/04/2024 22:29

Is anyone else gearing up to do IVF/ICSI in May?

My meds have arrived and I start my down regs next week to start a long protocol ICSI cycle, my egg collection will then be mid-May.

Had my first ICSI cycle in Feb which resulted in only 1 embryo which was transferred on day 5, but BFN. I found the support group on here super helpful with my last cycle, so wondering if anyone else is in a similar position?

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CreamLampshade · 05/05/2024 22:27

wishfulbean · 05/05/2024 13:28

Hi all, sorry been away from the boards as both myself and my partner have come down with sickness and diarrhoea 😫. The worst time!! It's been really bad.

On the plus side @HopefulllHolly we have a potential embryo that can be transferred on Tuesday 🥳🥳🥳 the other one is growing but slowly/not as expected so might not make it.

Going to ring the clinic tomorrow if we are both still unwell... or just ring them to check we are ok to come in. I'm really worried they'll say we can't transfer.

@Feelingmindful welcome! I'm so pleased you have been able to progress with your cycle. Hoping you get lots of lovely eggs! I think I will look at booking some acupuncture soon sounds like it would be beneficial for either outcome.

@Ashleighlouise that's a great number of follicles! I'm really pleased for you and hope the trigger has gone well

@2tuxedocats hope your trigger has gone well too!

@AnnieStar12 Yay I'm so pleased you've been able to start! Great news!

@CreamLampshade I had similar symptoms when I had my son and I'm feeling like it now and it's unlikely it's ohss as I only had a few follicles. However my sister who also had successful IVF felt this to start and she definitely had ohss and her symptoms became much worse when she was pregnant. Basically... it's worth ringing up the clinic and letting them know as everyone is slightly different. Sorry I can't provide more reassurance but I can say that in my case it was all ok! So happy to hear you have 2-3 embryos. Sending all the positive energy that they continue to grow and develop well!

@Rebekah77 yay for having a surgery date booked in! Fingers crossed for incoming weigh-ins!

Thanks @wishfulbean, the clinic said they’ll do tests tomorrow to test for ohss but they seemed very sceptical it was that given I can walk, eat and wee. I’m still very uncomfy when I walk and there’s a weird heavy feeling all the time, and I still look bloated lol but maybe that’s the progresterone!

thanks for the good luck @Cloclo93! I’m excited to get there tomorrow now. I’ve got to have breakfast at 8:30 and then not eat til about 4:30 tho so going to be full of rage in the afternoon I imagine!! I’m being put under again as I am terrible with anything like this.

CreamLampshade · 05/05/2024 22:34

@2tuxedocats and @Ashleighlouise good luck for tomorrow!!! Hope you have smooth days :)

@AnnieStar12 thats great you can finally start!

feel better soon @wishfulbean.. hopefully it’s a 24 hour thing!

@HopefulllHolly sorry you’re feeling irritable. Progresterone is so uncomfy… I keep squealing from constipation and then having to run to the loo suddenly and I feel like my stomach is a tight balloon. Hope you get some good news re your embryos tomorrow, are they going to update you or do they wait till Tuesday?

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 07:40

@CreamLampshade Good luck for transfer today!! Not eating all day is rough! I would be so hangry by 4:30 😅 Let us know how you get on.
Yeah I won’t find out anything about our embryos until tomorrow. So I guess they’ll call in the morning if neither have made it. I’m really anxious about it. I’ve definitely read every thread about success stories for only 2 fertilised eggs now. My other half is really scared too. Stressful!

Good luck today @2tuxedocats @Ashleighlouise hope you have a great time on the drugs! Let us know how you get on if you feel up to it. 🥰

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 09:45

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 07:40

@CreamLampshade Good luck for transfer today!! Not eating all day is rough! I would be so hangry by 4:30 😅 Let us know how you get on.
Yeah I won’t find out anything about our embryos until tomorrow. So I guess they’ll call in the morning if neither have made it. I’m really anxious about it. I’ve definitely read every thread about success stories for only 2 fertilised eggs now. My other half is really scared too. Stressful!

Good luck today @2tuxedocats @Ashleighlouise hope you have a great time on the drugs! Let us know how you get on if you feel up to it. 🥰

Thank you! I have taken another lorazepam this morning and I am feeling all airy fairy 🧚‍♀️ so long may that continue!!🤞🏼🤞🏼

Hope today goes well for you @2tuxedocats 🤍

Will update later on!!

Gnatalie16 · 06/05/2024 10:00

Good luck @Ashleighlouise for your transfer today.
Just got back from my scan I don’t know if I’m happy or worried now, my endometrium is 9mm which she said is good but my biggest follicle is 13mm and 11mm but rest are from 6-10, and she mentioned lots of little ones. Waiting to see if the doctor calls and wants me to up my meriofert or not. Back on Wednesday for another scan so just have to keep going!

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 10:26

@Gnatalie16 what day of stims are you? I got to day 12 with the same sizes as you and then they kept me on over the weekend and they all had grown about 4-6mm, so maybe they are just a bit slow like mine. I wasn’t put on anything higher. Lining is good! 😊

Gnatalie16 · 06/05/2024 10:29

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 10:26

@Gnatalie16 what day of stims are you? I got to day 12 with the same sizes as you and then they kept me on over the weekend and they all had grown about 4-6mm, so maybe they are just a bit slow like mine. I wasn’t put on anything higher. Lining is good! 😊

I only started last Monday so day 8 tonight. Ah okay so they grow quite quickly then, I just overthink and worry so don’t help myself! Making it my mission over the next week to drink more as she said that helps them to grow too 😃

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 11:34

@Gnatalie16 ah you’re still early days, I think they are a good size for where you are! Think they said it’s 1-2mm a day growth and mine grew more than that 😊

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 12:06

Hey guys! Egg collection all done! I feel like the sedatives didn't work too well on me as I definitely felt everythinggg.. or it felt like I did, lovely nurse held my hand and i had Taylor Swift on 😂! They managed to get 13 eggs!! So definitely hoping and praying sone of those fertilise and grow big and strong 💪🏼 🤍✨🤞🏼

CreamLampshade · 06/05/2024 13:04

That’s a great number @Ashleighlouise, congrats!! Sorry you could feel everything… that sounds stressful!! Were you basically awake?? You’re hardcore!

@Gnatalie16 mine were a similar size at that stage and I think they gave me four days and was fine. They grow about 1-2mm a day!

how are you @2tuxedocats?

im not sure they’ll transfer for me today. Woke up with excruciating pain down below after going for a (small, smelly) wee, my boyfriend almost called an ambulance I was in so much pain! Also felt like I was going vomit and was dizzy. Weirdly it got better quite quickly. I went to an out of hours doc and got a wee test as my wee had smelled when I went to the loo (sorry if tmi) so I thought it might be a urine infection. She said the wee was fine so perhaps it’s just ohss as pain while urinating is a thing. She also didn’t even know what ohss was so that was useless.

i then got back into bed when I got back and slept from 9:30 to 12:30. And was quite feverish during sleep. Same last night - I woke up screaming ‘no’ in the middle of the night!

My retrieval appt is at 2:30 so hopefully they’ll shed some light. I’m still so bloated and feel full / uncomfy! I said to my boyf last night it feels like my vagina and bum are so full they are prolapsing!! (Sorry I’m such a drama queen. But that’s how it feels, kind of like they’re going to burst!)

Gnatalie16 · 06/05/2024 14:33

Just had a call from the clinic the doctor wants me to double my dosage of meriofert tonight and tomorrow then scan on Wednesday hopefully they will be bigger by then

AnnieStar12 · 06/05/2024 14:42

@Ashleighlouise 13 is lucky for some!! Excellent result, you must be so relieved.

@Gnatalie16 that must be reassuring you can up the dose, hopefully they will be big by time you get scanned on Wednesday.

I also have my first scan on Wednesday. Of course I am worrying there’ll be nothing, or not enough, growing. I think I’m already on the max dosage, but as I’ve come down with an awful cold I’m also worrying that will impact follicle growth.

@CreamLampshade omg, you poor thing. I hope you’re okay and your body is recovering. Is today your day 5? How many embryos do you have today, and are you planning on transferring 1 or 2? Really hope they let you transfer xx

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2tuxedocats · 06/05/2024 15:19

@Ashleighlouise woohoo 13 eggs is brilliant! I’m sure there’ll be plenty that will grow into embryos. When do you find out the quality?

@CreamLampshade oh no that sounds so stressful, I hope you are feeling ok and they go ahead with your transfer.

Thank you for all the well wishes, my IUI went pretty smoothly this morning. It was pretty painless more uncomfortable; Im
assuming the fact I was a lot more relaxed helped that. I now wait until 24th May to find out! Back home chilling on the sofa and my wife has already banned me from picking up anything heavier than the cat 😂 I start the pessaries tonight, baby making is so glamorous isn’t it 😂

@HopefulllHolly I’ll be crossing my fingers for your phone call tomorrow and it seems like Wednesday is our next big day for the group @AnnieStar12 and @Gnatalie16

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 16:07

@Ashleighlouise yay 13 eggs is a great number! I feel bad I missold a dream to you! Clinics must have different sedation protocols or maybe people respond differently? Sorry you felt everything and hope it wasn’t too bad. Hope you’re having a good snooze tonight!

@2tuxedocats glad you’re feeling good and being looked after! Big step done!

@CreamLampshade oh no, hope you’re ok! Definitely sounds like OHSS, are you drinking enough fluids and electrolytes?

Thanks @2tuxedocats im really nervous for a call - but excited if we do have a transfer tomorrow. Any recommendations for funny movies? Apparently it’s good to laugh a lot after a transfer (provided we get good news of course, if not I will be wallowing)

CreamLampshade · 06/05/2024 16:21

Quick update, they did go ahead with transfer as they couldn’t find any fluid. They said mr ovaries were enlarged but not to a worrying extent and the symptoms are normal as my body is getting ready with pregnancy.

they put two embryos in which were blyocrasts or whatever they’re called, they said they were too early to grade and didn’t want to risk me having a transfer today for one and then losing one tomorrow if it wasn’t suitable for freezing. Hopefully one sticks!!

feel a bit dizzy and tired from the Sedative but otherwise ok.

we may have one more tomorrow to freeze but depends how it goes tonight. Grow little thing grow!

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 17:24

Thank you everyone! I am back home now and just had a 2 hour nap 😂 I think what happened is I had a nurse do the sedative rather than an anaesthesiologist and apparently they aren't allowed to give you the good full strength stuff (understandably) but honestly, even with that the process was still completely fine! It hasn't scarred me 😂😂

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 17:26

@CreamLampshade that's great they've been able to transfer too, after all you're the best place possible for them to be! Hopefully making themselves nice and cosy in your tummy for the next 9 months 🤍🤞🏼✨ sending all the positive vibes to your other little one I hope they grow grow grow!! 🥚

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 17:27

@2tuxedocats amazing! So happy it all went well for you! 😍 I had a 2 hour nap this afternoon! Going to
Hopefully have something nice for dinner later and then have a lovely sleep tonight !!!
I am also starting the pessaries tonight 😬😬😬 hoping they go ok! I think I am going to commit with them going up the 🍑 😂

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 17:28

Ashleighlouise · 06/05/2024 17:27

@2tuxedocats amazing! So happy it all went well for you! 😍 I had a 2 hour nap this afternoon! Going to
Hopefully have something nice for dinner later and then have a lovely sleep tonight !!!
I am also starting the pessaries tonight 😬😬😬 hoping they go ok! I think I am going to commit with them going up the 🍑 😂

@2tuxedocats I will get a call tomorrow to confirm how many have fertilised and then a call on day 3 to let us know how many have progressed and if we can book in for transfer on Saturday 😬😬

HopefulllHolly · 06/05/2024 18:29

That’s good @CreamLampshade glad it went ahead! Did you have day 5 transfers? And nice they let you have 2 transferred, my clinic only will transfer one at a time. How are you feeling now?

@Ashleighlouise Glad you’re ok! Hope you have a lovely snooze tonight.

I am getting so so so nervous now to hear if we have an embryo. I have to keep forcing myself not to think about it as when I do I feel like I’m going to be sick with fear. 🤢

2tuxedocats · 06/05/2024 18:48

@HopefulllHolly no recommendations for films but I’ve stuck on some rubbish reality tv so I can properly veg out this evening, I hope you can do the same!

@CreamLampshade hooray they went ahead! Hope you are resting up 💙

@Ashleighlouise haha I think I’ll be doing the same! TMI but it’s a bit sore down there so I don’t want to make it worse 😂

Clairehbear · 06/05/2024 18:51

So I finally finished my Northisterone last night now just have to wait for my bleed so that I can start my stimulation injections.

Thanks goodness the Northisterone is finished cause it was making me feel weird. I’m normally very chilled and it was making me have little patience and a bit agitated.

Im sure the injections will be fun, though I’m not worried too much since I’m a nurse just keeping everything crossed since we may not get many eggs.

Has anyone any tips and tricks?

Hope everyone is keeping well

CreamLampshade · 06/05/2024 20:17

thanks @Ashleighlouise @HopefulllHolly @2tuxedocats yes very glad to have moved onto the next stage!

@HopefulllHolly highly recommend ‘This is 40’ - just been watching it in hysterics! Also ‘the secret life of pets 2’ had me giggling. And yes, day 5 transfers. They were blyocrasts (?) but it was too early to grade them so no idea what the quality was like.

@Clairehbear the main thing I did was concentrate on nutrition just because it felt like something I could control. Lots of lean protein, fruit and vegetables and gallons of full fat milk!

2tuxedocats · 06/05/2024 20:25

@Clairehbear the norethisterone did that to me too. My tips would be eat well and try and get some exercise in each day. I made sure I either walked briskly for at least 30 minutes each day or went for a swim; my doctor has said no to the swimming pool until after my pregnancy test so I’m going to keep up the walking.

I’m sure you’ll find the injections a doddle if you’re a nurse but I found an ice pack helped

Clairehbear · 06/05/2024 20:25

CreamLampshade · 06/05/2024 20:17

thanks @Ashleighlouise @HopefulllHolly @2tuxedocats yes very glad to have moved onto the next stage!

@HopefulllHolly highly recommend ‘This is 40’ - just been watching it in hysterics! Also ‘the secret life of pets 2’ had me giggling. And yes, day 5 transfers. They were blyocrasts (?) but it was too early to grade them so no idea what the quality was like.

@Clairehbear the main thing I did was concentrate on nutrition just because it felt like something I could control. Lots of lean protein, fruit and vegetables and gallons of full fat milk!

Yes I’ve been trying to eat as healthy as possible. Also starting taking Vitamin D (the clinic told me too) and I got CoQ10 I had read it can be good.

@CreamLampshade the only problem is I’m lactose intolerant so no full fat milk for me haha 😜

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