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Create Fertility - Experiences (Part 2)

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Sunflower360 · 23/11/2023 21:10

Hi 👋

A thread for anyone who wants to discuss their Create Fertility experiences.

I'm 38, currently in a 3 cycle Natural Modfied ICSI package and nearing transfer stage.

Tagging as follows from previous chat, please tag any others I may have forgot. New joiners to the thread welcome to share your stories/journey!

@gemso2020
@Doxy21
@VSRCM
@GirlAgirlBboyC
@HopefulElle
@Maddie23
@Jennaqua

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Doxy21 · 09/12/2023 18:04

Hi @VenusStarr im feeling ok I think. This is my third transfer so im kinda over it!

jolly86 · 09/12/2023 18:10

@Doxy21 one was 11 cell grade 2, the other 7 cell grade 3. I think grade 2 is good but grade 3 is quite lower. I think the grade 2 one has around 40-50 percent of becoming blasto, while the grade 3 one has like 25 percent.. So not so great but I think 2 is definitely better than 1.

@VenusStarr thank you. I will do a urine test if I get there.
Weirdly I feel much better after the transfer, I guess the feeling that it is over and I can't change anything. I have low expectations and if this fails will be planning another round.

Doxy21 · 09/12/2023 18:16

Thanks @jolly86 did they tell you that on the day? Our frozen one is 7 cells grade 2 and was told ‘high chance of implantation’ - so must be a high chance for yours too

jolly86 · 09/12/2023 18:18

@Doxy21 yes this morning the embryologist told me that. Is this your last cycle of the 3 cycle package then?

Doxy21 · 09/12/2023 18:24

@jolly86 yes - first cycle no egg, 2nd cycle 2 eggs and 1 fertilised and was frozen at day 3, 3rd cycle 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilised. Fresh transfer tomorrow

Hopesandsunshine · 09/12/2023 22:23

Hi everyone! Wow I’ve missed so much!

@Sunflower360 hope the consultation went well and you’re feeling more prepared, which can only be a good thing at this stage.
thank you for sharing your thoughts on ICSI and like @VenusStarr i am also leaning towards it but scared to have more risk of birth defects which plays on my mind a lot. so glad @VenusStarr your meds are on their way to you, odd there anything else left to do except wait for AF?

congratulations on your transfer @jolly86 and a double one too! I definitely understand the feeling it relief when you reach transfer so enjoy and rest now because you are PUPO!

also good luck for your transfer tomorrow @Doxy21 I’ll be thinking of you! Did you do ICSI on any of these create rounds can I ask?

Doxy21 · 09/12/2023 23:15

@Hopesandsunshine yep 2 rounds Icsi (no eggs in first round) and my 2 rounds at my previous clinic were icsi

Decaffe · 10/12/2023 02:07

@Hopesandsunshine are you Purple in a new incarnation? 💜

Maddie23 · 10/12/2023 08:04

Hope your transfer went well @jolly86 !

jolly86 · 10/12/2023 08:14

@Maddie23 thank you. Indeed, my first transfer in 2021 was really difficult, it took like 40 minutes and change of doctor, they just couldn't find the right place. I think it was linked to my uterus being retroverted. However this time it took 5 minutes!! I said how come as this is what happened before. Doctor said you had delivery and things must have changed.

Sunflower360 · 10/12/2023 08:52

@jolly86 all the best now you're PUPO! Keep us posted @Doxy21 hope today goes ok

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Doxy21 · 10/12/2023 08:55

Thanks @Sunflower360 trying to fill my bladder for 10am (I’m not good at that - I pee a lot so my bladder never gets full without me being in agony). I also hate the speculum with a passion. I WILL scream and cry

Sunflower360 · 10/12/2023 08:57

@Doxy21 I'm the same, not good with a full bladder! Are you having 2 transferred or 1?

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jolly86 · 10/12/2023 09:05

@Doxy21 good luck for today x

Doxy21 · 10/12/2023 09:17

@Sunflower360 1 I guess as not had a chance to discuss with anyone yet. We are also early and it’s not open

Doxy21 · 10/12/2023 09:17

Thanks @jolly86

jolly86 · 10/12/2023 09:38

@Doxy21 we only had the discussion with dr in theatre just before transfer for double embryo

Sunflower360 · 10/12/2023 10:08

Update from me...

All 7 are still in the running, but 2 are weaker than the other 5.

So overall we have 3 x Grade 1's (9,10,11 cells, one of which is compacting), 2 x Grade 2's (6 and 8 cells) and 2 x Grade 3 (5 and 8 cell but with quite a bit of Fragmentation).

Be curious to see what, if any, make blastocyst (I've learnt to be cautious with this whole IVF journey, so take nothing for granted, good news can very quickly go the other direction!)

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VenusStarr · 10/12/2023 10:18

Good luck @Doxy21 I hope it all goes smoothly ❤️

Good update @Sunflower360 I understand your caution but hoping you grt some good news on Tuesday 🙏

Doxy21 · 10/12/2023 10:32

We transferred 1 as it was grade 1 8 cells. The other is grade 1 7 cells so going to see how it does to day 5/6 and freeze if ok (got a grade 2 7 cells day 3 frozen). I have had 2 transfers elsewhere before and this is the first time I haven’t had to wait and drink some more. The speculum wasn’t too bad - but it did pop out and have to be redone! Fingers crossed now! I would be glad to never have to do this again but also glad that we have 1 (hopefully 2) frozen

jolly86 · 10/12/2023 10:53

@Doxy21 that sounds amazing that both are grade 1. In that case it makes sense to transfer one I suppose. Well done x

VenusStarr · 10/12/2023 10:59

Great news! @Doxy21 🥰 glad you still have one in the running too. Congrats on being pupo x

Doxy21 · 10/12/2023 11:19

Thanks all. It would be great if a few of us got some good news this year!

Sunflower360 · 10/12/2023 11:42

That's good news @Doxy21 and good that you may have another to freeze too come Tuesday. Fingers crossed for a great result before Christmas!

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Hopesandsunshine · 10/12/2023 11:50

Amazing news @Sunflower360 i understand your caution but so far so good!

@Doxy21 ahhh that’s amazing that you’ve got 2 at grade 1 and then your frozen embryos as well, congratulations on being PUPO!

@Decaffe 😂 I’m sorry I don’t quite understand

Got another scan tomorrow so shall see what we have, will keep this lovely group updated 😊