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FET buddies summer 2023

184 replies

localbunny · 27/04/2023 15:26

Hi all, started this yesterday on conception and got no responses, but think maybe I put it in the wrong place. Anyway, final attempt! Wondered if anyone would be interested in a thread for those preparing for a FET cycle in the coming couple of months.

I closed my first round of IVF yesterday, no fresh transfer as my body went a bit nuts despite mild protocol, so looking to prepare as best I can for a frostie transfer in June or July!

Big hugs to everyone going through/who has gone through IVF at whichever stage you're in, I found it super tough and frankly think we're all incredible. X

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KG1244 · 18/05/2023 14:26

Hi all, very much in my head at the moment. My period is now 10 days late and I’m getting thoroughly cheesed off! Do you know if there is anything around not doing FET on a month when you have a very late period? Not sure if I should wait for my June cycle now….

CaribbeanCupcake · 19/05/2023 13:29

@tara17x hey lovely. I hope you're ok- just want you to know am thinking of you and hoping you've had some good news xx

tara17x · 19/05/2023 13:37

@CaribbeanCupcake thank you so much, been to the clinic today and unfortunately it’s being classed as PUL, waiting for bloods to rule out ectopic but they’re hoping I miss carry over the next couple of days 😓. Hope everyone else is doing well x

CaribbeanCupcake · 19/05/2023 14:36

Oh@tara17x I'm so sorry 😞 I have been thinking of you and hoping so hard for a positive outcome. Have you got some good support around you?

KG1244 · 19/05/2023 16:53

@tara17x I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you a massive virtual hug. Take care of yourself. X

10degreessunny · 20/05/2023 09:36

So sorry @tara17x, this process is so cruel. I hope you have some support at home to help you through this xx

CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 13:10

Hey how is everyone? @KG1244 has AF finally made an appearance?

KG1244 · 24/05/2023 14:09

@CaribbeanCupcake Nope 😂 2.5 weeks late. How are you getting on?

CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 14:32

No way! What's the clinic said? Can they give you something to make it?
All good here thanks, currently 8dpt and 0 symptoms so panicking a little bit 😬 but still a white til OTD so need to find a way to chill! Lol

10degreessunny · 24/05/2023 16:19

Oh @KG1244 it must be because you want it, it doesn't come! Have you check your not pregnant already? Haha
@CaribbeanCupcake when is OTD for you?
I had my EC today so now it's the waiting game for how many can be frozen and whether I get OHSS 😬

KG1244 · 24/05/2023 17:00

@10degreessunny definitely not pregnant ☹️

KG1244 · 24/05/2023 17:01

@CaribbeanCupcake They said it’s normal and to call them if it hasn’t turned up within 4 weeks. Ahhhh I can imagine. When is your testing day?

CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 18:44

@10degreessunny
OTD is Monday 😬😬😬 Oohh how do you feel after EC? Do you know how many eggs they got?
@KG1244 aww bless you must be frustrating 😩 it will come when your body is ready x

10degreessunny · 24/05/2023 20:08

@KG1244, ah must be so frustrating, hold on in there, is there a limit to when the doctor will just induce your period?
@CaribbeanCupcake oh that's exciting, not long then, have you been testing?
I got 49 eggs and process was fine. Just now it's the big wait for drop offs and also if I get OHSS which is a big worry!

CaribbeanCupcake · 24/05/2023 20:19

@10degreessunny 49!!! Wow!! Make sure you take it easy for a good few days. How are you feeling now? Have you got work tomorrow? No haven't tested yet. I'm gonna stay strong and wait til OTD (even tho it's killing me slowly) 🤣

10degreessunny · 25/05/2023 08:16

@CaribbeanCupcake good for you, I think I would do the same so you don't go crazy with not knowing if results are true. How are you feeling?
I'm just working from home, was fine yesterday afternoon and okay today, just bloated and feel like I have done a big abs workout. Really hoping this is as bad as it gets..!

CaribbeanCupcake · 25/05/2023 09:47

@10degreessunny really glad you're not feeling too bad, hope it stays that way as I've heard OHSS is awful! Drink lots of water and try and do as little work as possible!
I feel fine- totally normal to be fair which is worrying me! I'm desperate to spot a symptom- any- but it's just not happening! I keep reading and googling as if the internet is going to tell me Im pregnant! 🙈 that's not happening either lol

10degreessunny · 29/05/2023 14:12

Hey guys how is everyone doing? @tara17x how are you feeling? @KG1244 any sign of period? @CaribbeanCupcake is today OTD?
Seeing to Dr tomorrow to try and understand the soonest I can do FET transfer, so far 5 days after EC no OHSS, very happy about that!

CaribbeanCupcake · 29/05/2023 15:35

@10degreessunny sooooo today was OTD and it's was a BFP!! I'm in so much shock I really can't believe it! 😭 the first I've ever had!

So glad no OHSS for you! Please let us know how you get on tomorrow xx

10degreessunny · 29/05/2023 16:17

Ah congratulations @CaribbeanCupcake fantastic news ❤️❤️ do you still have no symptoms? Remind me did you have a medicated cycle or a natural cycle for it? X

CaribbeanCupcake · 29/05/2023 17:05

I had medicated! Yeah still no symptoms, I keep checking the test and making sure I didn't imagine it! Such a strange (but amazing) feeling! Im all over the place 🤣

10degreessunny · 29/05/2023 17:35

Oh so exciting! Really lovely to hear some good news!

KG1244 · 30/05/2023 09:48

@CaribbeanCupcake amazing news! Huge congratulations ❤️

KG1244 · 30/05/2023 09:50

@10degreessunny still no sign. Honestly wtf. I feel like my body is pranking me! My next period is due next week so maybe I’ve just missed one after EC and hopefully I’m on track next week. So desperate to start FET and really thought it would all get moving this month 😤

CaribbeanCupcake · 30/05/2023 11:18

@KG1244 thank you so much lovely ❤️
So sorry AF is playing silly buggers! Maybe your body is just recovering from egg collection as it can't be nice on your ovaries! I'm sure if it goes on too long they can give you something to induce your period?