IVF / PGD / PGT-A/ PGT-M July 2022 Cycles

[Bellwells]

Hiya

Is anyone else due to start treatment July 2022 or around then?

I thought to make this thread so that we can all have a chat whilst going through treatment so that we don't feel alone.

Wishing you all the best of luck on your journey.

Bellwells

@Tonim86 🥳🥳🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😁😁😁 Congratulations!!!
this is EPIC!!!!!!!! Praying for a sticky bean and a lovely pregnancy for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

im still waiting waiting waiting….
and OH is being a total arse to the point I’m not sure I even want to go ahead if we do get a euploid. He’s got to the point of drinking every night, staying up until 4/5am, staying in bed until mid afternoon, going to the pub on his own on both our evenings off and not coming home until midnight. I’m not prepared to bring a baby into that 🤷🏼‍♀️
I’ve told him, he doesn’t like it, we’re very much at make or break time 😕

@Tonim86 Yay congratulations, fantastic news x

@Tonim86 congratulations lovely son pleased for you xxx

Sorry to hear this @Kelb79

hopefully you can both work through it, men can be absolute a holes xxx

Thank you ladies 🥰🥰 hope everyone is doing ok

@Kelb79 sorry to hear your having a rough time with other half I hope you manage to figure things out 🥲 I can imagine it's been a difficult few weeks do you think it's worth just planning some time with him to just lay all your cards on the table? Could he benefit from some support (DR/councillors) to help process what's going on with his dad?

@Kelb79 How difficult for you :(.
Only you know him well enough to know if he can change and this can work.

He's being very selfish right now, is he still struggling with grief? Who is he out with? Can you talk to them, to try and help him.

Hope your ok? We are here to talk anytime, private message if you don't want to post. X

@PMAmostofthetime hes always just out on his own - he sits outside under a tree at our local and scrolls on his phone or phones one of his mates (for literally hours!!!) I totally get that he needs headspace and I know IVF and TTC in general messes with their heads but I’d just like a bit more support 😕

@Tonim86 i wish he were the kind of guy that could go therapy but, annoyingly, he’s crazy intelligent and basically knows everything that they tell him already! (Yeah, and a bit bloody arrogant too 🙄🤣) it’s impossible with him!!

he did make a few changes that lasted the whole weekend 🥳🤣🤷🏼‍♀️ So I’m momentarily calmer but I know he’ll just go back to it 😵‍💫

I’m still waiting waiting waiting for the PGT-A results and completely losing my mind! It’s been 2 weeks now so they should come sometime this week, it’s killing me!!! 😩😩

@Kelb79 it's so hard for you I would have literally lost it- maybe a lifestyle change is needed a hobby after work?

Just trying to think of anything that can help.

Hope your results come soon x

Hi everyone,

Just a quick question, I have started my northisterone today and will be starting my injections next week.

I have seen a few posts about people testing pre transfer (during injections I think) can I ask what this is for please?

Anyones help would be great as I want to ensure I'm doing everything I can

Thank you 😊

@MammyandAva I never did this but some people like to test their trigger shot, they then test daily until it fades and continue testing hoping it will return back to positive.
Great news on meds starting.

@MammyandAva there is a ivf sep/oct thread some people are around the same timeline as you that you might find useful

I’m FREAKING OUT!!!!!
my assistant in Spain just emailed this…

”Lab has said that the PGTA results should be out by Monday morning so are you free for a call at 12.30pm on Monday with Dr Herrera?

Keeping fingers crossed!!!”

so I know that sounds like they don’t know anything yet but I asked previously on the Facebook support group for my clinic how the PGT-A results were sent and others (who got good news!) got them by email straight from the embryologist…
so now I’m freaking that they know it’s bad news 😩😩😩😩😩

@Kelb79 maybe clinics have different communication methods and you’re clinics method is through a call, in my opinion I would prefer that and an email with my results rather than an email as it maybe hard to unstandard as I would imagine report is in medical term’s.

that’s just my thought xxx

Completely heartbroken 💔
all of our embryos came back aneuploid
even the doctor was surprised - she was sure we would get one and had hoped for 2 😞
I cried all day yesterday, this journey is so shit!!
just don’t know what to do next. The clinic are behind us doing another round of own egg if we want to and haven’t ruled us out but are, of course, recommending DE route for an easier result 😵‍💫😵‍💫

I’m so sorry to read this @Kelb79

its such a tough journey IVF route

its heartbreaking xxx

So sorry to hear this, don't make any rash decisions it's too emotional atm. Only you know what will be best for you x

Oh @Kelb79 I'm sooo sorry to hear this how heartbreaking 💔 this is a ch a hard journey. Please make-sure you take care of yourself will you have a follow up appointment with them

How's everyone doing? X

@PMAmostofthetime hey I'm ok I can feel the sickness slowly starting to kick in viability scan 8th November how are you doing how many weeks are you now? When will you be due?

All good thank you @PMAmostofthetime

how are u?

not long until you’re scan @Tonim86 its so exciting xxx

@Tonim86 @PositiveAnnie
I'm good thanks extremely tired and very emotional, but other than that I'm good.

I'm 17 weeks now so due in April :) x

@PMAmostofthetime wow that's going so quickly April doesn't seem so far away. Will you have a gender scan?

@PositiveAnnie will be a relief to have the scan out the way how are you doing?

@Tonim86 no we don't want to know x

Just an update ti let you all know that we had a little girl by emergency c-section last Saturday she is absolutely perfect 😍

@PMAmostofthetime massive congratulations to you, I hope your both doing well 💗💗💗