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IVF/FET FEB MARCH No 3 2022

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Justawannabemam · 18/02/2022 06:29

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IE00 · 07/03/2022 17:13

@Bluehawaii29 I was on just 800mg. For what it's worth I was on 800mg with my first baby that was successful.

Mochii · 07/03/2022 17:14

Sorry to hear the bad news today 😔

Does anyone know if hcg should still be doubling every 48 hours between 5-6 weeks or does it slow down post 5 weeks?

Bluehawaii29 · 07/03/2022 17:50

@IE00 yeah it’s so hard to know what is right or wrong. The whole process is so hit and miss

Bluehawaii29 · 07/03/2022 17:51

@Mochii found this:
‘ In the first four weeks of a viable pregnancy, hCG levels will typically double about every two to three days. After six weeks, the levels will double about every 96 hours.’

Mochii · 07/03/2022 17:54

Argh I’m on the border line again. It’s doubled every 2.8 days between 14dpt and today which is 24dpt (6+1). I’ve booked an early scan to check if there is a visible sac, wish me luck 😬

Bluehawaii29 · 07/03/2022 18:05

@Mochii that’s still very promising Smile wishing you lots of luck! Xx

IE00 · 07/03/2022 18:23

@Mochii there's every chance. Best of luck. I thought you had a scan booked already? What has your original clinic said?

Mochii · 07/03/2022 18:24

@IE00 it’s booked for Monday. I’m fed up of waiting around now as I don’t think it will be positive. I haven’t told the clinic, I don’t trust them since they didn’t believe me about issues I had on my last cycle! I’m going rogue 😂

xreadytoglow · 07/03/2022 18:29

Good luck for your scan @Mochii 🤍 when is it booked for? I hope it's all reassuring news as I know your journey has been stressful for you x

Bluehawaii29 · 07/03/2022 18:38

How was your scan today? @Frenchiepupmama

Mochii · 07/03/2022 18:57

@xreadytoglow 7.15!!

EasterBunny7 · 07/03/2022 19:18

@Bluehawaii29

My fears have become reality. My cycle got cancelled. Yes, I was on 6mg oral tablets. I think the Buserelin was doing too much of a good job.

I am to stop everything immediately, wait for a period and start again. This time, with no Buserelin! I will also go on 6mg estrogen immediately as well as estrogen patches! I can't believe I started this cycle mid January. Two months wasted away. Before that, I missed the xmas cut off in my November cycle and they were closed in January for building works. All in all, 4 months and counting....and still not there.

Commiserations to everyone else who has to do this all over again too.

Mochii · 07/03/2022 19:26

@EasterBunny7 so shit your cycle got cancelled, sorry to hear this.

I just had my scan and unfortunately they did find a sac but it is completely empty 😔

Frenchiepupmama · 07/03/2022 19:31

@bluehawaii29 hello sorry message late. scan went well thanks I can't believe it. Was so nervous, but I'm 7 and half weeks and due approx 19th Oct. That's the private clinic discharged me as of today and I'm to get intouch with GP to organise at 12 week scan. I'm gonna go private for a 10 week scan juts to make sure things r progressing OK. How r u?

Frenchiepupmama · 07/03/2022 19:36

@Mochii I'm so sorry to hear this, I don't even have the right words to say. thinking of you 💔
@easterbunny7 that awful about your cycle been cancelled.

Thinking of everyone in this chat group. I really has been so important to be able to talk to people going thru IVF process and I appreciate everyone's advice and support along the way.

LuckyNovember · 07/03/2022 19:56

Congratulations @Frenchiepupmama ⭐️⭐️⭐️ I hope you really savour this feeling, (and that we all get there eventually! ) Wish you a wonderful happy and healthy pregnancy 🧡

Overlyanxious · 07/03/2022 19:57

Congratulations @Frenchiepupmama that's wonderful news x

LuckyNovember · 07/03/2022 19:57

@Mochii I'm so sorry there's nothing to say that can make this better. Take care of yourself until you're ready to face the world again 💔

Overlyanxious · 07/03/2022 20:01

@Mochii I'm so sorry - sending you hugs x

@EasterBunny7 sorry your cycle got cancelled. Fingers crossed this next one is the one

LuckyNovember · 07/03/2022 20:01

@EasterBunny7 i feel your pain!! My first cycle was also delayed, delayed, blocked by Christmas holidays... it was 5 months from start to finish!! I'm still not really over it, I genuinely believe that the stress of all the delays undermined the whole thing! Those eggs were exposed to A LOT of cortisol for their full 3 month development 🤦🏻‍♀️ Please find ways to distance yourself from the frustration if you can, it's really hard, but I regret not realising that I needed to do that. Good luck! It will happen 💜

Overlyanxious · 07/03/2022 20:03

@PaxRomana and @ty1982 I'm really sorry about your news. Sending hugs x

EasterBunny7 · 07/03/2022 20:03

@Mochii

Oh, that's terrible news, I'm so sorry. I wish I could say something to make it better again. Been in somewhat similar situations myself so I can appreciate how painful this must be for you. Give yourself space to get over the shock and allow yourself time to grieve, especially for the first couple of weeks.

xreadytoglow · 07/03/2022 20:09

@PaxRomana @ty1982 I'm sorry that your cycles weren't successful this time. Take care of yourselves and I hope next time is the one 🤞🏼

@EasterBunny7 agh that's shitty. The waiting is the worst part isn't it. I'm sorry you're having to wait again. Hopefully next time you'll respond much better and it'll be a lot easier for you.

@Mochii oh I'm so sorry 😔 I have no words. I'm sending you lots of virtual hugs. I really hoped it'd be different for you.

@Frenchiepupmama congratulations on your scan. That's such lovely news! Very happy for you.

EasterBunny7 · 07/03/2022 20:11

@Overlyanxious than you, appreciate it

@LuckyNovember absolutely, who knows what state my body is in from all that worry and stress!

I don't like how the clinic put me in buserelin for 31 days where they could have just started me on day 2 of my cycle, just as they will do now.

@Mochii I hope you and I get another chance to do this again, together.

EasterBunny7 · 07/03/2022 20:13

This is the hard bit of the thread, where people start getting good news and bad news all at the same time. It's a moment of volleyball emotions!

@Frenchiepupmama congratulations for making it past viability scan. Wish you all the best! Are you the first in the group to get this far?

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