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IVF/FET FEB MARCH No 3 2022

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Justawannabemam · 18/02/2022 06:29

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NaomiNatNat · 28/02/2022 10:14

@Bluehawaii29 my clinic doesn't do bloods 🤷🏼‍♀️ I couldn't understand that when they told me

W1ngingit · 28/02/2022 10:17

@xreadytoglow congratulations! That’s a very strong line. Amazing news.

@Justawannabemam bloods came back positive yesterday. 366 miu/ml. The clinic said they’re happy with that.

I now have blood tests (progesterone and hcg) every two days until the 6 week scan and then regular scans until 12 weeks. So I’m very pleased to be monitored so closely! I’m already back for bloods again today so I’ll have another hcg update later.

How are you getting on? Many symptoms yet?

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 10:19

@IVFGotThis05 best of luck for your transfer 💐 that's great news.

@NaomiNatNat everything crossed for your review. Will they do bloods for you then or scan?

@Overlyanxious if it helps I also felt like I was coming down with something on Saturday morning. I wrote on here that I was doing a covid test cus I felt like I was coming down with a cough/cold. When are you testing?

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 10:20

@W1ngingit that's great news! Fabulous number. Good that you are also getting lots of reviews so you know it's all going in the right direction.

Does it make you think about the chance of twins more now...?? @Justawannabemam 😉

Overlyanxious · 28/02/2022 10:37

@W1ngingit oh that’s great news on the number and that you will get regular reviews.

@xreadytoglow I’m trying to hold out till Saturday to test. I hate testing so much.

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 10:44

@Overlyanxious that's understandable. I'm praying for a positive result for you x

Overlyanxious · 28/02/2022 10:45

@xreadytoglow thank you so much Smile

W1ngingit · 28/02/2022 10:48

@Justawannabemam your first number was 600 right? How many dpt are you now? That’s high! May be twins! Do you get an update or anything? When is your first scan?

@Overlyanxious thank you! How many dpt are you now. What day will Saturday be? I admire your determination!

@xreadytoglow thank you! When is OTD? Does your clinic do bloods?

W1ngingit · 28/02/2022 10:50

@NaomiNatNat fingers crossed for a darkening line.

Sorry to all the BFNs over the last few days. Sending love. X

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 10:51

@W1ngingit my OTD is Friday when I'd be 12dpt. No they don't do bloods unfortunately ☹️ shame that some do and some don't. I bought a digi one that shows the weeks so I can hold out and see 3+.. that might make me feel better. Not sure when that would be though, anyone know?

PaxRomana · 28/02/2022 10:55

How do you decide to test before the bHCG blood test? I had an embryo transfer on Wednesday and I’m convinced it’s not worked (so convinced I spent a load of money on some vintage clothes with my current measurements). I’ve got another week until my blood test. I don’t know if I should just stick it out or if I should test, then if it’s negative at least I can put myself out of my misery, start thinking about next steps etc.

Overlyanxious · 28/02/2022 11:09

@W1ngingit I’m 7dp5pt today and my bloods will be next Monday. I’m convinced that I’m not pregnant so just delaying the negative result.

@PaxRomana I’m sorry you also feel convinced it hasn’t worked. I don’t really have much advice on the testing front. For me if I tested early and got a negative I would still be holding out some hope until my bloods were checked.

NaomiNatNat · 28/02/2022 11:22

@xreadytoglow no bloods. They rely on frer and whatever symptoms you may have apparently. But I believe if it was a positive then they would do the scan.

@W1ngingit That's so great that they monitor closely. Wish mine did that. Thanks btw but I've already moved on to next cycle now and hopefully the Docs modify my treatment for better results.

@PaxRomana why do you think it hasn't worked? When was your trigger shot?

Justawannabemam · 28/02/2022 11:27

@W1ngingit yep my bloods were 600. You transferred 2 the same ? What did they say about your levels. 1 or 2 ?

I have a scan on the 11th March so we will find out then

Should I continue to test? Did I read somewhere that testing after so far it would show up neg but then water it down and it would work . Or I could just leave it and continue in this little bubble .

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PaxRomana · 28/02/2022 11:29

Trigger shot was the Saturday before (so 8 or so days, if I have to do this again I’ve got to get up to date on the acronyms…Grin).

It’s probably just relentless pessimism but every step has had a setback or an unexpected problem (eggs weren’t mature, surprised low sperm count) - feels like the pregnancy test won’t be any different. Our consultant recommended two embryos to be transplanted which I thought was a little unusual as I’m under 30 so I’ve taken that as a negative sign.

I know I’m being eyore about the whole thing. I’ve not really posted on here but it’s been so helpful searching the boards and reading. For round two I’ll definitely be more active. Everyone seems so lovely.

Plus I’ve got a massive exam looming which isn’t helping!

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 11:30

@NaomiNatNat same with my clinic. How many dpt are you? Hope those tests get darker for you.

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 11:32

@PaxRomana I'd definitely wait for at least 8 full days after your transfer to test. If you can stretch it to 10 even better, I was just weak and thought what the hell, it's Monday 🙃
I hope it has worked for you. Keeping everything crossed. I don't think anyone feels confident at this stage

PaxRomana · 28/02/2022 11:41

I think I’m going to try and wait till the blood test. I’m on study leave so if it’s bad news I’ll be at home anyway. DH is working this weekend so it would be pretty bleak if it was negative and I was just rattling around the flat by myself.

NaomiNatNat · 28/02/2022 11:42

@PaxRomana I would wait a few more days closer to otd if I were you. I know the feeling though, do you have any symptoms?

@xreadytoglow I am 12dp5dt today.

Overlyanxious · 28/02/2022 11:44

@PaxRomana meant to say I hope you’re wrong and keeping my fingers crossed for you

PaxRomana · 28/02/2022 11:50

Thank you @Overlyanxious and @NaomiNatNat and everyone else.

Today is the first day I’ve felt fine since the collection (it took over 45 minutes so ended up with quite a lot of fentanyl which I don’t tolerate particularly well). No real symptoms other than feeling tired.

IE00 · 28/02/2022 11:59

@NaomiNatNat I'm so sorry to hear about your results. Fingers crossed for the bloods.

@xreadytoglow omg well done!!! Is this your first round? Sorry if you've mentioned before, there are just so many messages.

@LBalf fingers crossed for your late implanter!

@Bluehawaii29 what a lovely dream. It's just so hard. Please stay off social media and focus on yourself.

Sorry to hear about all the other negatives. Keep fighting the good fight my loves

W1ngingit · 28/02/2022 12:11

@Justawannabemam the clinic hasn’t said anything about 1/2 yet. They’re happy with the numbers as of yesterday so that’a what I’m focusing on. I’ll be interested to see what today’s figure is. I’m now 11 dpo. Are you just a day ahead? Im really not aiming for twins. One healthy baby is all I want! Not sure I could cope with twins, though we’d make it work! Grin

@PaxRomana when/ if you test is a matter of how well you cope with the wait and how you think you’d deal with a negative (though hopefully that won’t happen!). I tested on 7 dpo as I was so convinced that it’d failed that it was driving me to distraction!

@NaomiNatNat sorry. I hadn’t seen that. Al the best for the next. Maybe they’ll change something.

@Overlyanxious I felt exactly as you did and then caved and tested at 7dpt. Wishing you all the best!

IE00 · 28/02/2022 12:11

@NaomiNatNat I've just read that you've mentioned three times you don't do bloods sorry! I think we all misread what you said because I saw hpt result and call and just assumed it was a blood test. Sorry Blush

xreadytoglow · 28/02/2022 12:12

@IE00 thanks so much. yes this is my first round. Feeling very lucky. 🤍

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