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IVF May Part 2

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Bells3032 · 24/05/2021 15:39

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strawberrysummer19 · 01/06/2021 18:27

@Alexm06 ah I see. Well my day 5 was Monday so at least by tomorrow I'll see if mine have caught up.

Sounds like yours are already at a great stage though x

notyetamumbuttrying · 01/06/2021 20:39

@strawberrysummer19 @Alexm06 best of luck for both of you tomorrow!

A question for anyone who retrieved around 10 follicles, can I ask how many mature eggs you got and how many embryos were made? Did all the embryos make it to day 3/4/5? Just trying to set myself realistic expectations for the call tomorrow 😬 the attrition rate doesn't look great online, just want to see if I'm what I'm reading is reality or not. Thanks!

Alexm06 · 01/06/2021 20:49

@notyetamumbuttrying all I can do is give you what happened to me. On my last cycle I got 8 follicles I think it was 6 mature and 5 fertilised. All 5 made to day 5 got the 1 5AB transferred then got the call the next day the others didn't make it. This time had 12 mature 9 fertilised and 6 made it to day 5. I obviously am still awaiting the phone call. I would try and relax and don't listen to google haha everyone is different x

StrongEagle · 01/06/2021 21:01

@notyetamumbuttrying I think it's seems to be so different for everyone from what I am reading. I was doing a freeze all, I had 12 collected, 10 were mature and 8 fertilised, then 6 made it to day 3 so I felt pretty confident, on day 5 none were really ready for freezing and on day 6 the froze 2 at 4BC quality xxx

notyetamumbuttrying · 01/06/2021 21:02

Thank you @Alexm06 that's helpful! Good luck for tomorrow ♥️

notyetamumbuttrying · 01/06/2021 21:03

Ok thank you @StrongEagle when are you transferring? X

StrongEagle · 01/06/2021 21:07

@notyetamumbuttrying I just had my scan today to check my lining which is 9.6mm so all booked for my transfer on Monday morning! I am so excited as my cycle was a freeze all this is the important part I have been waiting for xxx

notyetamumbuttrying · 01/06/2021 21:20

@StrongEagle ooh very good! You must be thrilled! I'm hopefully just one day in front of you and will be transferring Sunday (if I get viable embryos). It's gonna be an exciting two weeks for us all!

StrongEagle · 01/06/2021 21:43

@notyetamumbuttrying that's great news!! I have no idea how I will keep occupied during the 2ww! 😂😂 I'm so impatient x

notyetamumbuttrying · 01/06/2021 21:45

@StrongEagle oh it'll be an absolute killer! It's why I haven't booked anytime off until the end of it. I'll prob need it then to grieve or celebrate!

strawberrysummer19 · 01/06/2021 22:33

How is everyone feeling after ET?

I feel absolutely fine after feeling so ill after EC

Bloating is even going and ive I've got used to the pessaries now thank god
Doing 3 a day sure they were making me feel yuck

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Tarsette · 02/06/2021 01:22

@notyetamumbuttrying everyone’s numbers are really different! It also depends on how many you start out with (the more, the higher the attrition rate. Nature’s way of being fair as my dr put it!). I got 25 eggs, 20 mature and 15 fertilised. They all made it to day 3 but then only 4 survived until day 5. I had them PGS tested and only one came back normal... I am having that one transferred on Friday!

notyetamumbuttrying · 02/06/2021 08:21

@Tarsette wow! Best of luck for Friday 🤞🏾🍀

strawberrysummer19 · 02/06/2021 09:24

Morning ladies

Unfortunately we had nothing to freeze ☹️
I was really hoping at least one just so that the one onboard has a better chance just because it was transferred so early before blastostage

What it does do is give us a realistic outlook that the one they did transfer probably doesn't have a great chance but I feel I'm glad I tried and gave it a chance - if we had waited then maybe we wouldn't have even got this chance

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VenusStarr · 02/06/2021 09:49

Hi everyone 👋

I'm sorry you didn't get anything yo freeze @strawberrysummer19 ❤️ Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞

So, today is my official test day and I tested positive Confused but the clinic were adamant that this was a failed cycle. I did a frer and a boots 25miu test and they're both showing lines. So the headfuck continues.... Waiting for the clinic to call me back x

Georgie87B · 02/06/2021 09:57

@strawberrysummer19 I'm so sorry to hear that you didn't get any to freeze.. 😔 Got everything crossed for you that the one you had transferred sticks!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

@VenusStarr blimey you have had one hell of an emotional roller-coaster!!! 🎢🤯 Really hope this faint line is the first sign of good things to come! Do you think they will redo your bloods again to confirm??

VenusStarr · 02/06/2021 10:02

I hope so @Georgie87B if my hcg was 5.2 on Monday, it should be at least 10 today (I think) but if a 25miu is picking it up, then it is possibly higher? 🤔 But I just can't help think that at effectively 16dpo, it should be blazing and my hcg should've been higher on Monday. I think it tried to implant on Saturday. I've just done a progesterone pessary, just in case. My head is 🤯🤯

notyetamumbuttrying · 02/06/2021 10:06

@strawberrysummer19 so sorry to hear but everything crossed for the one on board still!
@VenusStarr oh wow! How very confusing!

Had my call and 8 fertilised. Transfer booked for Sunday. No more updates until then 😬

strawberrysummer19 · 02/06/2021 10:51

@notyetamumbuttrying that's great numbers ! Roll on Sunday. I didn't get any update until transfer date either.

@VenusStarr that is a real rollercoaster of emotions! Keep us updated with what the clinic say.

@Alexm06 how are you today? X

notyetamumbuttrying · 02/06/2021 11:23

@strawberrysummer19 did you have a 50% attrition rate on transfer day?

RazzleDazz1e · 02/06/2021 11:29

Just had our call- not great news.... out of 13 eggs collected they could only work with 5 and only 1 fertilised. Will see what happens, but due an update call on Friday to see if transfer can take place. Complete waste of time.

Georgie87B · 02/06/2021 11:30

@notyetamumbuttrying ahh that's great news you have 8 fertilised! Bet your well chuffed! I also didn't get another update until transfer day and its so nerve wracking but no news is good news! Now to take it easy and look after yourself ready for transfer 😁 hope the next few days fly by for you x

Georgie87B · 02/06/2021 11:35

@RazzleDazz1e oh I'm so sorry to hear your day 1 update wasn't great news... But your not out of the running just yet. 🤞REALLY hope this 1 stays strong and you are able to transfer! Will they aim for a day 3 transfer then??

strawberrysummer19 · 02/06/2021 11:38

@notyetamumbuttrying our transfer day was very disappointing unfortunately
We had 7 out of 9 fertilise then a call on transfer day which we were already at the clinic to be told none had made it to blastocyst! We were devastated
We did transfer 1 ( they have us option to transfer 1 or 2 anyway ) then left them to grow next 2 days which they did make it to blastocyst but not good enough to freeze sadly x

2mumlife · 02/06/2021 11:45

@strawberrysummer19 Sorry you didn't get anything to freeze. Do they know why so many didn't make it?

@RazzleDazzle That's though news but hold out luck - I only had 2 mature eggs at EC and both made it to day 5. Quality over quantity!

@notyetamumbuttrying Good day 1 update, thats a long wait not to hear anything else until transfer day.

@VenusStarr Saw your update on the other thread about positive. Can't imagine the confusion going on at the moment!

I'm getting impatient for lining scan tomorrow, really hoping things are looking good and we can start countdown to ET. Feels like such a long time between starting meds and first scan and I want to know whats going on in there! Was meant to be in a work meeting all afternoon but its just been cancelled so going to need to find other distractions!