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FET cycle buddies May/June

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Bluemeadowbaby · 26/04/2021 21:27

Hi ☺️
Just starting up a little thread if anyone wants to join me on their FET journey for May/June. I've never had a FET cycle before and wondered if anyone was or is on their way with this journey to offer support and guidance x

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starkid · 19/05/2021 19:31

@Bluemeadowbaby - thank you! We've got my husbands birthday and a mini UK break away to an activity hotel, so plenty of things to be distracting us!

Bluemeadowbaby · 19/05/2021 19:35

@starkid ooo this sounds like fun! What's an activity hotel?! X

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starkid · 19/05/2021 19:38

@Bluemeadowbaby - oh like a centerparcs vibe! So lots of activities you can do like archery, sports, crafts, spa etc :) got a spa treatment booked in too so should be fun and also chill

2mumlife · 19/05/2021 20:10

@starkid I would kill for a hot stone massage!

Bluemeadowbaby · 19/05/2021 20:13

@starkid this sounds perfect! I second @2mumlife the spa sounds wonderful 😍 x

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starkid · 19/05/2021 20:32

I'm having an all over salt brush exfoliation and moisturise so should be good :D

Verbena87 · 19/05/2021 20:44

Oooh @starkid that sounds dreamy!

Gardenlady543 · 19/05/2021 20:59

@starkid @2mumlife you guys have made me want to book a spa treatment now, I'm not sure there one open near me though!

2mumlife · 19/05/2021 21:48

@starkid That sounds amazing! @Gardenlady543 I'm just dreaming here!

Bluemeadowbaby · 19/05/2021 22:13

@starkid that sounds like what dreams are made of 😍 enjoy! X

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Pingupp · 20/05/2021 12:29

Ladies. Hope you are all well. Very jealous of the spa chat!
Did any of you feel knackered when on the treatment? I started my short cycle drugs on sat and I am so tired today. Really struggling!! X

Hoping4baby21 · 20/05/2021 12:59

@Pingupp I'm on day 4 (starter on Monday) and I think I'm feeling more tired than normal. Having good sleeps, getting tired early and then wake up refreshed but by midday I'm ready for a nap lol! Could be coincidence though.

Tarsette · 20/05/2021 13:30

@Pingupp I’m on day 4 as well and also starting to feel tired. I always get that on stims, first few days are fine and then super tired until trigger! I have a scan tomorrow to see how the lining is growing, really hoping I won’t get any bad surprises. I have chart with my lining measurements for all previous cycles (I have had over 10 in total) so I know immediately if a measurement is good or not!

Pingupp · 20/05/2021 13:33

@Tarsette @Hoping4baby21
Thanks ladies. I don't feel so alone now! I have got my lining scan tomorrow and if it's where it needs to be then the drugs ramp up from sat. I will try and rest as much as I can ahead of transfer ( scheduled 2nd June ) and now I know tiredness is a common thing - I'll try and be easier on myself and not try to. E superwoman!!
Good luck at your scan x

Babyvibes · 20/05/2021 14:16

Hello ladies Hope you don't mind me joining 👋
I'm in my 2ww right now. 8 days until test day. Just wondering if anyone els is at similar timing?

Did any of you have any symptoms or signs?

Thank you 😊

Bluemeadowbaby · 20/05/2021 18:03

@Pingupp hope you're having a nice relaxing weekend this weekend specially if you're feeling exhausted. When I did stims and meds I felt really tired if I didn't drink a lot of water 🤔 x

@Babyvibes welcome to the group! Wishing you lots of luck for your tww have you anything nice planned to keep you distracted? When I was pregnant with my little boy (fresh cycle) I - so sorry for the tmi - I just couldn't stop farting 😂🙈 and 7dp5dt I woke up feeling like af was coming I was so devastated. I did a test that day and the faintest bfp the first I've ever seen. But symptom wise I didn't actual get the usual "symptoms" until around 8 weeks which really surprised me. The cycle that failed I had every "symptom" but bfn x

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starkid · 20/05/2021 18:16

My day 7 blastocyst was only transferred 2 days ago, but I swear something strange was happening in my lower abdomen very early this morning, like twinges/cramps. I'm really trying not to read into it too much as possible implantation cramps, but it was abnormal for me!

Hoping4baby21 · 20/05/2021 18:45

@Bluemeadowbaby good tip about drinking enough water I'm behind on my water intake today and I'm feeling EXTRA tired! I thought I was making it up as I'm only 4 days in but a few people are saying this is normal.

@starkid that is exciting hoping it is implantation for you!

coffeewithmilk · 20/05/2021 19:19

@starkid I am only 1dp5dt and I felt w weird bubbling popping sensation really low down in my pelvis - never felt this before. I am hoping it was implantation - just have to wait and see!

Babyvibes · 20/05/2021 20:39

@coffeewithmilk I felt this today like a little flutter very low down. And cramps most of the day but it has eased now.
@bluemeadowbaby I've been farting so much haha my partner says I smell worse than the dog 🤣 oppss sorry love lol. I'm feeling very tired tonight but think that's because I couldn't sleep last night for cramps.
Ah its all so exciting, I dint want to look into it too much but its nice to share and know people are having same feelings.

2mumlife · 21/05/2021 16:23

Urgh! Jealous here, I am still waiting for AF to come CD35 here and bored of it now. I ended up CD41 last month after unsuccessful IVF so I'm really hoping I'm not waiitng that long again this month.

Verbena87 · 21/05/2021 17:44

Stressy here. Starting day 21 injections here this evening but have had weird cramps/Fanny daggers all day and am worried about my period arriving before it’s meant to and scuppering things.

StrongEagle · 21/05/2021 17:48

Hello All, can I join in as I am officially starting FET as of yesterday.
It's all happened so quickly as I haven't read anywhere of someone starting FET on the first period after EC (which was 12th May), I didn't think anything of it until I have been reading everyone else's journeys and now I am scared it's too soon, but I guess I have to trust my consultant. I started 4 x 2mg of progynova and have my scan on 1st June. I know I need to be more positive but from my freeze all cycle, after 12 eggs collected I only have 2 blasts at a low grade of 4BC. I am currently obsessed with researching embryo grades to try and keep my spirits up but at 38 time isn't on my side either x
I'm happy to be back on the journey again, but worried it's too soon and obsessed with embryo grades x x x
This journey is all consuming, I literally can't think of anything else x

Tarsette · 21/05/2021 18:06

@StrongEagle Don’t worry about grades! If they freeze them, it means they are viable and 4BC us not a bad grade at all! I just had my embryos PGS tested and the best graded turned out be abnormal whereas my only normal one was a lesser grade! I also noticed from a previous egg collection where an embryo scope was used that a 4CB was considered better by my clinic than a 3BB due to how it had been progressing.

starkid · 21/05/2021 18:06

@2mumlife - ahh my two cycles after failed IVF were both ultra long too, so frustrating!!

@StrongEagle - Keep your chin up, plenty of lower grade blastocysts become babies