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ABC IVF thread continued

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StarryHannah · 28/03/2021 11:33

Our other thread is now full so thought I would start this one to continue the chat.

@Beaglemum91 I'm waiting for my period so I can start meds for FET so that is really helpful information about the embryo transfer process. Thank you. Did you have your partner on Facetime or anything for it?

@Icsi2021 so excited for you xxx

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Becky105 · 05/08/2021 15:30

@kittyfantastico21 omg!!!! Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥂🥂🥂 that's the best news! So happy for you.

Also thanks for your suggestions re not drinking, there are some good ones in there.

Awww I'm just so delighted for you!

Hopeful1234567 · 05/08/2021 15:39

@kittyfantastico21 omg this is amazing!!!! So so happy for you both 💓💓💓💓

Clapham4 · 05/08/2021 16:54

@kittyfantastico21 AMAZING NEWS!!!😍 You both must be over the moon!!! I’m not going to lie I got a bit worried when I checked the group earlier and you hadn’t updated. I’m so relieved to hear your good news (even though I don’t know you!!😂) xx

kittyfantastico21 · 05/08/2021 17:06

@Becky105 @Hopeful1234567 @Clapham4 thank you! It's so nice to share the excitement with you all, especially as we haven't told family and friends that we're doing IVF. We're both so happy, although to be honest it doesn't feel like it's really true yet. I'm sure that will come (probably alongside the sickness, etc...).

@Clapham4 oh no, sorry for the suspense!! I just didn't trust that the home test wasn't some kind of mistake until the clinic confirmed it! I was scared if I said I was pregnant I'd have to take it back later haha.

lawandgin · 05/08/2021 17:12

@kittyfantastico21 this is the best news, it's genuinely made my day! Like @Clapham4 I was worried when you hadn't updated the thread, although I was secretly (somehow) pretty convinced it had worked for you! What happens now, do you just wait for the early scan? How pregnant are you? So many questions, so much excitement! xx

kittyfantastico21 · 05/08/2021 17:37

@lawandgin thank you! According to the Flo IVF/FET due date calculator I am 4 weeks pregnant today, and baby is due mid-April. Yes, just got the nervous wait for the scan now. I haven't booked it yet but it should be in about 3 weeks. That feels like such a long time away but I'm going to try as hard as I can to enjoy being pregnant and stay away from google!

kittyfantastico21 · 06/08/2021 09:10

@lawandgin hope you have good progress at your scan today and finally get to trigger!

lawandgin · 06/08/2021 15:05

@kittyfantastico21 thank you so much, it went well and I am in for collection on Monday. Just waiting for the call to find out what time and when to trigger tomorrow. Just one more day of bemfola and cetrotide today and then final injections tomorrow evening, yay! By the way, mid-April babies are the best... Wink

@Clapham4 and @Becky105 how are you both today?

kittyfantastico21 · 06/08/2021 17:07

@lawandgin good news! You're nearly there!

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 09:07

Guys I caved and tested this morning 9dp5dt, have a faint line. The head fuckery is insane! Like if it was really positive wouldn’t it be much darker by now? I did have a weird pain last night so wondering if that was something not working out 😩

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lawandgin · 07/08/2021 09:30

@Clapham4 I am by no means a test expert (having been married to someone infertile for 9 years!) but don't they say a line is a line? Can you get a FRER? Oh my goodness the excitement!

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 09:35

Thanks @lawandgin I’ve never ever got a line or faint line so I’ve no idea🙈 It’s a clearer if I shine my flashlight on it. And DP can see it. I cried for a bit because I was like why can’t anything be straight forward!!! Is it real or not🥴
Have FRERs arriving today so will hopefully get more of a definite answer xx

lawandgin · 07/08/2021 09:40

@Clapham4 Compared to some of the squinters I see posted on here it's really obvious! I think I have the same HPTs (my gynaecologist made me test before I started a course of northisterone once) and I remember they are not very sensitive, so fingers crossed for the FRER. Did you save your FMU?

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 10:02

I didn’t🙄! I was so deflated even doing the test but I just wanted it over with. If the clinic was open tomorrow we’d be doing the blood test then, but it’s on Monday. I think the sensitivity of this one is 25mlu. Annoyingly it was the only test I had in my TTC drawer because FRER didn’t arrive on time

lawandgin · 07/08/2021 10:13

@Clapham4 will you try a FRER later with a hold or wait until the morning? Either way I have my fingers crossed for you 💛 x

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 10:26

@lawandgin I’ll hold and do one later. Can’t wait around for Amazon to deliver🙈 so going to head to the shop in a while and get one.

kittyfantastico21 · 07/08/2021 10:27

@Clapham4 omg there’s definitely a line there!! Fingers crossed the FRER will have a stronger line! 9dp5dt is quite early still (other clinics seem to test at 13 or 14 days past) so it could just be that that test isn’t sensitive enough. I have everything crossed for you that you’ll get a conclusive positive very soon!

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 12:55

Thanks @kittyfantastico21!

I bought some more sensitive tests just now. So must now hold my wee as long as possible 🤞🏼

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 15:31

OMFG

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Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 15:32

Sorry! Pressed send too soon. I’m in utter shock!

lawandgin · 07/08/2021 15:41

YES @Clapham4 !!! I'm so pleased for you!!

kittyfantastico21 · 07/08/2021 15:52

Aaahhhhh amazing!! Such brilliant news. I’m so happy for you and your husband! I hope the shock wears off soon and you can start believing it and enjoying being pregnant!

kittyfantastico21 · 07/08/2021 15:53

@Clapham4 oops, I forgot to tag you, sorry!

Clapham4 · 07/08/2021 20:45

Thanks so much @lawandgin & @kittyfantastico21! I’m still just floating through the day😂

Hopeful1234567 · 07/08/2021 20:51

@Clapham4 OMG THIS IS amazing!!!!!! So happy for you!!!!!! 💓💓💓