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1st IVF mid April

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strawberrysummer19 · 24/03/2021 18:51

Hi

Thought it would be nice to start a thread for anyone starting IVF next month

My period is due mid April

Just finishing off getting last few swabs and bloods done ✅

We've got a prescription so will be getting our drugs.

Then we are all set !

Anyone else ? For me it's my 1st cycle ivf
38yrs
Unexplained fertility with 1 previous child ( she's 9yrs)

Feeling excited to start this journey x

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Fuzzybump · 25/04/2021 23:11

@Babyvibes - try not to stress (easy said than done!) i had the same spotted for 3 days but called them everyday 4 day full flow came n I went in for scan but clinics are all different.

@Sungirl11 - congratulations on PUPO, am only 5dpo5dt i knew it was too early just couldn't help myself. Is so hard in lockdown as well sure it would go.quicker if I could do things!

@Kamiros - u are doing so well, pls send me some of your patience!

Fuzzybump · 25/04/2021 23:14

@IVFbabyF - its really tough isn't it, am trying to stop obsessing over it but feel like I have unleashed something now I have tested 🙈.

Sungirl11 · 26/04/2021 03:27

@Kamiros thank you!!
@Fuzzybump i know! I don't reassure anyone I will have the patience to wait hahah 🙈 (5dpt even less so that bfn really doesn't mean anything! Keep it up!) ❤️

Babyvibes · 26/04/2021 09:57

@fuzzybump 7dpo is still very early. But I don't know how hard it is.
Had my scan and all is fine just have to ring when I get heavier. Then we start on day 3 of my cycle.

HopingForRainbow2021 · 26/04/2021 10:26

Hey everyone :)

Congrats to those PUPO and with BFP's! And lots of luck to everyone awaiting EC and ET :)

I have kept a bit quiet early in this cycle, as it got off to a slow start, and there were some concerns about my follicles not developing well. I had egg collection yesterday though and ended up with 11 eggs, which I am over the moon with. Last time we had 10 eggs collected and 5 fertilised... I had the call this morning and 10 of the 11 have fertilised, so I am feeling so much more hopeful now. Last time we ended up with one average blast transferred on day 5, but it didn't stick, so this time I am just hoping hoping hoping for a good string embie that sticks, and maybe even one to freeze. Really hoping :)

Sungirl11 · 26/04/2021 11:27

@HopingForRainbow2021 congrats! That is a great number!
Hope you are feeling ok and speedy recovery from ec.
I had only 6 and 5 fertilised. Ended up with 2 good blastos. So yeah! Hoping you do get a few nice blastos! Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

Fuzzybump · 26/04/2021 12:29

@HopingForRainbow2021- congratulations on your EC and 🤞for you x

@babvibes, @Sungirl11, thank you I am trying to be good (its not working lol 🙈) only have to wait until Thursday morning but it's just crackers how long every day is. But I am giving myself a kick in the backside today n gonna try n get busy even if its walking for a few hours!

HopingForRainbow2021 · 26/04/2021 12:41

@Sungirl11 that is so brilliant! Thank you - I am really trying to be more positive this time, and hearing lovely news like that really helps! Lots of luck to you :)

@Fuzzybump thank you :) x Aw I really feel for you - the 2ww is the hardest part I think. Be strong - Thursday WILL get here. Enjoy your walk and be kind to yourself x

Crazydoglady123 · 26/04/2021 12:45

That's brilliant numbers @HopingForRainbow2021!

I've just had my first stims scan and have 11 follicles on right ovary, 8 follicles on left.

9 of the follicles are over 10mm

My left ovary is annoyingly sitting on top of my uterus. She said she hopes it moves before EC 😬

Sungirl11 · 26/04/2021 12:46

@Fuzzybump did you have any symptoms after ET?
I have felt really well during the whole process, surprisingly, and today is 1dpo5dt and i'm dizzy, bloated, fatigued.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ i read these are all progesterone symptoms so not worried, but aw man! All kicked at same time!

Babyvibes · 26/04/2021 13:41

Fab news @HopingForRainbow2021. Everything crossed for you.
Hang in there ladies who are in their 2ww yous have got this ❤

Fuzzybump · 26/04/2021 15:29

@Sungirl11 - yes I was still really bloated, tired and crampy for a few days after ET. I think part of it is come down from all the injections and ovaries settling. I am still a bit tired and get random cramps but not constant. The bloating has really subsided now which am happy about it does go down yay lol. I do feel a bit dizzy and sick almost every time for an hour or so after the pessaries but I read this is ok.

The things we put ourselves through ladies!

HopingForRainbow2021 · 27/04/2021 10:20

@Crazydoglady123 thank you! That sounds like a great place to be with your follicles - really nice uniform development if that makes sense. Mine always seem to be pretty erratic! Hopefully that ovary will shift for you. When are you having another scan? x

@Babyvibes thank you :) Hope things are starting to move along for you x

Kamiros · 27/04/2021 10:45

I love reading the positive news on here, always makes me feel better.

I'm not 6dp5dt and struggling a bit today. I feel very heavy in my tummy like before af which doesn't feel like a good sign. Trying to remind myself that hormones do crazy things and to keep hope. Sending you all positive vibes.

Fuzzybump · 27/04/2021 15:04

@kamiros - hope you are ok, if it helps I feel exactly the same like af is coming, am still holding out hope x

Kamiros · 27/04/2021 15:33

@fuzzybump Thank you. I'm ok, managed to throw myself into work for a bit to take my mind off it.

This part is harder than the rest put together I think.

Babyvibes · 27/04/2021 23:29

Feeling so stressed with my AF since Friday I've been spotting and past 2 days I've got up and had a little.more each day then by afternoon it just seems to go to nothing. I've never had one like this before. Praying it starts properly in the next few days so we don't have to wait another 2 month. I dont think I can cope getting this close to have to abandon it

Kamiros · 28/04/2021 09:10

@babyvibes Aw I'm sorry, I think our bodies love to torment us. Hoping it sorts itself out soon.

How is everyone doing?

Fuzzybump · 28/04/2021 11:24

@Babyvibes - I hope it sorts itself out for you, like kamiros said our bodies are just thrown out of synch with all this

@kamiros- I honestly don't know how I am at the minute, bloods in the morning and I got this today but still feel like af is coming

1st IVF mid April
Crazydoglady123 · 28/04/2021 11:38

@Fuzzybump congrats! It's so hard as everyone says the progesterone side effects are so confusing.

@HopingForRainbow2021 thank you. Just had it today

Second stims scan done and now have 18 follicles over 10mm so EC booked in for Monday. Back in Friday for last stims scan. Feeling really nauseous today too 😬

Kamiros · 28/04/2021 11:39

@fuzzybump Ooh that's exciting and you know the trigger is out with having bfn before. I think its common for it to feel the same though. When I got my bfp with my mc I was convinced af was coming.

I'm desperate to test but it's only been 7 days since my last injection so too scared to.

Sungirl11 · 28/04/2021 11:46

@Fuzzybump congrats!! Exciting times 😍😍😍
I'm only 3dp5dt and already feel like AF is coming, as per cycle she is due today, but started a week after with long protocol... all very weird!

@Crazydoglady123 good!! Monday is a big day! Your scans sound great too 😊

@Kamiros when is your beta day?

I feel quite fatigued when i go up stairs and, jesus!, very tired! I sleep loads and i deep sleep! I have never slept this much haha
Also have this awkward feeling of heavy tummy like before af comes. And get dizzy in a few occasions... but this must be all progesterone effects.

Were you girls told to test before beta day? Or just go in for beta directly?

Xx

Kamiros · 28/04/2021 11:50

@sungirl11 Mine is Monday. I was specifically told not to test and just to go in for bloods. I feel the same way, so tired, really weird dreams and mild nausea. I can't read into any of it as it means nothing but I'm driving myself mad today.

Sungirl11 · 28/04/2021 11:52

@Kamiros same as me then! Was told not to test beforehand too! 🙈
Mine is on Friday (but next week 😱)! It's just sooo far away! I have my bday and wed anniversary in between! Hahaha i feel i want to test so if it's pos i will celebrate even happier, but if it's neg.. then it will be sadder hahaha 🙈

Fuzzybump · 28/04/2021 11:54

thank you ladies, I don't want to get too excited until bloods confirm tomorrow, I tested yesterday also and got a very faint on clear blue the line is much stronger today tho I am 8dp5dt. (Shouldn't have tested but couldn't help it!)

@crazydoglady123 - Hope everything goes well for you Monday, I think ginger is supposed to help with nausea x