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Oct/nov ivf buddies

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ivfhope3 · 02/10/2020 16:49

Hey I thought we could do this one as it's going More October/ November :)

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Freezerbump · 20/11/2020 15:23

@West2401 I'm in the same boat poppet, thought it had stopped but just started again a bit so I've no idea what's going on down there, I'm committed to the sofa for the weekend and I'll just keep on with the pessaries, just remember it's out of your control, we just have to ride this rapid out I think xx

Sex dream involved a range of people, apparently I'm very popular in dream land!

dragonfly1978 · 20/11/2020 20:26

@West2401 thinking of you, it is so hard not to worry about everything isn't it?! I can't believe we have made it this long without testing though!!!

dragonfly1978 · 21/11/2020 07:19

@West2401 I caved and tested at 7dp5dt this morning and have a positive. Now I am going to have to test every day I guess to see if it stays!

West2401 · 21/11/2020 13:27

@Freezerbump I'm just going to take it easy for the next few days, walks and sofa time. The bleeding seems to be over just feeling nauseous and achey now, there's nothing I can do to change the result. You look after yourself.

@dragonfly1978 that's amazing news, congratulations!!!! I hope you're feeling ok 😘

Freezerbump · 21/11/2020 19:45

@West2401 glad your feeling better poppet x
@dragonfly1978 hurray! Congratulations:)

West2401 · 21/11/2020 21:13

@Freezerbump started bleeding again. So fed up 😞

Freezerbump · 22/11/2020 09:41

@West2401 how are you this morning? Try not to panic, I've been on and off for about 6 days.. suddenly wondered if I've been poking the pessaries up too high...
Yours is the right time for implantation and especially if it's black, when's your OTD?

West2401 · 22/11/2020 13:51

@Freezerbump I just can't keep up with it. It keeps stopping and starting. There's never much and it's mostly been black/brown and weirdly stringy - only been two spots of red.

I'm on injections rather than pessaries so can't even blame those 😞 just sat on the sofa, keep getting twinges and feeling sickly so feeling really low. OTD isn't until Wednesday which feels ages away still. I think the fact that I don't bleed has just thrown me. I'm not used to it at the best of times so this just makes it even more upsetting xxx

West2401 · 22/11/2020 13:51

Ps I'm sorry to be such a misery! I hope you're feeling ok today xxx

Freezerbump · 22/11/2020 14:04

@West2401 the wait is so long coming I know, I have everything crossed for you chick xx

I feel a bit bleurgh today, like a hangover with none of the fun bit! Spotting seems to have settled a bit but who knows what's going on, just have to make it through to the 8th now and see what the scan has to say.

My sis in law has just popped in to check on me and said I look shattered so it must be a girl as they suck your energy out! she's ever the optimist! (And mum of 2 girls!)

West2401 · 22/11/2020 22:30

@Freezerbump thanks lovely, just counting down, I'm starting to see a really weird pattern - I don't bleed until I have my evening injection, have a spot and then nothing again.

I've started getting really light headed and feeling sickly on an afternoon too 😕

I hope you've had time to relax this weekend. Haha what a lovely sentiment from your sister in law!

dragonfly1978 · 23/11/2020 09:52

@West2401 when is your OTD?? My test is still positive this morning at 9dp5dt but still quite faint which I am worried about.

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West2401 · 23/11/2020 14:06

@dragonfly1978 that's a good positive especially this early on! Got everything crossed for you.
OTD is Wednesday, it feels like a lifetime away. I keep resisting the urge to go get a test but I don't want to get a false positive. I've had one before and know how awful it feels so just going to hold strong and wait it out

Freezerbump · 23/11/2020 15:57

@dragonfly1978 looks good to me, if you do it every other day you can see a bigger difference (I did that once :/)
@West2401 how're you today chick? Only 1.5 sleeps to go, if you're anything like I was, didn't seem real until OTD daft but true! Crossing everything for you both x

West2401 · 23/11/2020 21:34

@Freezerbump I'm ok. Just really tired, light headed and weird nausea. Trying not to be too down in the dumps and staying distracted with work. I'm dreading going for my test - I'm in at 8 but won't find out results until lunchtime. Killer. How are you feeling today?

Freezerbump · 23/11/2020 22:00

@West2401 oh do you have to go in? Can't you just POAS?
I'm ok, nothing new here, still a bit of brown on a panty liner over the course of the day but I'm pretty resigned now, what will be will be, all will become clear in a couple of weeks.. that is if I can get out of the door by then as I'm partial to Welsh cakes at the moment...

Disappointingly no more sex dreams as yet... fingers crossed for tonight!

Hang in there chick

West2401 · 24/11/2020 09:08

@Freezerbump yeah, has to be a blood test in the hospital. Just keep thinking by this time tomorrow it'll all be over 😞

@dragonfly1978 do you have to go in for your test?

dragonfly1978 · 24/11/2020 09:15

@West2401 no just have to POAS and ring them, no bloods. I haven't heard of having to do that! How are you feeling??

Freezerbump · 24/11/2020 09:19

@West2401 chin up angel, all may be well and then you can move on to the next phase of panic with me :) are you in the uk? I take it it's an hcg blood test? Hopefully you hear back the same day?

West2401 · 24/11/2020 10:44

@dragonfly1978 that's a much better way of doing it. @Freezerbump yes it's HCG, I'm dreading it. Just feeling a bit sickly and achey today but trying to stay distracted. How are you both?

Freezerbump · 24/11/2020 10:52

@West2401 I'm good, although as of yesterday tea tastes like soap..... as tea is my joy.. this makes me unhappy and I haven't got a cold which sometimes ruins tea.. spotting seems to have settled again but who knows!
2 weeks today and all will become clear.... waiting is awesome...

Freezerbump · 24/11/2020 20:01

Good luck tomorrow @West2401 I'll be thinking of you, let me know how it goes, here for an ear whatever happens but I'm sending many positive vibes xx

dragonfly1978 · 24/11/2020 20:14

@West2401 good luck tomorrow!! Will be thinking of you x

West2401 · 24/11/2020 20:50

@Freezerbump @dragonfly1978 thanks lovelies. I'm not feeling very positive but who knows.
@dragonfly1978 have you had any symptoms at all? xxx

dragonfly1978 · 24/11/2020 20:58

@West2401 only symptom is having to go to the loo all the time, not sure if that is the progesterone though? Still showing positive on an frer but line no darker yet so am worried about that

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