Oct/nov ivf buddies

[ivfhope3]

Hey I thought we could do this one as it's going More October/ November :)

@jm2020
@Mctm123
@Lolly2020
@Anxiousbuthopeful

@BKB27
@Raggity19

@West2401 official test day isn't until the 27th, next Friday!!! When is yours?

@dragonfly1978 mines next Wednesday 25th. I'm sure i think about it at least 10 times every hour so I dread to think what I'll be like by next week 😂

Just to update you, had my HCG checked again yesterday as still been spotting and they’ve gone right down 😭 I’ve come off the progesterone and just waiting to miscarry naturally now. I’m so so sad

Thank you for all your support throughout this, wishing you all so much luck going forward xxx

Ladies beware the early test! I started at 5dp5dt then had to keep going! Apparently you should be clear of trigger etc by 9dp5dt but try and wait if you can... or buy shares in first response...

@Raggity19 oh poppet I'm so sorry how far are you?

@Raggity19 I'm so sorry to hear this, sending lots of love your way. Be kind to yourself 💕

@Freezerbump I did have this thought! I'm going to try to just hold off (emphasis on try!)

@Freezerbump I was 6 weeks yesterday ☹️

@Raggity19 am so sorry, thinking of you x

@Raggity19 I'm so sorry, I had a weird bleed yesterday which scared the shit out of me so I'm being very cautious too. Be kind to yourself and just chill out, thinking of you xx

Thanks ladies xxx

@Freezerbump I spotted for 2 weeks continuously and researched it daily haha bleeding is so, so common especially within IVF so try not to worry. I know it’s easier said than done! Xxx

What worries me is that if this one hasn’t worked, how can our others in the freezer work? Does anyone have any positive stories re this, am I just overthinking

@Raggity19 every embryo is deferent, just remember that. My friend had FET, her first round ended in miscarriage at 7W, this week she's due to have her 12 week scan with her second transfer and all has been going well. Don't lose hope xxx

@West2401 thanks I needed to hear that xxx

@West2401 how are you doing? I am not having any symptoms at all even from the progesterone so have convinced myself today that it hasn't worked 😥

@dragonfly1978 finding it tough! I know it's only been 4 days but I feel like I'm watching for any signs. I'm really fatigued, boobs are sore and had a few cramps but I've also been on progesterone for 10 days now so trying not to read in to it.

I keep talking to my bloody stomach like a loon 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Raggity19

Devastating news, I'm heartbroken for you. The whole thing is so tenuous, when is the right time to actually relax and get excited?!

I'll be thinking of you and I hope you may get another chance at this very soon.

Thanks @EasterBunny7 I felt more positive last night but just feel devastated again today. The bleedings stopped which just seems even more cruel, I just want it to hurry up ☹️

@BrandyM

Day 5 transfer for me. I didn't have many embryos make it though . I think the whole day 3 fiasco was a caution if I'd lost loads back then.

Officially pupo. Let the wait begin.

@all

What's the earliest you can do a pregnancy test without it being a false positive from all the hormone medications?

Barely been a day and I'm already thinking about it.

@all so I'm still spotting on and off... after nothing interesting happening during the 2ww I have a feeling this isn't a good sign.. light pink/brown and not enough for a pad, no period pains just a bit tight in the foof area so we shall see...

@EasterBunny7 allegedly 9dp5dt you should be clear, although I tested at 5 :/

@Freezerbump you epu not see you? Xx

@Freezerbump Will your local epu not see you to put your mind at ease? xx

@jm2020 I'll give it a few days and see how it goes, nothing I can do about it either way really, too early for a scan to see anything so I'll just wait it out I think

@Freezerbump bless you :( how far along are you? xx

@EasterBunny7 I tested at 5 too. But I did regret it as I then had to test every day and I was obsessing over the darkness of the lines!! Just try and give it as long as you can, I know how hard it is though.

Thinking of you @Freezerbump if you can’t get into you EPU, could you book an early private scan just to put your mind at rest? If they do an internal one they should be able to see the gestational sac by now and possibly more Xx