Sept IVF/FET Part 2

[Lemongrass1]

For more chat!

Just had call from clinic to confirm it's a no on my blood test. Did most of my grieving yesterday as I was pretty sure if it was a negative on FRER at 10dp5dt there was no baby in there.

This is my 3rd failed FET now (first fresh one was successful) so I'm going to push for investigation into that.

Best of luck to all those PUPO for your test results

@thefishthatcouldwish
I’ll be 7 weeks at my first viability scan which is mid October. I keep forgetting I’m pregnant and I’m enjoying feeling normal right now. I think once a few symptoms start then you’ll feel calmer as they are a sign things are happening!!

Understandable to feel panicky as you are still getting used to things. Try to enjoy knowing you are pregnant and whatever happens at the scan you are strong, have got a positive result and you will then be at the next step of your journey.

Make yourself a big cuppa 🌟😁💗 xx xx

I’m so sorry @Learningtofeminist. That must be very tough. Hopefully you can get some answers x

@JenniferRo28 I'll be 10dp5dt tomorrow. Sorry to hear you're feeling the same way, it's crap. Fingers crossed for you on Monday.

@Learningtofeminist I'm so sorry. There aren't words really are there? Hope you're as ok as you can be, I think you're right to want more investigations. Take care x

@Learningtofeminist
I didn’t see your message earlier.

Gosh as others have said no words at all. You poor thing. Have you got someone supporting you? With time you will get answers and feel a little stronger but right now just rest, breathe, cry, say nothing. Do what you need to do xx xx

@thefishthatcouldwish I am exactly the same. I convinced myself it was ectopic because I have a pain that comes and goes on my left side, not a severe pain or really sharp but I just can't relax!
I have been exhausted and napping but waking up at 5am wide awake! I think it is the progesterone.

@Learningtofeminist I am really sorry to hear your news. I think it is completely reasonable to ask for more investigations.

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip congratulations! X

@Rumtopf best of luck for tomorrow. Do you remember my last cycle? I literally wanted to stop taking the meds I was so convinced it had failed and actually thought the first bfp was an evaporation line. I have everything crossed for you. Xx

@Learningtofeminist am so sorry take the time you need.

@Learningtofeminist I’m so sorry 😔 take care ❤️

Well after feeling down in the dumps all day and having a good cry when I got in from work I pulled myself together and went for a massive walk and feeling much better for it. Fingers crossed I will be in a more positive mindset tomorrow. Only 6 sleeps to go haha.

Me again popping in with a question - I'm on day 9 of stims and my boobs are massive and sensitive. I assume this is just a side effect of all the hormones running through my body.

Anyone else have this?

Another follicle scan tomorrow.

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I’m about 2 days behind you @unknownscot, don’t think I can cope with my boobs getting any bigger! Have had some serious ewcm the last couple of days though. Also the inside of my nose has gone really dry for some reason

@Learningtofeminist I'm so sorry. As others have said, take care of yourself and yes, push for investigations if you want to.

@Rumtopf good luck today!

@Sunbird24 now you mention it that happened to my nose as well, I didn’t think it could be related but maybe it is, I’m 9dp5dt and it’s still not quite back to normal x

BFN this morning so that's us out. I am so sad and angry. Nothing else made it to freeze either so we're finished. Thanks for everyone's support with this and I wish you all luck. X

@Rumtopf I’m so sorry 😔 xx

@Learningtofeminist @Rumtopf I’m so so sorry 😢 Thinking of you both at this shit time ❤️ Take care and allow yourselves to grieve. xx

@Rumtopf I am so sorry to hear your news. Take the time to look after yourself.

I’m so sorry @Rumtopf. It really isn’t fair. Look after yourself x

@AutumnHoping @UnicornPuff @Eggling @Minster2012 thank you for your comments, they have made me feel a bit better. Also, surely the clinic wouldn't freeze and then transfer an embryo that doesn't stand a chance.

I will try and be more a bit more positive! x

@Learningtofeminist @Rumtopf I'm so sorry for you both 😢 this is such a difficult / unfair process x

@Rumtopf So sorry to read this. Sending you my thoughts.

@Sunbird24 Yeah, I'm the same on all aspects. I'm back in on Friday for another follicle scan - don't know how I'll cope with another few days of injections 😂

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@LJM83 you’re right - they wouldn’t. I had an A embryo thawed but they discarded it as it wasn’t good enough to transfer. It just didn’t thaw out properly. Wishing you lots of luck x