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Fledglings May 2021 thread: MAYbe we’ll keep our routines going as the outside world opens up 😊

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halfhope · 30/04/2021 16:26

Welcome fledglings to May’s Flylady thread – many, many thanks to ED for her expert guidance through April 2021.

All are welcome and especially Newbies. Don’t be shy in making yourselves known because we are a friendly bunch.
We follow Flylady’s system for house and sanity maintenance which is based around 5 room zones spread over the month. There is a weekly quick home clean in the midst of more thorough zone cleaning. I am an aging fledgling who really should be more proactive about following the plan but to be frank I enjoy the natter and good company more than I enjoy cleaning. Every day I will be checking in and giving the ‘flight plan’ for the day with links to the Flylady site. You can join Flylady on her site for email updates but she does like to send a lot out, just so you know!
The most importantist thing to know is that you are NEVER behind – just do what you can when you can. Many of us post ta da lists as we cross items off our [never-ending] to do lists.
You may find the following acronyms along the way (adapted below from ED’s useful list from April)
LOL = load of laundry
S&S = swish and swipe, a quick daily clean of the toilet and sink
PO3 = power of 3. When motivation is on the low side or you’re overwhelmed just pick 3 things at a time and do them
DNLMS = did not lose my shit
Ned = our mythical mate who helps with the laundry
Pointy stick —-> = for when a fledgling needs a motivational prod
The naughty corner = a relaxing haven where we hang out when motivation is low or when life becomes overwhelming. Usually enticing food is left there with squishy cushions.
KCC – (Keep calm corner) these are little stories, photos, memes, off-topic questions, just to keep us all distracted from the general tedium of lockdown life. Feel free to chip in.

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THATbasicSNOWFLAKE · 16/05/2021 18:01

Dettol spray zoo?

Stilllivinginazoo · 16/05/2021 18:02

hope thanks for reassurance.my OCD means I would prefer to clean thoroughly anyways,and a deep kitchen clean isn't nec a bad thing,right?Smile

halfhope · 16/05/2021 18:25

I'd be the same zoo but at least surfacewise we might not fret so much. A deep clean is always satisfying. You can then bake to your heart's content

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halfhope · 16/05/2021 18:27

I don't really like strangers in my house esp if it's not someone I know. Must be more of a sanctuary than I thought.

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HillsBesideTheSea · 16/05/2021 18:59

Tbh i would prefer strangers to the people. More likely to be house trained Blush Hmm

Slow progress is being made. Dining room has been recovered, Kitchen is still a bomb site. Lounge is worse than before. going to be a long night i fear.

IWillWashTheGreenWillow · 16/05/2021 20:03

How long are the people out for Hills? Is there any pressure to get the rooms done tonight?

I am shattered. Ta da:
❤️ Second coat of paint on ceiling
🧡 Roast lamb, roast potatoes, carrots, parsnips and courgette, boiled carrots for DS3, broccoli, peas and asparagus produced. DD made gravy
💛 Kitchen cleared with DH
💚 DS3 announced he was going to meet a friend in town: this is new territory for him.
💙 Friend dropped at our gate instead; talked to friend's Mum who I haven't seen for a good 2 years.
💜 Hung 3 drops of wallpaper, 2 around the towel rail.
❤️ Took the masking tape off the bathroom and reattached the now-shiny shower hose
🧡 Took DS3's friend home
💛 Painted 3rd coat of white on wall that used to be turquoise
💚 Cleaned the paint brushes and roller
💙 Made a sandwich and watched Liverpool pull a victory out of the hat against West Brom in the ten whole minutes I was sat in the room
💜 Put away all the dust sheets and rendered the bathroom useable for toilet-and-teeth at least
❤️ Helped DH hang two pictures on the stair wall
💛 Helped DH apply duck to the bottom of the fan cord.
🧡 Ran hot bubbly bath and subsided gratefully into it with a glass of wine.
If you stand in the right place and squint a bit, you can pretend the family bathroom is finished now. As am I.

Sorry me painting mine didn't get your ceiling painted too, That.

Fledglings May 2021 thread: MAYbe we’ll keep our routines going as the outside world opens up 😊
SingToTheSky · 16/05/2021 20:16

Willow that looks amazing!!! 😍

I have crashed entirely and am in bed but I did manage to get said bed clear.

HillsBesideTheSea · 16/05/2021 21:01

Looks lovely Willow

People have been back hours. I am feeling played.
But lounge is as done as it is getting and whilst actually no tidier it gives the illusion of being so.
Still stuff to do though and I have the don't wanna's. But it needs to get done because otherwise tomo is going to be a nightmare. And i am going to want to do it tomo even less.

halfhope · 16/05/2021 23:46

Goodnight everyone. Closing up shop here for today. Well done on the lounge Hills.

And breathe....

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Stilllivinginazoo · 17/05/2021 02:34

willow looks lovely
Hills hope you are now fast aslee

I hate insomnia.i have had 2fucking hours and brains adamant that's it.i am not impressed

That is all....

Dancingtomusic · 17/05/2021 07:28

Morning

zoo- insomnia is horrible. Hope u managed some sleep.

Mn is being glitchy and lost my post from yesterday.

willow love the tiles

hills- sending you coffee. Weldone on the sitting room!

Redsquirrel5 · 17/05/2021 07:35

Looks great but don’t have a hangover!😂

Yesterday.
Went to Mass
Went to see distressed friend on door step.
Home and put spices on lamb shoulder. Had cup of tea with DH.
Put lamb in.
Prepped aubergine, onion, red pepper.
Put them in oven later and prepped couscous
Made couscous, brought lamb out and also aubergine.
Harissa lamb etc declared a hit.
DH washed up vacuumed sitting room
Answered email😳greenhouse man is coming soon. I hear a Van hope it is next doors and not him as I am still in bed.😳

SingToTheSky · 17/05/2021 07:57

yes ta da
🏅put Cagletini’s books away
🥇got DD1 to do her laundry and put recycling out
🏅gathered rubbish
🏅gathered recycling
🏅put clean laundry away
🏅went through all DS’ clothes with him to get rid of stuff
🏅sorted unwanted clothes into donatable and rags
🏅vaguely sorted pens/stationery items
🏅put some stuff away in correct rooms etc
🏅LOLx2 - donatable stuff
🏅gathered and sorted other dirty laundry
🏅paired some odd socks
🏅combined a few BRCs into one
🏅gathered paintbrushes (with DD1 getting some from her room) that need cleaning
🏅ordered pyjamas for DD1
🏅cleaned out various boxes
🏅folded some empty Kallax baskets
🏅gathered some stuff to somehow take to the tip
🏅hung up clean towels
🏅put clean bedding away
🏅donatable clothes into dryer
🏅got DS to start his laundry
🏅cleaned up from bath time
🏅amended tesco order
🏅booked dancing for DD1
🏅went to sleep at a sensible time (this is probably the biggest achievement of the lot!)

halfhope · 17/05/2021 08:11

Had insomnia too zoo 😴 awful isn't it?

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HillsBesideTheSea · 17/05/2021 09:07

ta da
2hrs of ironing
dealt with some laundry - various in and outs of machine
sorted what needed to come out of the freezer to defrost
put plants out for some hardening off work

Currently running 5 mins late for work.

Stilllivinginazoo · 17/05/2021 09:58

hope I abandoned all chance of sleep at 430,up at 5.ive had a couple hours and have no patience and very highly irritable,brain fogs that thick visibility is at zero.donr know if I'm on my arse or elbow
Big list is pending,will post once I'm done

halfhope · 17/05/2021 10:36

I think I fell asleep at 3.40. Behind with everything and am in 'work' but slower than normal.

today

babystep17

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halfhope · 17/05/2021 10:36

Home bleurgh day (not happening today for me!)

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Stilllivinginazoo · 17/05/2021 11:40

Go put some list up or will forget what I've done by later!!

Tada
Cats fed
Wash on
harpic lav
Clear and scrub surface 1
Scrub a tiling
Leave 15 mins to disinfect
Scrub hob and front cooker
Leave to disinfect
Scrub surface 2
Leave disinfect
Scrub sink and drainer
Sweep kitchen floor
sweep living room floor
Thoroughly scrub/rinse off disinfect and wash up combo from all surfaces and sink

Clean bathroom windows
Clean mirror
Wipe sill
Wipe radiator
Wipe bath skirt
Clean all tiling around bath/shower
S+s
Sweep up cat litter
Scrub out tray 1
Scrub out tray 2(behind D's bedroom door,and sweep up litter)
Wash bathroom floor on hands and knees

Clean D's bedroom windows
Wipe sills
Water catcus/succulents
Check on terrarium (needs D's to trim it soon)
Polish chest drawers
Polish
Bookcase
Wipe bed rails
Wipe PS4 and TV/table it all sits on
Sweep floor

Wake lil zoo/D's
Make D's breakfast
Lil zoo pack up done
Get dressed
Make lil zoo snack as wanted something to eathad a buttered roll as was quick and to hand from lunch making!

School run
Pop corner shop for light bulbs and wash up liquid
Come home and remember forgot post off local wedding invites
Out again to do that
Attempt change girls lightbulb as blown.realise picked up screw not bayonet
Trail back to shop and exchange
Change light bulb

halfhope · 17/05/2021 13:16

Well done zoo - that's amazing. All I got done was 'work'. I did rotate the laundry though. And ate lunch.

I like the idea of a popcorn maker Grin

I have just noticed that the anniversary of the death of my line manager in Ireland is today. I worked for him for 12 years along with a great team. He was such a nice humane man and he made a huge impact on us all personally just by the way he conducted himself as a human being. I consider him to be an honorary father really (he and his wife didn't have kids). I'm in the same line of work now but in the UK and he's always such an inspiration to me. Anyway the tradition for me is to open a bottle of wine and toast him. Usually it's something fizzy but I only have red wine in the house so that will do. I have an interview with him somewhere so I'll listen to that. God bless him.

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halfhope · 17/05/2021 13:17

Puts popcorn maker in naughty corner....

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IWillWashTheGreenWillow · 17/05/2021 13:56

zoo that's a great list!
💐 and 💤 for the insomniacs, hope tonight is better.
Hope what a lovely way to remember a work mate who was so important to you.
Hills up earlier than usual but still 5 minutes late is the story of my life.

Ta da:
❤️ Up on time, through shower, dressed - good job too, as online diary reminded me of...
🧡 Car to garage to get air con looked at (blows hot air to reduce temp, which strikes me as Wrong)
❤️ Posted DS2 out to a level maths exam.
💛 DW rotated
🧡 Said hello to plumber for final time
💚 Hound walked
💙 Emails cleared. Started to write To Do list but
💜 Needed to help DS3 with Comp Sci homework about Search Engine Optimisation.
❤️ Last night's LOL in dryer (hissing down here today) and next LOL on. Applied vanish and soda crystals in vain hope of removing peri peri sauce from white bedlinen 🤬. Bloody DS2.
🧡 Looked at geography hwk with DS3
💛 Folded washing from dryer, put second wash in to dry. Stain still very much in evidence.
🧡 Thanked plumber and sent him on his way - WE ARE FINISHED!
💛 Welcomed DS2 home post exam - he feels it went well, and some stuff he couldn't pull out of his head he did from first principles, which is great.
💚 Collected car from garage, went to Tesco for Emergency Chicken Nuggets
💙 Cooked chicken nuggets for DS3 and reheated soup for me
💜 Dark wash of DD's work jeans (newly dyed black) and apron, put on to leak dye into each other if at all.

Now about to clear up lunch things and start building a cardboard pyramid for DS3's history homework. Obvs.

To do
🏛️ Pyramid. Nuff said.
🏛️ Get online to bag places on next year's online courses for DS3. You do it a subject at a time and if something clashes on subject 9, you go back round and do it all again... Can't believe the school won't pay for an algorithm to do that!
🏛️ Pay Tesco bill (really quite urgently!)
🏛️ Next dark LOL on
🏛️ Chicken wrapped in bacon for tea
🏛️ Start the work I was trying to do at 9am. Hopefully before 9pm!

halfhope · 17/05/2021 14:26

has the plumber met his end willow? Grin

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IWillWashTheGreenWillow · 17/05/2021 16:13

Not at my hand! We're hoping he can fix Mum's bathroom too (which is also leaking through the ceiling, due to being plumbed in DIY by the previous owner who had some... er... innovative approaches to electricity and water) 😁

Ta da:
💖 Pyramid homework complete - turns out it did NOT have to be cardboard and it DID have to have internal integrity with the Great Pyramid of Giza, so DS3 did it as 3D modelling on the computer. Much less messy (and far fewer tears!).
🧡 Next year's courses sorted out
💛 Extra dark wash done
💚 DW running
💙 chicken defrosting

Nearly there! And I am making the issue of Putting Things Back In The Family Bathroom largely the DC's issue, since it's their stuff. Damn, I am evil.

SingToTheSky · 17/05/2021 19:42

Pissed off doesn’t even cover it... social worker finally got in touch on Thursday after a few weeks, said she’d phone on Friday. She didn’t. Called today and apologised (the reason being she’d forgotten her charger... again), said she’d phone at 6.30 today...

Still waiting.

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