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Fledglings fly into December to party hard.

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HillsBesideTheSea · 30/11/2017 11:55

Morning.

Tomorrow is December 1st which means roll call for the fledglings and shiny new thread. It might seem a bit clicky but it is because it is a long term thread, park your arse in the naughty corner for moral support, natter and various delicious goodies. Oh and smidge of housework too.

We follow the flylady system HOWEVER we adapt it to suit the circumstances of our lifes and sometimes we ignore the slightly more fluffy/bonkers babysteps --because we can and there ain't no one the boss of us

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Sludgecolours · 06/12/2017 09:57

Wierdly it is never a school holiday Cag! [Hands over soothing hot chocolate; doing maths first thing in bed would definitely put me in a foul mood]

Forgot to send virtual speculoos biscuits to Longtime (apologies that you are not sharing them with us in rl)

Builders are banging
Dh has gone back to bed (still got the flu)
Dd has closeted herself in her room and has started revising
Furry is looking at his lead pointedly ... I had better get going ...

HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 10:30

ta da
discuss the issue and stupidity that is teenagers and technology with ds' dad
Sort out transfer of pictures
Deal with issue of Elderly people that is safety vs independance
Discover ds has forgotten his lunch
Despair over the content of the news and remind myself to just turn it off and step away
Email admin
consider where the christmas cards are and look into missing addresses
Wonder wtf I put the special cards for ds to write Confused
Ponder the fact that I wanted to make something as a gift BUT the posting deadline is tomo and I have no energy and little time and lack motivation today. - might just make in new year and send late the person will not care when it arrives.
Do my advent make a thing (It wasn't cheating it HAD turned midnight so was technically today) BlushGrin

To do
check the incinerator is ready to use
do something about the bathroom
find hospital letter and check when appointment is
ring doctors re ds' allergy reaction last night
deliver ds' lunch to school
consider the original to do list written for today and the huge list of stuff I didn't do yesterday and what is likely to get done today
Late night shopping to get the christmas shopping finished
wrap ds' secret santa present for school - he has offered to wrap it but not sure my nerves will cope tbh Blush
Bully ds into writing some christmas cards - he doesn't see the point in writing christmas cards but neither does his father Hmm at least I know ds' family appreciate that I keep on top of the situation.
find christmas cards
Finish christmas letter - tbh this is just a printed picture or two of ds for family, although I do now need to get a picture with his aunt or something so people have a sense of scale - he got BIG
Double check where am with christmas shopping and be realistic about what is going to get finished - I suspect there will be at least 1 IOU made present. thankfully a 1 week job so not tooo bad but time is short yo.

This list is getting frightenly long for someone who said they were going to have a rest day today HmmBlush

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foxessocks · 06/12/2017 11:02

Morning everyone! Take it easy hills. Happy st Nicholas day sc!

Ds still poorly but think he is on the mend as he has eaten a small breakfast and half a satsuma. He was up at 4 and then woke up from his nap after half an hour. I actually begged him to go back to sleep and may have cried a little!Blush anyway we are watching some tv together now while I have a restorative cup of tea.

Tada
Anti procrastination - took some stuff to the dry cleaners!
Got dh a few little Xmas presents
Got more calpol and new toothbrushes (ds helpfully threw his down the toilet this morning!)
Dishwasher emptied and reloaded
Rubbish out
Washing folded (and then unfolded again by ds -there's a pattern forming!)

To do
Swish and swipe toilet
Finish daily routine
I've done my fridge amready so going to do 2 x declutter sessions in kitchen
More anti procrastination - make cakes (as I said I'd make cakes for lunchboxes to save money but if I don't actually make them dd will be a bit hungry!)

Cagliostro · 06/12/2017 12:36

Wandered down about half an hour ago Blush had some toast as I am craving carbs Angry

FWIW I love maths I was just getting annoyed at the hyperness of the caglets :o still in a foul mood now TBH.

I've put a wash on and DD1 did the drying from last night. Caglets have done some online work as well and once they've made their lunch I'll get them to put the washing up away. Now that they've shown they can do it I think it can be added to their chores :o

FlyingJellyfishInTheAttic · 06/12/2017 12:38

How is everyone doing? Hardly had time to check in due to things going on but seems to be ok now. Thread is moving fast.

Today's plan is catch up on laundry and general tidying plus declutter two small boxes (and finish a SS present).

Tomorrow is holiday prep. has friends over tomorrow so nice cuddles in bed with DD. Another two small boxes. Also take big bag to charity shop.

Friday is make sure everything is sorted before holiday. Really looking forward to being away with family.

FlyingJellyfishInTheAttic · 06/12/2017 12:39

Dh has friends over that should be.

Stilllivinginazoo · 06/12/2017 13:32

Long night.ds pant n norm sleeps deep enough to snore.not that deep last night so felt like i was constantly check he still breathing.cept dd2 slept on (other)sofa and snored constantlyHmm
Gp agree write note fir school.he has v low b.pressure.more fluids.lost rest.keep warm.if not better in couple weeks come back
We are now curled up on sofa trying to snooze together...

foxessocks · 06/12/2017 14:34

Hope he feels better soon zoo

I need the pointy stick. I haven't done a thing since my last post as ds has been crying and screaming all afternoon Sad I feel like I'm just waiting for dh to come home so I can breeeeeeeeathe when I could just be getting on with stuff since ds will be whining regardless.

foxessocks · 06/12/2017 15:20

Ok ive helped dd write some Xmas cards but now watching tv again...sigh. today's list is just not happening!

Cagliostro · 06/12/2017 15:42

Ditto here! I have no reason for that though as baby has slept, I am just in a mood and CBA

foxessocks · 06/12/2017 15:59

cag yep I'm the same. If I could just get started I'd probably be fine...

HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 18:06

Round table's choice is "christmas" music is worse than ever, louder than ever and harder to ignore than ever.

Anyone know where an address book is likely to hide? Because there are a whole bunch of post deadlines hurrying up and we all know that it will remain in hiding until approximately 2 days after the deadline when it will show up gloating! Hmm

Storm front due to move through tonight/tomorrow and the temperature has dropped like a stone. It's freezing!

Tea is an unknown quantity as really cba, people are out late with weird timings for tea and a trip shopping is needed in the next day or two. Also I might have snacked on lebkuchen as they are favourite that no one else can eat and don't want tea Blush

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foxessocks · 06/12/2017 19:16

My address book is always somewhere in the kitchen hills

Well no cakes were made today but I stupidly decided to clean the oven at the kids bed time (thought I could just pop the solution on as it has to be left overnight.) Resulted in me rushing and getting solution in the seal (a no no apparently) then dripping it on the floor and finally forgetting I took the gloves off and getting solution on hands - ouch Sad

Also we found a leak under the sink and everything is soggy. Leak is fixed. Then the washing machine broke (just when I was nearly on top of the washing)

All I can say is - I hope tomorrow goes more smoothly!

Good news is the children are quiet and in bed!!

HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 19:19

that is a spectacularly rubbish day. I do hope that you are able to have that better day tomo

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HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 20:25

to do
check the incinerator is ready to use
do something about the bathroom ignore it
find hospital letter and check when appointment is - rung appointments instead
ring doctors re ds' allergy reaction last night need to ring hospital tomo
deliver ds' lunch to school done and chased stuff he hasn't
Ignore the original to do list written for today and consider the huge list of stuff I didn't do yesterday which is mostly laundry related and ignore that too
Late night shopping to get the christmas shopping finished one bit done as ds will want to come with and can't do his then and then give up because tired and sat down
wrap ds' secret santa present for school
Bully ds into writing some christmas cards
Finish christmas letter done just need to print
Double check where am with christmas shopping done
Find Christmas cards done there was only a few kiddy ones as i had forgotten I ran my stock down last year

Also ta da
Book car into garage
Buy Christmas cards and a few other bits that were needed
Finish framing picture
Wrap ds' present and start wrapping t'other presents for ensuring they go to the right person on the right day. My pile is not huge but it gets complicated quick. Posting deadlines mean super organised is something I often fail at Blush
Turn into a vegetable and do nothing that should be doing.

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Stilllivinginazoo · 06/12/2017 20:44

foxesFlowerstom is another day
cag a cba days not a bad thing as long as its not every day.x
hills i syspect your address book has gone to find mine.that went missing 8months ago and despite valiant efforts is atill AWOL...i too LOVE lebkuchen.i do however try not eat by the packet since i discovered contain crushed apricot stones which contain cyanide so best not eat too many unless you can give me evidence advice i was given us a lie then bring me a factory full

Tadas
Found soneone sit ds whilst i get lil zoo.cook her dinner in appreciation
(Tea tonight- cauli.broc and carrots in cheesy sauce on jacket potatoes)
Washed up tea things

Ds has eaten a tuna roll at lunch with a vit d ampule from gp
Fir tea he had a mullerice.dice piece of cheese and half a hobnob to rake away taste if strawberry chewy multivit(without vit d in)
Hes had 400mls bsnana milk and 600 of water.by his standards thats huge amount if fluid.he us still dizzy n faint.anyone know how long takes if dehydration is cause to fix?

I could do with a tub of heroes.pref a magic refilling one that never runs empty....

HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 20:56

Check the naughty corner emergency stores Zoo

Blush Thankfully I think the quantity of apricot stones required to be eaten to produce the quantity of cynanide to be deadly is rather large, but don't quote or rely on that information to be correct as I could be completely lying and have accidentally killed myself well that would solve the problem of the missing address book but is rather a bit extreme solution
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HillsBesideTheSea · 06/12/2017 21:02

Get thee to tesco, their own brand does NOT contain apricot kernels. Gluctose-fructose syrup and palm oil but not the kernels.

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Cagliostro · 06/12/2017 22:26

I don't even own something as grown up and organized as an address book

Mmmmm lebkuchen

Today was shit and I'm not really sure why. Tomorrow needs to be better as I am turning 31! Birthday breakfast (Bella Italia because they do breakfast PIZZA) then DH has to go to work so I'm taking the Caglets to a trampoline park with friends

I have achieved nothing today

Longtime · 07/12/2017 00:13

Waves to everyone. Thank you for the st Nicolas wishes sc. I’d actually forgotten not having any dc at home now. I did go to a friend’s mince pie coffee morning though which was lovely.

Not doing well with the flying. Students, prep, Dutch and stats seem to be taking up most of my time. I do all the usual tidying up, washing, dishes but don’t seem to have time for the decluttering I desperately need to do. My lists look meagre in comparison to everyone else’s so I think I should just sit in the haughty corner for a bit.

Bowerbird5 · 07/12/2017 00:55

Ta dahs.
Swish and swipe
Car packed.
Cleaned son's bathroom.
Tree bought.set up, lights and baubles on.
Christmas Dinner made...3 courses.
Most of washing up done son helped.
Fell a sleep in chair.
Woke up did round two of washing up.
Printed several sheets for work after trying to find them.
Tired out. Night.

Stilllivinginazoo · 07/12/2017 06:07

Must get myself a trip to tesco hills😋introvert party sounds like the best kind!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CAG
🎁🎁🎁🎁🎈🎈🎈🎈💝💝💝💝🍰

Callmecordelia · 07/12/2017 07:13

Happy birthday Cag! Cake

Ta da for yesterday
Washing put away
Optician rung
Chilli made
Scout hut located

Massive spanner in the works from DH which meant all other flying went out of the window and I was a bit cross.

To do
Kitchen cupboards
Fridge
Make tea
Christmas prep of some sort
Loads of other stuff I can't think of

I need tea in the mornings to think, DH brings me a cup every morning usually. However he is still asleep. Bah humbug.

Sludgecolours · 07/12/2017 07:22

Morning!

Happy Birthday Cag! Hope you have a lovely day!

Glad your ds is eating again Zoo! And your ds too *Zoo"!

Fab lists Hills!

Longtime doesn't sound as if you should be in haughty corner at all! You sound rushed off your feet!

Good luck with packing FlyingJellyfish!

Hope you found the scout hut "Cordelia*!

Great list Bowerbird5!

Waves to Cotswold and everyone else!

Funnily enough, my address book has gone walkabout too... oh yes and I remove apple pips for rabbit because of potential cyanide build up! (Their organs are so small!)

Dd gone off to another exam and will be back in a couple of hrs. Really proud of her! In fact I am gobsmacked! She spontaneously made us all a lovely lunch yesterday when I was busy with builder stuff and dh still ill. Just quitly got on without consultation band did it! She is revising hard without any prompting from us and is really organised. When I think back to the endless days of chivvying from us ... when she wouldn't pack her school bag or have a shower without being nagged, I can't quite believe it tbh! Smile

Made huge inroads in to laundry pile yesterday, took dh for more med tests, attended volunteering Christmas fund-raising event, made veggie soup and fish pie and that was about it! So much more stuff to do with Christmas deadlines it is frightening! Hoping to regain a bit of control of house today first.

Cannot believe it is Thursday already!! Hope everyone has productive days!!

Sludgecolours · 07/12/2017 07:27

Sorry for typos and emboldening failures there! On small tablet thing! Fingers too big for it!

And that should have read "glad your ds is eating again too Foxes!" (Not Zoo twice!!)

Afreshstart hope your ds recovering now too!

Meant to say Hills I am also watching news and feeling depressed!

Wing flaps to all! And to Honu!

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