TBH, despite all govt rhetoric about Breast is Best, yadda yadda, our bf group has lost so much funding & support over the last 4.5 years it's untrue :(
When i first started with DS1, we had a Health Care Asst (like a junior HV) there every week, and an HV often popped in, we could get our babies weighed if we wanted or ask anything medical/post-baby stuff. And it meant there were at least 2 pro-bf HV-types out there.
Their funding was cut so they could spend more time with teenage mums or something, grr (sorry to any teenage mums btw). So we lost the weighing bit too.
Mostly it's a group of regulars who sit and chat, drink tea & eat biscuits
We do need more recruits/newbies but it has been hard going on the getting out there and talking to AN groups as all our cllrs have young DC. I am trying to get on the next bf course and I am determined that i will go to some AN groups just to let people know about our group as I think that's part of the problem, no-one knows we're there. And that we're not just there for problems, but for a nice sit down, sofas, etc.
Have just spent an hour on the fridge
and still have the drink trays at the bottom to clean; i have chucked out loads of out-of-date stuff and given it all a good scrub, shocking state really.
Leftover:
Today:
- all up, & breakfasted DONE
- DH to work DONE
- tidy kitchen DONE
- strip beds & find clean bedding DONE
- all dressed DONE
- sort huge pile of clean & dry washing DONE
- pop into bf group with both boys just to say hi DONE
- Asda shopping (just a few bits) + more vests for DS1
(both boys in the same size vests atm, from DS1 last year, DS2 is getting so tall!) DONE No vests his size
- home & put away shopping DONE
- lunch & tidy up DONE
- swap bath mats & towels
- ironing & put away
- friend & 2 DDs here for afternoon
- tea x 4 (5, me too)
- boys bath & bed (about 7.10 tonight for bath)
- early quiet night on my own
Longer term:
- Find new dentist that is taking on NHS patients; have looked up some to ring
- upload & order online prints (DH getting rid of that PC so i need to a) research 'time machines', b) get one, c) move all photos from his PC onto it, d) link up my laptop with it so all photos from here go on it; DH looking into it
- order door curtain (& rail) for front door; need to email seller about sizes (got measurements)
- clean kitchen cupboard doors
- empty all cupboards out, check contents & restock
- research backing up hardware for computers Done More
- make up basket of toys & pictures for DS2; need basket Got Basket
- pictures to label 'animals' & 'people' & 'cars' boxes
- SHOWER; use Lakeland spray
- cheap picture frame; (50 x 70) (poss Ikea trip?/Wilkinsons?)
- eBay stuff; 4 sold need packing
- pile of blankets to homeless centre (some basic shopping first & go through bedding/towels too)
- tackle the bombsite that is the spare room...
- clear out fridge & proper deep clean, it's filthy Most ly Done
- more vests for DS1 (get some FC ones with pictures too, lol)