LIGHT up your Life. WHETE!

[BitterAndTwistedGoreDodger]

Sorry for the rubbish title.

Hello, I am Bitter and have 3 or 4 lb to lose.

Whether you have a lot or a little to lose, join in for lots of chat and some healthy eating.

All welcome, as long as you have something to say.

what did she say? guess it would be pertinent for her. hope it's not a media trap.

roight! am watching dexter on sofa with duvet. if i disappear you know why.

much mwah x

Night then xx

morning all

fell asleep on the sofa with the heating on all night. sinuses are buggered and have guilty feeling about having used so much gas.

and the bloody cat woke me up at about 6.

need a little while to wake up and clear my head then i need a mad push on furniture and stuff. blah.

My dreams were X rated last night and I'm blaming ---> YOU Double!!

Sounds like an interesting day SaF, you probably get talked to because you have a empathetic aura, I'd love to work with the elderly again, they rock .

Mouse oh you fabulous clever woman re Nemo (and anyway).

Sorry your family are pants Brian, one always lives in hope that they will just be different for once. We love you lovey and see your light xx

Double re DS. You hope and hope they will resist the temptation to go with the crowd . DS is making some really bad decisions at the moment and it is breaking my heart. We have worked so hard together, I cracked the stuff in the village because I am here geographically, but the school stuff is in danger of crashing down. I am mad and sad. Because he has endured so much at 12 he just thinks 'sod it, why should I hold back ' and then HE gets into trouble because he over reacts.

Hopefully with your DS it will be easily nipped in the bud.

I bought a bag from a charity shop yesterday for £2 and it is worth £50! I am going to use it for a while and then put it away for DD when she is much older..it is a Jaeger one. I have started a vintage stuff collection for her for her 18th.

hey SaF.. can you stand at the front door for a while and deep breathe? It helps DS a bit.. x

as soon as the sun is up and it warms a bit i'll get all the windows open whilst i work mittz. thanks.

do you mean ds is standing up for himself because of having taken loads in the past and that when he does so he gets in trouble for it? is he sort of over asserting? maybe it's one extreme to the other then he'll find his way in the middle?

Hello

Virtual cheese and cake anyone?

hey alice

bit early for me i'm afraid but i'll take some for later.

how's it going?

it's a bit of both SaF... he has been teased relentlessly that he slashes his wrists because he dyed his hair black . So having tried to endure it he has started 'giving as good as he gets' and then some, which gets attention. He hasn't really had a good week at school this term yet and he has reached a point where he is disregarding the teachers because he says when he tries to pout his point of view across they won't listen.

If they lose his confidence in them we are stuffed. He is very black and white. (like his Dad)

The issue of him dying is hair is a fair point..(bought up at school) he was going to draw attention to himself, but how much for how long? (tears own hair out)

he'll get through.

school is a bit of a sausage factory and we're not all sausage shaped so being mangled through the wrong shaped hoops can be awkward or painful or a very testing time.

he'll come out the other side.

I like the analogy of DS being a sausage SaF .

Hey double x

not being a sausage is the point. in the long run he'll be glad of it. who wants to be a bloody sausage? or raise sausages? x

same weather here double. i need to get my butt into doing this furniture. sounds like you're having a productive half term - do you like sitting room better now you've rearranged?

Morning all.

Lovely to see you Alice and you brought gifts!! Well trained! Hope F is as gorgeous as ever, and DD xx

Well, Nemo slept through the WHOLE night in HIS OWN BED!!!!! MrM slept in the study which is a good thing as I had a huge head fuck 4-6.30am.

Why can't I stay asleep? Docs tomorrow. Going to get some real help with this lack of sleep and MrM has agreed that he'll have Nemo for at least half of the week so I can just pass out. [hsmile]

Dubs - hope the childers find something to do today, it's grey and windy and cold here. Yuk!!

DD is at her friends in Manc all day and MrM is out interviewing again so it's just me and Nemo and the jack hammer out front!! [hgrin]

Ah, that's better. Not enough snoggin on here these days.

Oh, and Brian, this is for you

Mabe he is trying to get your attention Dubs? [hwink]

I'm manky too.... no chance of a shower this morning. Will get clean before bed.

if you wanna talk about the head fuck you know where i am mouse. i am an expert on self head fucking after all

glad you like it double. intriguing on the bsnn front. drugs? too obvious.

WIF - thank you. I very nearly called you at 4am when it all started!

I seem to be getting more of them of late..... will PM you to save boring the pants of everyone as well as you.

Reply when you can, I know you are busy x