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Kids back at school so Mum can relax ads!

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FunPartyIdeas · 02/09/2026 10:00

Eurgh!
Am I the only one to be annoyed by these? Why the assumption that women are all permanent SAHMs?!!

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SerenaCat93 · 21/09/2026 12:18

Droppedbrooch · 21/09/2026 11:38

I didn’t say women had little to show for it. I pointed out the OP does.

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What gives you that impression?

She hasn't indicated how wealthy or not she is or what assets or savings she has in her name due to working. She hasn't mentioned struggling or all her wages going on childcare. The only indication she's given about her home life is that she does in fact manage to eat a family meal with her children and none of them are obese or anxious messes just because she has a job.

She doesn't strike me as jealous at all. She clearly thinks SAHMs are lazy and letting the side down. That's not jealousy and it's so infantile that jealousy is always the first thing women jumper for when they don't like other women's opinions. Youn don't hear men saying "ignore him he's just JEALOUS" like 10 year olds in a play ground do you? It's embarrassing.

FunPartyIdeas · 21/09/2026 14:36

@SerenaCat93 I'm selectively ignoring that particular poster as she is adding nothing useful to the debate and just sniping. I work very hard but don't earn megabucks, so for her, work is pointless.
I'd love to know what it is she does for a living 😀

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MorrisseysMisery · 21/09/2026 14:38

This irritates me in the same manner as adverts that portray women spinning around in ecstasy in their living rooms marvelling at the scent of their new air freshener.
Mum can relax... my arse

GaIadriel · 21/09/2026 19:08

There's so many of these lazy tropes tbf. At the other end of the spectrum there's the 'bumbling dad being corrected by the wise wife' trope, which would never ever happen the other way around because it'd be seen as sexism/mansplaining.

Droppedbrooch · 21/09/2026 19:56

SerenaCat93 · 21/09/2026 12:18

What gives you that impression?

She hasn't indicated how wealthy or not she is or what assets or savings she has in her name due to working. She hasn't mentioned struggling or all her wages going on childcare. The only indication she's given about her home life is that she does in fact manage to eat a family meal with her children and none of them are obese or anxious messes just because she has a job.

She doesn't strike me as jealous at all. She clearly thinks SAHMs are lazy and letting the side down. That's not jealousy and it's so infantile that jealousy is always the first thing women jumper for when they don't like other women's opinions. Youn don't hear men saying "ignore him he's just JEALOUS" like 10 year olds in a play ground do you? It's embarrassing.

Other posts.

SerenaCat93 · 21/09/2026 20:21

Droppedbrooch · 21/09/2026 19:56

Other posts.

What other posts? I've read all of the OPs posts and none of them mention her financial situation. Do you mean other threads?

Droppedbrooch · Yesterday 12:36

SerenaCat93 · 21/09/2026 20:21

What other posts? I've read all of the OPs posts and none of them mention her financial situation. Do you mean other threads?

Yes other threads and other posts on other threads.

SerenaCat93 · Yesterday 12:47

Droppedbrooch · Yesterday 12:36

Yes other threads and other posts on other threads.

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Classy.

Widoeeyes · Yesterday 13:04

6ate9 · 02/09/2026 10:05

Most full-time SAHPs are women. Only about 1% of fathers stay at home full-time in the UK.

most mothers who have only school aged children are not stay at home parents

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:55

@Widoeeyes I think quite a significant proportion are? Even if all the children they have are in school I believe they still refer to themselves as SAHMs?

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