Onwards and Upwards - the cvq/ns support and hot chocolate thread

[Habbibu]

Since we've nearly tipped the last one over the 1000 posts mark, here's the new thread for cvq and for her friends to help this lovely lady to keep on getting better.

ok.but it is true i suppose.ive had her here for 6weeks.i didnt know if she would make it through 6 days with me or even if i would have to ask her to go so i have been lucky she has been here all that time and now i have to stand on my own two feet and carry on.its going to be a bit odd and maybe scary at times but you cant walk away or bury your head for too long can you.but i am missing her even if she did rearrange my cupboards.

Like I said earlier, we are all here, we all love you and we will all help in whatever way we can .

So, it is Friday night, do you know what I would do if I was not at work? Get tea out of the way, get the Ds's bathed and then get cosied up with a warm drink and perhaps a piece of chocolate or two on the settee and watch a bit of tv.

Maybe tomorrow you could go through your cupboards, fridge and see if you need to do any online shopping which maybe you could get delivered Sun/Mon then you are set up for next week.

yeah not a bad plan.its been another odd and emotional week.now if i could just get off this roundabout....

It was sad that it ended that way but it was a clean finish which you were really wishing for.

Your house to yourself, your baby, your space.

cvq, am just in the door (well, I have fed dd!), and haven't read this thread yet, but wanted to say a v. quick hello! Will catch up soon.

Here's hoping you have a nice and quiet evening and that you will get in touch with one of us before things are getting difficult. We are here with fluffy blankets, virtual chocolate and a listening ear at the end of a real telephone. You have the number, it's YOUR call.

anyone here

I am hon

am I too late?

will be up for 10 more minutes.. will keep checking...

you fancy a hot chocolate?

i had a bad dreamand i cant stop shaking and crying and no ones here and im all on my own

Oh, love. Deep breath and talk - we're here.

not on your own hon I am here

you there?

id go down to mum bu t shes not here
and im all on my own.i could smell him

honey that is classic part of ptsd
very very frightening for you.

you breathing - deep breaths

he did stuff.no hand round my neck.other stuffsorry.i think i need to goshower
god i am sobbing

that's very scary - not surprised you're upset. It was a dream - try to get your breath sorted out, as greyskull says.

sweet I have to go to bed..
Sorry to leave you like this..

Deep breathing, after your shower can you get a hot chocolate and watch some tv for a while?

Oh darling. I still haven't caught up with your thread - am assuming that you've been diagnosed with PTSD. Wish I had something better to say to you - try to do soothing relaxing things.

Habbibu - you around for a bit? I don't want to go but my eyes are failing me,,

Yes, can stick about. May take laptop up to bed, in fact.

Phew - CvQ I'm off for now - keep that blanket wrapped snuggly round you and breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.

night night gentle lady.

im showerd.i actually fell asleep properly aswell.think thats me up now.no way im closing my eyes again.

hi there - i'm working my way through your thread. You have had such a hard week!