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Social housing - mental health

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mumofboysxo · 17/03/2021 10:53

At the end of October last yeah I was evicted from my private rented accommodation by being handed a section 21. Due to Covid we had 6 months to find alternative accommodation, I didn’t find this a problem as I was currently renting and thought I’ll just find something elsewhere! Boy was I wrong!!! I never managed to find a private rent accommodation through a landlord or estate agents as I’m unemployed!

I have 3 children, 7,4 10 months. I started a homeless request with the council in January and since then my mental health has declined rapidly, I’m not eating, sleeping etc and struggle daily with the stress and no stability. I have told the council this and have been given a therapist and anti depresents by my gp.

I received a call from the council 2 days ago to say I do not have to leave the property on my eviction date. My problem is that the unknown/no stability and stress is causing me massive problems with my mental health. And I struggle in a daily basis and fear that the longer this situation carries on for the harder I’m going to fall.

I’ve never suffered with mental health before so this is all new to me. My housing officers seem to just brush off my mental health and haven’t understood or even tried to understand that the prolonging of this housing is causing me a great deal of stress.

Not to mention I want to be the best mother to my 3 children. We’ve just started a referral for my eldest for autism/adhd as he suffers from ticks and also struggles with change so I need to give him warning of any changes.

I feel the council could rectify this whole situation and I my mental health can start improving once I have stability and all they need to do is remove me from this situation but I’m not getting anywhere and they’ve said could be 6 months could be 2 months they don’t know.

Has anyone else been through anything like this and got somewhere with the council?

I would love to rent privately again but due to being good unemployed and my income they won’t accept me. I am still looking for hope I do come a cross something though.
I hope no one thinks I’m expecting a house handed to me. I’m just expecting help to find a stable home for my family.

OP posts:
tiredmum2468 · 22/03/2021 20:43

@mumofboysxo

Great news you're at number 5 hopefully you'll get some positive news soon.

It can be stressful but stay strong 💪 and be positive and hopefully things will turn round for you soon x

FelicityPike · 22/03/2021 21:13

[quote mumofboysxo]@tiredmum2468

Thank you so much for checking up on me I had a few days to try and push aside my worries and spend sometime with the children without thinking about moving etc and it was lovely I feel reset!

I bidded again last night and I'm at number 5 this time so hopefully I'll start to get somewhere!

I've got a few telephone appointments this week aswell so hopefully things are starting to look up!

Hope you had a lovely weekend Biscuit[/quote]
Oh that’s very positive!

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