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Seeing all these Feeling Low Posts makes me feel like screaming THAT'S LIFE

519 replies

RegularPoster · 25/10/2004 17:48

I'm sorry

I don't really read these threads

I do know that depression is a real illness and requires medical help and I do not wish to denigrate those who are suffering in this way

I cannot help thinking that a lot of these posts stem from expecting more from life than there really is. Some people just seem to want to feel good all the time, and the things that are getting you down are JUST LIFE

I think a lot of you do need to pull your socks up and stop analysing things. just get on with your lives and make the best of it

God forbid you had something proper to worry about - like war, disease, famine

Don't seem to see many of the mothers from the SN board posting here nor those who I do see as having real problems to worry about.

Discuss...

OP posts:
EvesMama · 25/10/2004 20:40

sorry, just turned pc on and read this thread, i thought it could be a tech and after reading justines post, think even more so?
im quite new and although dont believe they did it to be nasty, think they might have wanted a bit of a heated debate????

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:41

pmsl ff that someone here might be offended at that. Just waiting for an angry poster to complain that they once fell in a vat of acid

Enid · 25/10/2004 20:42

discuss it! discuss it! discuss it!

Actually thats why I like mumsnet, the chance to get a really good head-bending discussion going. I like it when I get won over by 'the other side' too.

Can't believe that my post criticising someone smacking her kids or cods posts about spoilt children got totally blasted and yet its fine to call someone a 'worthless piece of crap'!

All we need now is RP to come back and tell us how devastated she is by these personal attacks and how she is contemplating leaving mumsnet and then everyone can rally round and start building her up again. What are you lot on!!!!!!!!!!!

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:43

Please reread the post. SHe is clearly saying she is not refering to "depression" and is not making any attacks on anyone.

She is starting a discussion.

The only dubious thing is she hasnt returned.

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:43

so true Enid.

Enid · 25/10/2004 20:43

ff - lol vat of acid

vict17 · 25/10/2004 20:44

how do you know Hercules? s/he could be nay one of the subsequent posters!

agy · 25/10/2004 20:44

Do you know, Evesmama - I thought that! (after Justine's [post)

agy · 25/10/2004 20:44

Take out that extra bracket.

zubb · 25/10/2004 20:44

lol Enid @ RP coming back to say she is leaving!

EvesMama · 25/10/2004 20:45

hmmm, after the last uproar a couple of weeks ago its been pretty calm and what better way to get people talking? my own opinion!

WigWamBam · 25/10/2004 20:45

I do agree that some of the responses have been a little extreme, and in fact I think that is probably what the original poster was aiming for.

But please, can we let this die now? If you want to carry on with this discussion, perhaps you could take it to one of the other threads so that those on the FL threads who have been upset by it don't have to keep seeing this discussion at the top of the list of threads. By keeping it here, the flames are still being fanned.

vict17 · 25/10/2004 20:45

I also think Justine's comment "There is a civilised discussion in there somewhere hoping to come out." is very patronising and a bit big-brotherish 'we are listening and you're not saying what we want you to say'

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:46

i think it is a shame it cant be discussed.

agy · 25/10/2004 20:46

Yep! I think they're worried Mumsnet might be getting as bit boring!

fairyfly · 25/10/2004 20:46

She doesn't say i am going to shoot all people with suicidle tendencies they are the scum of the earth, this is just ridiculous, i would love to know what would happen if i went on a feeling low thread and said you worthless pieces of crap, for gods sakes stop jumping to conclusions about how nasty this women is and at least give her chance to reply. Credit her with the same rules you give yourselves, she could post a list of atrocities in her life, perhaps thats why she started the post.

Enid · 25/10/2004 20:47

no! no!

dont let it die - I hate being told that - it just makes me post more and I really really want to go and sit on the sofa with dh and watch telly

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:47

I wont let go... ;)

agy · 25/10/2004 20:47

Justine will probable be back soon - all outrage and denial!

2wildbabies · 25/10/2004 20:48

who wants to discuss whether or not you feel like you have a genuine reason to be depressed or are you just being pathetic.

I can't believe you assume this kind of chat is needed. Why should we expain ourselves to an anonymous poster.

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:48

I doubt very much about the justine mumsnet theory...

WigWamBam · 25/10/2004 20:49

I'm not asking you to stop your discussion, I have no problem with your discussion. But this thread has been upsetting for some of the people who use this particular board, and perhaps it would be nicer of you to take the discussion somewhere else so that this thread on this particular board can sink to the bottom of the list.

hercules · 25/10/2004 20:49

Noone has called anyone pathetic or said depression isnt real.

Enid · 25/10/2004 20:49

Justine!

You're having a laugh aren't you!

Ha ha ha ha ha - we're all paranoid!

EvesMama · 25/10/2004 20:50

some people dont want to justify to ingnorant people 'why' they feel there life is so shit and thats why that threads there. yes, i can be a bit depressing reading the stuff...but hey i thought that was what it was about? i know ive posted there and try to help others who do too.so im sorry if we depress you 'mystery' poster and are letting you down, ill just get out my majic wand and make all sn children well again and those feeling low will can have thier crappy past/present/future erased!