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tammybear · 24/09/2004 23:55

ive been trying to be cheery and joking etc, but at the moment i feel low. really really low. i feel like going to get my pills and downing them all

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:26

Night beansmum - look after yourself. I think you're very brave going back to uni, and so will everyone there! Think you'll probably get a lot of support - and a good social life too. I'm 41 on Sunday so very jealous that you two have got it all ahead of you!!

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:26

i werent guna tell him about how im feeling, cos i didnt want to worry him, but then i thought i would. but then he says why wud i do that 2 him, and what has he done to deserve that

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:28

Oh Tammy you should know by now that men have mince for brains - although I was going to suggest you give him a ring. Typical.

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:29

i was thinking about it too but i know i cudnt talk much to him so thort id leave it to txt. i bet hes turned his phone off and thinking of himself. why do i bloody bother

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joanneg · 25/09/2004 00:30

I think that in a man way he is trying to shock you into thinking about the consequences incase you do something silly - so in a round about way he is saying I am worried and dont want you to be hurting - but he has put it arse about face!

joanneg · 25/09/2004 00:32

lol cab - mince for brains, I like that expression!

cab · 25/09/2004 00:32

Tammy expect NOTHING of him and then if he does do something nice once in a while you'll get a lovely surprise!
He might understand very basic instructions - like I need a hug.

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:33

yeah i guess but still should show some support. like i said he'll probably turn his phone off and go off on one

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joanneg · 25/09/2004 00:34

have got to go. Tammy will you be ok tonight?

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:34

yeah probably joanneg. thanks xxx

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:35

joannegg - I love it too.
I'm going to have to head for bed Tammy, but hope things look brighter in the morning. Your mum sounds like a good sort. Remember she's there!

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:35

thanks cab xxx

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unicorn · 25/09/2004 00:35

I am going to have to sleep.. and reckon you should try too..(camomile tea/or similar should hep you a bit)

I will check this out tomorrow and really hope what you are feeling is just a Friday blip, and that you are ok in the morning.

You have so much ahead of you..!! please be positive, You have the power to change your life..
(sounds like bllcks I know, but please believe in yourself TB)

joanneg · 25/09/2004 00:36

OOOHHH NOOO - dont say probably!! Try and get some sleep. It will seem better tomorrow I promise. Night cab

joanneg · 25/09/2004 00:37

NIght all - Tammy will check on you tomorrow too!!

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:37

thanks i will try to go to sleep. nite girls xxx

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Turquoise · 25/09/2004 00:37

Tammybear

cab · 25/09/2004 00:38

Night joanegg - Tammy sorry probably is not good enough for me either!

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:40

debt counsellor is with ccsa or something like that. someone recommended it on here

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:40

Turquoise are you going to be around for a while?

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:41

dps just text back, think u were right joanneg with the shock bit

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:42

Tammy are you definitely going to be ok tonight?

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:42

i will be cab, tbh i dont think ill be sleeping much tonight neway so ill just either lurk on here or give dp a call since hes being ok now

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cab · 25/09/2004 00:44

Good. Hope he's of some use - just don't expect too much of him. Look after yourself. Night night.xxx

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tammybear · 25/09/2004 00:45

nite xxx

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