thanks for advice, both of you
elphaba
I had a Csection with DS4 too, snap!
surgeon said precautions are the same, no heavy lifting for 3 months, but no advice about excercise. I think I shall ask gp on Monday. op site is a bit "pinchy" at times, I need to know if that's normal or not anyway. I'm ok otherwise.
between half term and Christmas I had to have help with schoolruns as there was no way I could push a double pushchair (DD & baby) so I'm going to find out how I can cope with that next week anyway. It's such hard work, twice a day, I might just count it as excercise for this month! 
DD got really bad sleeping habits atm, it actually ruins our evenings. I'm going to start sleep training tomorrow. when she is back to her normal routine and has a predictable lunch time nap I can dust off my yoga mat. until then there's no chance for a regular time slot, mornings and evenings are just impossible.
I need to coordinate her nap with bfing & weaning BabyZing so I can steal those precious 30 minutes!
I think, in all honesty, I'm just not ready for a commitment yet, not physically, mentally or practically. but that's why I'm here, I know I'll get motivated by you all.
so if you find it hard to get on with it, do it for me! 