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ok weirdo mumsnet men do you htink you kwn oany men who dont lok at pron

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codswallop · 01/10/2007 20:04

cos i am rue they dont exist

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DrNortherner · 01/10/2007 20:18

I'm with Cod on this.

Everyone who disagrees should take off their rose tinted glasses imo

Tutter · 01/10/2007 20:19

yes cod

we have discussed this onebefore

we rolled eyes together when a load of MNers claimed their DHs weren't interested

Rhubarb · 01/10/2007 20:19

There is another thread about this in active convos at the mo and I appear to be under attack there, for what I know not!

But I shall here what I said there. Not every man likes porn or uses it. There is a notion that if someone on Mumsnet says her fella doesn't use porn, then others gleefully shout "you obviously don't know him very well then do you?" I think it is very presumptious of Mumsnetters to presume to know everything about other men and what their habits are.

My dh said, when asked last night about the other thread, that every man likes looking at pictures of naked women. But internet porn, porn mags and porn movies are just cheesy, horrible and vile and they do nothing for him. Perhaps when he was younger, but now he finds it gross.

I suppose however, that he is a liar and I'm just gullible?

I also suppose that cod is bored and wanting to stir things up.

lou33 · 01/10/2007 20:19

i dont know any man who doesnt enjoy porn

NotAnOtter · 01/10/2007 20:19

i have been with dp 17 years

we are a very home centered couple

i quite like the idea of porn

dp does NOT

we have frequent sex for a 'married' couple with lots of children

his idea of a hot woman is probably marieilla frostrop - she does not do porn

he likes a sexy chick to have an IQ not an implant

Charlee · 01/10/2007 20:20

I trust dp 100% when he says he has never seen a porn mag.

He did used to have Fast car and stuff like that with the boob's out girls but thats all.

NomDeBroomstick · 01/10/2007 20:20

I don't know any, but then I don't really ask them.

ShinyHappyPeopleHoldingHands · 01/10/2007 20:21

Very wise post Rhuby.

And yes cod is bored. You can tell a mile off.

Nbg · 01/10/2007 20:21

I know for a fact my dh does not look at porn and if he does he must be fucking Houdini.

DrNortherner · 01/10/2007 20:21

"he likes a sexy chick to have an IQ not an implant"

I think fella's use porn for a quick want - not to discuss the meaning of the universe!!

mellowma · 01/10/2007 20:22

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Marina · 01/10/2007 20:24

Hey rhubs, right there with you (and shiny).
We do have a lot of blardy annoying fishing mags around the place though

NotAnOtter · 01/10/2007 20:24

god - well said Rhubarb

plus dp is not the only one - i have known other men

i actually think that generalising about men in this way is devisive
are womyn so very different to men folk. certainly i do not view myself to be a sexually different person to my dp. we like the same stuff basically. If porn is what the cods of this world make out it is to ALL men then what about women? or are we all kidding ourselves

i am pleased with our relationship and its physical side after so long
if we dont conform to the majority veiw then i beg to
differ
please respect that difference and STOP telling me i do not know my own DP

Rhubarb · 01/10/2007 20:25

Depends on your definition of sexy, Northerner.

dh doesn't find cheesy, hardcore, degrading pics very sexy. He has used them when he was younger but his tastes have changed I guess. He now prefers to be able to use his imagination rather than have some woman's clit thrust into his face or watch some geezer jizzing over a girl.

Nbg · 01/10/2007 20:26

See this and strip joints I really do not get.

If a man is married or in a relationship, then why do they use porn or a half naked/fully naked woman to get off?

Seriously dont understand it at all.

NotAnOtter · 01/10/2007 20:26

lol rhubarb well said

Charlee · 01/10/2007 20:26

NBG - That is our view exactly down this end we use each other to 'get our kicks' not other people.

mellowma · 01/10/2007 20:27

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Charlee · 01/10/2007 20:28

There does seem to be an awful lot of porn threads just lately - maybe it is mumsnet that is becoming addicted?

Nbg · 01/10/2007 20:29

Your pussys are beautiful mellowma

Rhubarb · 01/10/2007 20:30

Nice pussy mellowma!

sugarmatches · 01/10/2007 20:31

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Charlee · 01/10/2007 20:31

I want your pussy mellowma!

But seriously, how cute! My mum just got a gorgeous little kitten, i think kittens are the cutest baby animal ever!

Rhubarb · 01/10/2007 20:32

Ok, I'm reporting you sugarmatches.

NotAnOtter · 01/10/2007 20:32

Rhubarb is the best leave her alone

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