Boobs...aren't they great?

[HappyDaddy]

If I had proper ones, I'd never leave the house!

There is a difference between "offended", and "repugnant" and "cringing" which was what was actually sad. Oh and "feeble"

Don't let's get all arsey and fighty in here. If i've offended anyone, I apologise (again ).

I think lots of people on MN are a little more tetchy than usual, following some threads in the last few weeks.

I'm just a bloke, we say insensitive things sometimes. Ok, all the time.

"i imagined you in an office just having perved over someones boobs and felt the need to discuss it and you have every right to do so so go ahead"

fucking hell

I'm not angry or upset happy daddy, i just felt slightly nausious. I imagined you with a big spluttering red face dribbling, carry on style.

I also do find it a bit weird you'd post that, no offence, i just don't know many men who would come on here and say they like tits. They's say it down the pub with blokes.

As for

"i imagined you in an office just having perved over someones boobs and felt the need to discuss it and you have every right to do so so go ahead"

I don't think so somehow, i think that is very much not allowed at work.

boobs are great.

No red spluttery face, here. I remembered the conversation I had with DW, it made me laugh so I thought "I'll put a stupid throw away post on MN in the men's room, it'll be ignored and go away". I didn't realise anyone actually read the drivel I post.

If you don't think perving at work goes on, then you really are naive. It's the worst place for it. Apart from my workplace as it's only me and 4 other blokes.

I think this is a good reason to get rid of the men's room. totally not in the spirit of MN.

bundle - fair comment.

Hardly any blokes to actually post in here anyway.

Perving happens EVERYWHERE. Men do it. Women do it.
The problem arises when rather than just noticing an attractive member of which ever sex they are generally attracted to, the said "perv" feels the need to drool/comment/grope...that's when they need a slap ( verbal or otherwise)

Probably because it's called mumsnet....

JessaJam, believe me I get the message.

foreskins
dont lya love em
testicles
nob chese

You're not having a good week are you HD?

piglit, this is the only site i've been on that has any decent non "expert" advice and help on parenting. It's why I joined.

But I'm a bloke and am only ever one click of a mouse away from another foot in mouth episode.

I'm far from naieve thanks.

I just dont think at work you have every right to perve at boobs.

It may happen, it happens everywhere, but you don't have the right

Well not at mine anyway.

but there always drooly posts on mn from women spotting talent eg I'm not the only one who has commented on builders stripping off

HD, boobs are great. mine are soft quishy and dh says luvverly. plusw they have fed all of children and given them the best start. in fact dd3 loves boobs.

Iklboo, just think of the benefits of my posts though...

It means these lovely mumsnetters can vent their spleens without resorting to those horrid breastfeeding / parenting type arguments that are just so last week.

HD - I'm only suggesting that as a reason that there aren't many men on MN.

Hmm, I find the women perving at men threads naff, too.

And yeah, of course people perv at work. As long as they do it reasonably subtly, there's no problem. I used to always work in generally-male workplaces, although was not generally the object of perving, thankfully, was certainly aware of it going on.

Sorry (yet again) fairyfly, I didn't mean anyone has the right. I thought you thought it didnt go on that much, that's all.

Where's my tin hat gone?

piglit - we might all be men

piglit, to be honest if i hadn't done the stay at home dad bit i probably wouldn't have been interested in a parenting website.

HD...was actually trying to be a bit supportive of you...sorry if it came out the wrong way...
saying boobs are great does not a perv make.

JessaJam, do you mean I got that wrong too? Blimey, I am on a roll.

By the way. What did one hotdog say to his mate?

I'm on a roll today.