Bingo, People tend to forget that Iran ranks top 5 in IQ levels worldwide.
I had this conversation with some Iranian friends both inside and outside of Iran about what they wanted for their country. Some people said that they did want more freedom in certain areas, however they didn't want Iran to become as one person put it so permissive that things like "Onlyfans" were normalised.
This was around the time there were several "free Iran" female influencers dancing around dressed in skimpy clothing calling for liberation. [Full disclosure I'm not a prude and was known to dance on many a table in my clubbing days, so am not judging these women].
Just as we watch Iran, they also see our society allowing people like Jeffrey Epstein the convicted child trafficker free reign within the corridors of power.
They hear the late Madeleine Albright defend economic sanctions against Iraq, and say that 500'000 Iraqi children's deaths were worth the price paid.
I think the general consensus around the region is just that they want to be left alone aka "Yankee, Go home".
"Our" intervention over the last few decades has led to millions dead and displaced.