I understand that, but it's not just hamas numbers - it's everywhere. We have live photos and videos from civilians on the ground - photographers, young girls, surgeons, children, heads blown off, arms amputated, blood and stone everywhere, dark clouds and fire billowing from buildings, cars and buildings razed, yet anytime anyone says anything about feeling sad, it's always rebuted with - I don't believe it/it's made up.
Even if there are links from any, any news channel (BBC, guardian, NY, anything) about any sort of atrocities or oppression in Palestine for the last decades, the news source is immediately discredited. It's constant and dehumanising. Every organisation (un, hrw, stc, amnesty), is antisemitic and can't be trusted in the least.
Just have some heart, or say nothing at all. We should be allowed to feel sadness at death and destruction.