Just MC...Long haul, short haul, ranting, weeping, laughing all encouraged. Oldies and newbies very welcome

[liahgen66]

Ok, feel a bit scared actually starting the new thread but here we are, for however long (or short) our time here may be.

Off you go ladies. Welcome () one and all.

Viv, sorry, SIL not MIL. Too many acronyms for one day IYSWIM! LOL!

Hi Redandyellow & floweringcurrant - sorry you are here but we are here with cakes and wine daily x

Littlemiss - did you find your way out of primarche? How's the rock looking? Sunglasses on ? Many congrats to you x

So so sorry jollster - passing you the wine....x

Gi1da me too am approaching the window but am going to be missing it which I know is probably for the best but is still very frustrating. I want to be 100% and I think another couple of weeks will be better. Take time to get better if you have been really poorly and just think at least you wont have 2 weeks of wondering am I? Which I feel kinda takes the pressure off.....just a teeny tiny bit. x

Clareanna - how are you doing now???? Well done for making it out, if I feel remotely low I can't leave the house for fear of snot and tears.

Hippy I bled for about 14 days after erpc and now have the longest AF on EARTH!!!!!! Bored now.

Good on you Viv!

Muser I have some Shloer too???? Not quite the same but I can pour it in a wine glass for you?

Also waving to all the other ladies just about to make popcorn and watch The Breakup AAAgain, Vince Vaughan cracks me up though. xxxx

Thanks for the welcome all. I had to step away from the pregnancy tests in Boots today, it's waaaaaaaay too early and I don't need to put myself through that. I did linger and look for a good while though, sometimes it's like picking a scab, you know it's going to hurt but you do it anyway!

hello ladies, just checking in to see how everyone is doing. Seems abit more positive than last week which is good, although sad news about jolls and we miss her on the grads, I think we all worry that we will be back to a certain extent .. I worry about it alot, although have reached 6 weeks so thats a good milestone (passed both previous mc's), and will be seeing doctor and getting early scan in a weeks time.

viv keeping my eye on you - fingers crossed hon

all ladies near the top, heres hoping
all the ladies in the middle - keep your dh pecker up
all the ladies at the bottom - every new cycle is a new chance

xxx

G1lda I have currently a worrying Dr Who thing going on at night...

Morning! Just checking in, haven't read back. I just wanted to whinge that 2010 has not been kind to me so far. It's not even march yet and I have had:

• One miscarriage
• Proper, good old fashioned flu
• A horrific ear infection
• Probable gastric flu
• DS with horrific ear infection just as gastric flu began to rear its head in my life

I am beginning to suspect that someone's got a voodoo doll with my name on it! I haven't been well for a single day for nearly 3 weeks now...

Welcome to all the new people, sorry you find yourselves here, but hope you're able to use all the wonderful support and humour that this lovely thread has to offer.

Sunday's list:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD40
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD33
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD31
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD27
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD27
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 3 CD26
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD25
Tetleytea TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD25
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 11 CD24
Albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle WTF CD24
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD23
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD22
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD21
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD21
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD19
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 11 CD19
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD18
floweringcurrant TTC#1 UCL28 CD18
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD16
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD 16
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD15
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD15
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD13
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD11
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD10
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD10
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD7
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD7
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD6
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD3

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Polyanna TTC#6 UCL27 WTF CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
slimyak TTC#2 UCL? cycle? CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL 25 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL? cycle WTF
Mummy369
meatntattypie
GinaFB
redandyellowandpinkandgr...

WTTC
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10 waiting for ERPC

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010

Apologies for any list errors... Updating on iPhone, it's a bit fiddly

hopefully I do hope your day's picked up. Just remember you're due a lovely run of good luck now!

moofold have you tested? It's horrid this wtf cycle, I've felt like AF imminent for a few days now, get a tiny bit of spotting, then nothing. Then same all over again. And I have no exciting desire to test though. There's an outside chance I could be but I think I'd be petrified so am assuming I'm not (wishing I were, but not yet, iyswim)

hippy was it you talking about the song 'I just haven't met you yet'? It nearly gave me a blubbing in the shops moment today... Someone was singing it outside Primark, had to struggle to hold it together as was with DSD and she'd have been mortified!

Welcome, sadly, to flowering and redandyellow, have added you on to the list.

No tears today, feeling more positive, going to wait till AF to arrive and then after ttc. Hubby will be pleased although he has been an absolute rock.Thanks to all you guys this week, it has really helped through tough times. Here's to happy times ahead! Here's the VINO pass it round.

a bit Off TOpic here -but anyone else's DH's think that they're still 18?! mine went out last night, ended up gate crashing my 23 yr old's sisters night and rolled in at 4.30am. He has been about as much use as a chocolate teapot today.
grrr - I'm just jealous!

I just got called by the nurse at my EPU checking I was ok. Phoned up Friday night as I'd started spotting and wanted to check that was ok. It is ok, just a sign that my hormone levels are falling. It's nice to know they're keeping an eye on things and following up.

MUSER- that's nice when that happens, makes you feel like they are really interested in how you are doing. When I had ERPC last Saturday the nurses on my ward were really kind. The sister said she had had 2MC before so new exactly how I felt. Hope you are ok.

Just popping in to say hi quickly - hope everyone has had a nice relaxing Sunday and is looking forward to March and Spring being round the corner. Here's to a better week Ladies

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Alba - yes, I tested. No surprises BFN. I knew it would have taken a miracle but still feels shit. I put off testing for a bit so that I could have a wee daydream of it being positive but no such luck.

I then endured the worst cramps for years but still no AF. So feeling optimistic I peed on a OPK instead in case it was OV pains. Also fucking negative!! Really hacked off in this no man's land now - I hope you get better results yourself.

Lets hope March is a good month for us all

Hope everyone has had a chillout day today. I have stayed at home and done a lot of cooking (and eating!)

Here are my stats, hope this is right:

TTC#1 UCL30 cycle1 CD23

moofold I tested too, had one last ultra sensitive cheapy test left. BFN. If it was going to happen this month would be positive by now. I suppose at least I can be disappointed now and it won't be quite so sad when AF appears ? Wish she'd just hurry up and arrive now.

Here's to a beautiful spring morning and a fertile month with lots of Christmas babies for us all

Morning lovelies,

It's a gorgeous sunny spring day in Manchester - it definitely feels like we're moving towards sunnier times, both literally and metaphorically speaking.

Once again, am frantically trying to NOT symptom spot but couldn't help it, as I felt as rough as a badger's arse yesterday - woke up with terrible lower back ache and spent all day doing rancid sick burps (what IS the technical name for them? Is it reflux?) so my mind is naturally going into overdrive. Still, que sera sera and all that.

Love to you all. Hope you all have a lovely first day of March.

xxx

ooh ooh fingers crossed vivcliquot, sounds good!

Clareanna my dh swings between being very grown up and sensible and about 55 and being a sulky bury-head-in-sand 15 year old. Drives me MAAAAD. Wish he WOULD go out and get ratted / express some feelings relax a bit- know he is devastated by m/c but he won't talk about it. to anyone. ever. Men bah humbug

Morning! I'm still feeling insanely awful, but TBH I'm so used to it now I've given up all hope of being able to do anything but lie on the sofa in a stupor while DS is at the childminder (am self employed, so should be working).

I can't even begin to symptom spot as I've got so many aches and pains and grumbles that I don't think I'd know a pregnancy one from an illness one now! The only thing I can say with any certainty is that my biggest symptom with both previous PGs was (sorry, TMI) major constipation, and what with the gastric flu, that is definitely not the case at the moment. Still got a good few days before AF, but I'm not getting my hopes up - my body would have to be crazy to allow me to conceive while I'm so under the weather, surely!

Sorry for those of you on WTF cycles - I was lucky that mine wasn't too bad (only a couple of days longer than normal, and with no ovulation at all that I was aware of), but it must be so crap waiting for things to get back to normal.

Wow just been reading back on the last few days and it looks like I've missed out on some serious amounts of vino. I'll have to remember to pop in on a weekend evening in future for some nourishment!

I survived the babyshower I had to go to on Saturday and actually it was really lovely but I think I was the only woman of childbearing age there who wasn't pregnant or running after a child of their own. My MIL-to be came for suppport which I really appreciated. Can't help but think that I'll be too cautious next time round to contemplate a baby shower before the little one arrives? Who knows I may surprise myself! As an attempt to demonstrate to my DP that I can think of something other than ttc we went to a gig on Saturday night. It was fun but I couldn't help but think I wasn't enjoying it as much as I used to and I was also trying to hold back on the drinking without being too obvious as I think he wants reassurance that I'm still me if that makes sense? Anyway I managed to hide the few tears I had in the dark when the gig was on as I think the presence of babies and pregnant women earlier that day had overwhelmed me.

Still in no woman's land at the moment waiting for AF to make an appearance. Thought all the symptoms were starting yesterday and that 1st March would seem like a good time to start looking forward but so far nothing. The day is young and very bright so hopefully she'll make an appearance today. Also counting down the days to Thursday as that's when I'll get my blood test results and know whether we can ttc on our own schedule or whether I'll need the rubella vaccination renewed and a 1-2 month ban is essential - there's so much waiting involved although I know it'll all be worth it in the end!!

Good morning all, thank heavens its a beautiful sunny spring day here today. Its been a weekend of gloom in our house (various reasons) so I am really hoping that Feckin Bleedin Awful February is well and truly gone, and we can start afresh with New Beginnings March.

Hopefully - sorry to hear you've been blatted by sickness too - lots of fluids and take it easy. Its a bugger when you're self employed, really takes the edge off calling in sick... "Sorry me, I can't make it today, you'll just have to cope without me" Hope you feel better soon.

Unbuffy - re Dr W - quite reasonable I'd say

CCBloom - good luck with the results and bloody well done on getting through Saturday! They really should hand out 'get-out-off-maternity-related-social-events-free' cards at the EPU.

Wishing you all a better week x

I hope I have this right..

Monday's list:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD41
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD34
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD32
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD28
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD28
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 3 CD27
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD26
Tetleytea TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD26
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 11 CD25
Albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle WTF CD25
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD24
redandyellowandpinkandgreen TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 1 CD24
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD23
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD22
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD22
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD20
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 11 CD20
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD19
floweringcurrant TTC#1 UCL28 CD19
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD17
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD 17
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD16
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD16
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD14
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD12
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD11
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD11
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD8
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD8
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD7
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD4

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Polyanna TTC#6 UCL27 WTF CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
slimyak TTC#2 UCL? cycle? CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL 25 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL? cycle WTF
Mummy369
meatntattypie
GinaFB

WTTC
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10 waiting for ERPC

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010

Now I'm coming out of the fug I thought I might chuck myself on the stats list. Got flipping ages to WTTC but I can start counting down once I get my first period.

Monday's list:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD41
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD34
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD32
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD28
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD28
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 3 CD27
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD26
Tetleytea TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD26
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 11 CD25
Albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle WTF CD25
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD24
redandyellowandpinkandgreen TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 1 CD24
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 3 CD23
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD22
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD22
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD20
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 11 CD20
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD19
floweringcurrant TTC#1 UCL28 CD19
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD17
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD 17
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD16
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD16
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD14
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD12
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD11
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD11
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD8
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD8
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD7
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD4

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Polyanna TTC#6 UCL27 WTF CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
slimyak TTC#2 UCL? cycle? CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL 25 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL? cycle WTF
Mummy369
meatntattypie
GinaFB

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10 waiting for ERPC

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010

Hi Ladies

So glad the sun is out today feeling more positive.

Well done CC for surviving the baby shower and for Muser for putting yourself on the list.

Off to make egg carton daffodils with the mindees for St Davids Day.

xxxxxx

Hi All
I have been skimming through this wall, lurking really. You all are so amazing. I had a MC on 14Feb - first pregnancy and we were so very excited to be expecting. My baby would have been due 1 Oct, and my BF at work is pregnant and her baby is due 7 Oct - I really want to be a good friend and help her through her pregnancy but at times I feel like crying cos Im not pregnant anymore. How soon can I start trying again? No AF yet...
Thanks
x