Just MC...Long haul, short haul, ranting, weeping, laughing all encouraged. Oldies and newbies very welcome

[liahgen66]

Ok, feel a bit scared actually starting the new thread but here we are, for however long (or short) our time here may be.

Off you go ladies. Welcome () one and all.

Hey Muser - how is it going today? Being back in work sucks. Although maybe nice to be doing something normal-ish?

I was actually coming online to have MAJOR RANT about frickin AF - damn, damn, damn. This has been my thought process the last couple of days:

• BFN on Monday = maybe I tested too early
• PMT cramps on Tuesday = maybe it's implantation
• Spotting last night = maybe it's implantation bleeding

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME??!!!! I'm a loon, I would never have tried to persuade myself it's not AF before. This is worse than last time, at least last time it was the first one post MC so I could console myself with my body getting back to normal.

Best mate going for her 20 week scan today and I should've been having my 20 week scan this week, and I'm pissed off about that too.

THANK GOD they are still selling two kit kats for 80p in the canteen.

I'm getting four.

xxxxxxxxxx

Forgot to say - welcome Cinnamonswirl!!

xxxx

Top ranting there, Goodluckbear - I totally feel your pain after my "How can it be a BFN when I just know I'm pregnant?" psycho episode last week.

Cinnamon - AF = Period. I think it stands for Aunt Flo which is yet another of those cringe-inducing acronyms that seem to invoke unnecessary rage in me!

Hi Goodluckbear,

sorry to hear your troubles, life can be a female dog sometimes !!!

hope that things get better very soon for you.
nice one with the kit-kats, yum yum

thanks, VivClicquot i kind of assumed but....didnt want to get it wrong because it would be a really weird kind of mix up if i were wrong !!! lol !

It is actually quite nice to be back at work goodluckbear. Makes me feel life is getting back to normal. Although I'm slightly lacking motivation. I guess that's to be expected.

Hope you manage to relax a bit about symptom spotting. It's hard when you want something so much though.

Hi all, am off to work now, was nice chatting to you. hopefully catch you later tnite. xx

Hello ladies, Saw Muser was here and wanted to thank her for answering my Q's about ectopics, turns out I didn't have an ectopic but things still don't look good, had a dildocam scan on Monday should be 6-7 weeks and all they can see is an empty sac that hasn't grown in 10 days I've got to go back for another scan in 10 days. The doc said it didn't look hopeful, but of course as he didn't say it was hopeless I'm still clutching at straws. I hate waiting. Do you think I could sit here and wait with you. I can bring cake

Guess as most of you seem to be in gainful employment I better do the stats... Beats the need for Nintendo Brain Training...?

welcome cinnamonswirl.... if you want to give your stats as per below you can be added on if you like?
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22

Wednesday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD50
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD41
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD41
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD37
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD37
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD35
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD33
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD31
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD31
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD29
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD28
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD26
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD26
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD25
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD25
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD23
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD21
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD20
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD20
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD17
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD17
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD16
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD14
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD13
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD13
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD10
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD10
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD8
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD6
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD6
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD5
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD4
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD4
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD4

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

spottysox anyone with cake is welcome... so sorry you're waiting about. It is the waiting and uncertainty that is most horrid I find. Tangible stuff (even sad and tragic) can be dealt with. Waiting is limbo land.

oh and finally
agree with you viv AF and witch are toe-curling. Could we not start our own... BB (BloodyBleeding)? That's quite mild, I'm sure we could get more offensive....

Gaz you and your sausage eh . Can tell you're a young 'un. SWoI.... what's that all about. Just for fun...? Oh no missus...

HI Ladies,

Can I join you please? I MC'd 12 days ago on TTTC #1, was 5 weeks 6 days pregnant. Was and am devastated. Happened while away from home, seeing my GP this afternoon.

Having such a bad day here in work, back 3 days and it's just so so hard. So many people keep telling me I look terrible and like they don't know what i've been through.

I desperately want to start trying again, we haven't BD since it all happened but hopefully soon. I seem to be getting some egg whitey the last 2 days but yet the ov tests are negative so who knows what that means..

Just moving myself down due to BB. Like the new acronym.

And welcome (and sorry) to HappyGirl and Spottysox too - would you like to add your stats as well? Just in case I've put you guys all in pending and you can do them anytime, hope that sounds ok

Wednesday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD50
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD41
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD41
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD37
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD37
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD35
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD33
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD31
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD31
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD28
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD26
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD26
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD25
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD25
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD23
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD21
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD20
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD20
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD17
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD17
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD16
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD14
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD13
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD13
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD10
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD10
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD8
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD6
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD6
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD5
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD4
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD4
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD4
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD1

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD22
Spottysox
HappyGirl1

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

Yoohoo, hope your all well. Welcome to the newbies sorry you find yourselves here however do join in as it's a great support network.

AF finally arrived, put myself back down the bottom. Good to see things might actually be getting back to normal. Was expecting a real heavy flow however not the case which I'm hoping is also a good sign.

HappyGirl so to hear your joining us, I know the feeling at being back at work feeling the way you do. It does get easier with time so ((HUGS)) to you!

Wednesday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD50
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD41
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD41
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD37
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD37
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD35
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD31
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD31
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD29
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD28
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD26
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD26
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD25
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD25
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD23
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD21
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD20
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD20
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD17
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD17
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD16
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD14
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD13
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD13
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD10
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD10
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD8
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD6
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD6
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD5
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD4
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD4
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD2

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

Welcom to happygirl and spottysox - sorry you're joining us though!

I am at home today with ds2 and suspected chicken pox and dd2 with a (slightly exaggerated?) sore throat and ear ache.

I am messing around on the computer working from home

I did my first ever OPK this morning - it may have shown a line! I told dh already that he has to be ready tonight. Oh the romance!

Lovely sunny day here, pity I am stuck in with 2 children (and working of course!).

Hi happygirl and moofold. Apologies to those who swear by opk's. I used them for first two ttc cycles and they seemed to bear little relevance to what my body seemed to tell me. Chucked them in the bin and SWI the following month each day from day 10 onwards. Not surprising got BFP straight away.

I also have a feeling opk's show me ready at day 14 which is too late and I've always caught when I try from day 10 onwards. I have regular 27/28 day cycle.

Spotting almost finished and I am on day 6 so fingers crossed. We're on our marks for day 10 DH has sworn off the booze until I catch again. He is a light drinker anyway but made me feel awww

Not kidding I've had 3 pregnancy announcements at work. 1 with friends and 2 births in 3 weeks. The way I see it there's lots of baby dust around.

So come on board ladies, grab a cake for stamina and we'll all jump on the baby bus!

(Bunnybaby tries to be a positive as possible)

yes, I'm on CD8 bunnybaby - don't know if I am really about to ovulate or if the OPK is not right - but swi will start today.

I have never tried the OPK route, I'm going for the SWI from day 10 and DP is under strict instructions to have warm baths only, no wine or firing without permisson

Also feeling positive Bunny pass the cake round..

Good to hear that others go by their bodies also, I really think i'm having signs today and think we will start trying today pending the okay from the doc this would be day 13 since MC so hopefully we haven't missed our chance but i've been doing tests and all negative.. so fingers and toes crossed!! I just want to have that hope again although then that means all the waiting again but hopefully it'll be worth it!

So many people keep telling me they know of people who MC'd on their first about 6 weeks and went on to have babies so here's hoping!

Going to join you ladies in a fairy cake :-) I've started my baby healthy diet today only fruit for brekkie and going to give up my 2 cups of tea a day (does it really make a difference?)

Thanks for being so positive bunnybaby!!

Hi and big hug to all the newbies, sorry your here but your in the right place for lots of support and help which can sometimes be lacking in rl.

Been lurking but had to post about 'sausage gate' really made me laugh, but (feel a bit wrong in asking) can I have more? Does he need special underwear? Oh have loads more questions but going to stop.

< Lemon realises she needs to get out more >

On the AF front hate hate hate AF for me it's 'the red tide of doom' I know it's a mouthful ( well not in Mrs Gs case lol sorry couldn't help myself) but that's what it feels like for me every bloody month .

Hi All,

Just updating my stats. Had a really bad few days, getting very stressed, feeling fat when I should be PG and about everything. Mr Mummy can do nothing right. I daren't plan or organise anything for fear it will go wrong. Have v. large slice of chocolate cake in fridge - but that will do nothing to ease the guilt of comfort eating. Had already put on 6lbs prior to PG/MC, have now put a further 5lbs on and gone up a size!!

Wednesday:
Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD50
northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD41
Liahgen66 TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 (post mc) CD41
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD37
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD37
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD35
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD31
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD31
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD29
Slimyak TTC #2 UCL 26 cycle 2 CD28
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 9 CD26
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD26
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD25
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD25
SarahMumtoAlex TTC#2 UCL28 Cycle 6 CD23
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD21
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD20
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD20
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD17
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD17
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD16
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD14
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD13
Newcastle16 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD13
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD10
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD10
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD8
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD6
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD6
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD5
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD4
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD4
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD4
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD2

PENDING STATS
westyorkshiregirl TTC#? UCL? cycle? CD?
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle WTF CD?
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 CD51 cycle WTF for sure
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Newcastle16

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

Oh so so so nervous. If the GP tells me not to try I'll just be devastated. only thing getting me through is the hope of trying again

bordinge everyone. oouuuurgh. have gought the Dreaded Lurgy and amb suffringe in bed!!! Fortunately a) dh is home and can look after Brat A and b) Brat A is being a sweeeeetie and also slept for 2 hours this morning. Think she has been horrid lately due to Dread Lurgy and if this is how she felt then I have nothing but sympathy for her (well, I do since she's nicely out of the way with daddy and i don't have to worry.)

Feeble wave to newbies, we're good company but don't get too close to me, you might get poorly (self-pitying sigh)

Agree about af - tis smelly term and should be Dealt With. Sounds a bit like some kind of public-all-girls-boarding-school jolly-lacrosse-sticks thing. (was sent to one, so should know)

Personal suggestion, RF (Red Flag, they put them up on the army firing ranges when they are fighting to warn people to stay away. I certainly want to kill people do battle when it arrives )

Or we could just use the angry face!!! As in, arrived today...

My dh calls it painters & decorators

Forgot to offer around the Lemsip and cough drops...

Definitey hate af too - I cringe when I use it (on here - never in real life!).

Hope you are feeling better soon unbuffy.

mummy369 I also put on weight with pregnancy and christmas and can't fit into most of my clothes either atm. It is really depressing me, especially as the weight is proving very resistant to healthy eating.