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Emmsys Onwards & Upwards part VII - hand-holders and hair-strokers welcome!

1001 replies

cupcakefairy · 25/07/2009 23:12

Shiny new thread for us

The race is on for the first BFP!

OP posts:
bluesatinsash · 02/09/2009 19:19

Some wise words there LittleBell...

Just wanted to say big hand holds for Barbie, Neeko and 4ever tomorrow, will be thinking about you all x

MummyLovesSadie · 02/09/2009 19:36

Has anybody heard from GG??

bakingqueen · 02/09/2009 20:00

Not managed to get much revision done today will try again after dinner but +opk today so will have to try and fit in around bd action !! Preparing for bd action has taken more of my time today than revision.

Will be thinking of Barbie, Neeko and 4ever tomorropw as well and will check in tomorrow after course.

Hope gracie ok

Hope you all have a lovely evening off to make lovely farm shop steaks for dinner to get dh in mood for lots of bd action

mm1509 · 02/09/2009 20:25

Just popping in quickly to wish barbie, 4ever and neeko luck for tomorrow. I just keep feeling that after hearing about vjay yesterday the good news will keep coming. Will check tomorrow to see how you all get on.

gg hope all went well at the doctors today.

baking hope you have a nice night with DH.

Quick waves to everyone, speak tomorrow.

mermaidspurse · 02/09/2009 20:31

steak perfect bq you are surely pulling all the stops out this month - in a laid back way of course.

gracie hope you are ok?

neeko so so thinking about you.xx

I many not be here tomorrow morning for everyones good luck can you text me someone?

I am going to start working for dh tomorrow eeekk he will be soooo bossy and ds is back at school
but its ok cos I have made sure that I have broadband in the office

We will see how long I juggle 2 jobs in one office whilst mn/ebaying/anything else at all apart from work

mermaidspurse · 02/09/2009 20:33

oh thank you mm barbie tomorrow too - gosh barbie heaps of love, no more chicken suit after tomorrowxx

Neeko · 02/09/2009 20:40

Hi. Thanks for all the good wishes. My scan isn't until 2.40 so don't hold your breath for news from me. Is there anyone else I can text in case MLS can't post my news?

Good luck to both Barbie and 4ever tomorrow too. Everything comes in threes so lets hope it's lucky.
Good luck to Mermaid in your new job too.
Gracie Really hope you're ok. Piles are horrible and mine have never done that I was really sorry to hear about your friend's mum too. I hope he's bearing up ok. I'm sure he's heard all about us so please tell him we're thinking of him.

Two more girls from the April thread have had MMC in the past couple of days and I have suggested they come here too. Hope no one minds.

MummyLovesSadie · 02/09/2009 20:41

Mermaid lol at you working for dh tomorrow! You are even braver that I thought!! My dh would be bossy too & I'd end up telling him where to stick his job within about 5 seconds!

I'm getting really positive vibes for 4ever, Barbiesoontobebigpants & Neeko. I really think Optimus will send out ripples of good luck to us all.

GG hope all is ok.

CurlyBigPants · 02/09/2009 21:31

Hey there everyone

Just texted gracie and she says she's okay. She's spending time with her friend who just lost his mum the poor love

4ever wish I could give you a really massive hug honey. You have been through so much that it is hard not to worry about more bad things happening but tomorrow is going to be fine. For what it's worth, I had two MC's last year and each time I had got pregnant on the first month. It then took 7 months to get pregnant again. I don't know if it's the same for you but I think the difference was that before we were so relaxed, and post-honeymoon, and didn't know how hard it was going to get. After the second MC, suddenly we went from lots and lots of spontaneous bd'ing to the serious business of TTC . I understand why you are wobbling and you must miss your dad dreadfully but it's just not true that you won't have a baby because I know that it will happen for you soon. If you can bring yourself to believe it, then it may help you through the next little while. Btw it's my grannys 90th birthday the week after next so I'll be going home to see her. Her prayers never fail so I'll ask her to say a special one for you xxx

MLS I'm so glad that DH can go with you to the scan. Remember as Moon says, bean doesn't need a scan but it is such a relief to see the heartbeat!

mermaid is it warm in the greenhouse? Can we bring duvets too? Don't worry about DH, just start a union

neeko I will be thinking about you tomorrow. I will try and post on my phone if you text me but it doesn't always work! Here's my hand to hold xxx

Good luck too Barbie can't wait to see you peel that chicken suit off It must be getting hot in there!!!

Lovely to see you iggy even though we didn't really see ya cos you weren't there So glad you confided in your friend.

baking carry on with that zen behaviour. I hope the 2ww flies

hey blue I love your wed plan... you definitely have it figured out right

fifi stay strong, you have reached a bit of a milestone and I'm glad that at least physically you are nearly there. The emotional side is always there but it will get easier every day. Don't worry about posting about yourself. We are here to talk any time you need it xxx

Big waves to the lovely lbm vjay babyvjay and jools

CurlyBigPants · 02/09/2009 21:33

And one more wave for MM whose post I missed

SabsBigPants · 02/09/2009 21:56

Just a quick post to say good luck to neeko, barbie and 4ever for tomorrow. Feel free to text me if you would like me to add any news on here.

Also a welcome to fifi. You will not find a better group of ladies to help you through the hard times in the next few weeks.

Havent been able to get onto the laptop as much as normal. DH is currently without job not great timing but what can you do. I dont know if anytone remembers but he got made redundant in March and was lucky to be temping in the same place ever since, but that came to an end last Friday, and with the economic climate as it is at the moment, cant help but worry, but im staying positive that something will turn up.

Its also Ramadan for us at the moment and although im not fasting, our whole routine changes as we need to pray a lot more, eating times are different as well as sleeping and waking times.

Promise to post properly soon - so sorry I havent been able to address everyone

barbie1 · 03/09/2009 04:15

neeko 4ever and gg thinking off you all today, good luck all round, see you on the other side!

Neeko · 03/09/2009 08:44

Morning. Barbie 4ever asked me to post and say she's thinking of you as she can't text you. It goes without saying that I'm thinking of you too.
Hope you're hanging in there Gracie

Hi to everyone else. MLS has agreed to post my news later, but thanks for the other offers.

Joolsiam · 03/09/2009 08:51

A big day for a lot of people today - fingers, legs (as am in 2WW !), eyes and everything else crossed that all is well.

barbiebigpants · 03/09/2009 09:01
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BuddhaBellyBigPants · 03/09/2009 09:06

Just want to say to Barbie Neeko & 4ever I hope you can feel the hand holding and hair stroking vibes that I'm sending out Good luck ladies.
GG Glad to hear you're OK, give your friend an extra squeeze from us

Another quickie I'm afraid work is manic, home is manic will try and catch up properly at the weekend

Joolsiam · 03/09/2009 09:08

BarbieBigPants - I hope you've had the chicken suit dry cleaned and hung up in the greenhouse for re-use by current small panters

barbiebigpants · 03/09/2009 09:11

i feel so very for people worrying about me, im touched, truely i am....

I didnt post last night as the night vjay had her baby i was in pain and had bleeding, it was so bad i couldnt get out of bed once i got into at 8pm..yesterday it eased but the heart pulputations i have been having have started getting worse and turning into panick attacks. I didnt want to post all of this due to the fact i am aware of how very lucky i am to of gotten this far, a dream for so many of you....Also i was aware how happy the thread was and how very real neeko 4ever and gg concerns were about their own problems. I wish each and everyone of them as much luck as i had this morning. Come on girls we can all get through today and help mls next thursday.

As for me, dh insisted i had a scan. As you can see im in bigger pants (thankgod i have banished the four bums look!) and all is well with baby barbie, she could even tell us the sex but we refused....still thinking boy while dh is thinking girl as he insist she said 'she' a few times.
I have low blood pressure and am being referred to a cardiologist to check my heart...

neeko can you please text weeble and tell her i love her lots and im thinking of her now...you too.

Keep in touch, i want to hear all your good news....

And finally bleeding and pain is due to placenta still...very low but hopefully it will move soon

barbiebigpants · 03/09/2009 09:16

jool i got a funny looks taking it into the dry cleaners! who wants it next???

Joolsiam · 03/09/2009 09:30

Barbie - you shouldn't have felt you couldn't say anything We could have coped with being happy and supportive at the same time - we are women after all and can multi-task

What a hoooge relief that must be

mm1509 · 03/09/2009 09:40

Wow barbiebigpants loving it. Glad today went well, knew it would but that's easy for me to say. You need to take it easy with your low blood pressure, glad they are checking your heart out too, I'm sure it's just to be on the safe side. As for the sex was thinking boy before but maybe swinging towards girl now................can picture baby barbie in lots of pink .

Still thinking about neeko and 4ever, sending positive vibes their way.

gg hope today goes peacefully for you.

There seems to be a few pairs of medium pants going spare, who's gonna be next to jump into them!!!!!!!.

Joolsiam · 03/09/2009 09:52

Am being list monitor this week

Barbie - we need your EDD
Fifisboys - have guessed at your entry - please check
Gingermumi - not sure what stage you are at ?

Small pants

cupcake ttc#1 cd 24
bakingqueen ttc#1 cd 17
iggypiggy ttc#1 cd 17
Jools ttc#1 cd 17
4ever ttc#1 cd 10
Fifisboys ttc# cd 8 ??
gingermumi ttc#4 cd ??
Bluemoon
Sophable

Medium pants

MLS BFP 18th August
MrsKate BFP 26th July
Neeko BFP 19th July
becks BFP 8th June

Big pants

Lionstarbigpants due 26/09/09
Sabsbigpants due 26/09/09
Anniebigpants due 1/12/09
Buddhabelly due 16/12/09
Bluesatinsash due 25/12/09
Scorpio due 25/12/09
mm1509 due 5/1/10
GracieGirl due 06/02/10
Curly due 07/02/10
BarbieBigPants due ??

Saggy Pants

VJaybigpants due 26/08/09, delivered 01/09/09

barbiebigpants · 03/09/2009 10:10

i cant add it to the list....edd is 20th feb mm thanks for calming chat last night....

Joolsiam · 03/09/2009 10:15

Small pants

cupcake ttc#1 cd 24
bakingqueen ttc#1 cd 17
iggypiggy ttc#1 cd 17
Jools ttc#1 cd 17
4ever ttc#1 cd 10
Fifisboys ttc# cd 8 ??
gingermumi ttc#4 cd ??
Bluemoon
Sophable

Medium pants

MLS BFP 18th August
MrsKate BFP 26th July
Neeko BFP 19th July
becks BFP 8th June

Big pants

Lionstarbigpants due 26/09/09
Sabsbigpants due 26/09/09
Anniebigpants due 01/12/09
Buddhabelly due 16/12/09
Bluesatinsash due 25/12/09
Scorpio due 25/12/09
mm1509 due 05/01/10
GracieGirl due 06/02/10
Curly due 07/02/10
BarbieBigPants due 20/02/10

Saggy Pants

VJaybigpants due 26/08/09, delivered 01/09/09

bluesatinsash · 03/09/2009 10:27

Oh Barbiebigpants - fantastic news and welcome to bigpantsville .

Awful you had another bleeding scare but you know its due to placenta and not baby so hopefully no more panic attacks..

What a difference a year makes eh?!

I'm home alone as DS has started his ante-pre school sessions at nursery. I'm currently cleaning the bathrooms but with the radio turned up high in a 'whistle while we work' way hi-ho!

Neeko and 4ever, sending every good vibe your way x

Back to the marigolds...

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