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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Still here and now hoping for a OCTOBER baby!!! Everyone welcome please join me :)

943 replies

bubblebell1 · 04/01/2009 14:03

Af finally arrived so if this was my lucky month then i would be due in Oct.

Bubblebell1 ttc#3 ucl 30 cd1

Please come and join me add yourselves to the list We can try and keep each other sane

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Hobnobfanatic · 05/01/2009 20:41

Please can I join?
TTC #2 cycle 2.
1st dat of AF on 1 Jan.
What does CD mean? (Forgive my ignorance!)

My LO is 5 yo old now, and I'm with a new partner. I'm terrified that we're both too old to conceive now, so hopefully this will bring us luck! (I'm 37, OH 40 and never had kids before).

Fingers crossed!

TrixieVix · 05/01/2009 20:45

Quick update - still no AF (not had one since 6th October 2008!) and just done ANOTHER test with a BFN. So confused, but finally pulled my finger out and booked a Dr's appointment for blood tests tomorrow. What do you think they'll ask/do?

Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD13
MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 cd19
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 cd12
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 cd12
Homeinthesunttc#2 cycle 4 cd6
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 cd5
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 cd4
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 cd4
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 cd2
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 cd2
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 cd2
StealthPolarBear ttc#2 cycle 2 cd?
TrixieVix ttc#2 cycle ? cd?
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 cd?
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 cd12
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 cd6
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 cd1
Ralphie0596 ttc# cycle? cd?
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? cd4
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 cd?

Just wish I knew where I was!!

How's everyone else feeling?

StealthPo09IsHere · 05/01/2009 20:45

Hi everyone
Wow this is a busy thread, welcome to all the new people and hello to the september people.
We should ahve loads of people who don't join the ...November thread, keeping my fingets crossed

Hobnobfanatic · 05/01/2009 21:02

Ah, just found that CD means Cycle Day (thank God for the archives!).
So I'm on CD 5 today...

earlynite · 05/01/2009 21:21

Hello everyone, thought i would share something. My hubby is gettng a bit presious. "He's not a machine you know"

Ralphie0956 · 05/01/2009 21:32

Evening, I OV on the 16th day from start of my period and my cycle is 30 days on av.
They do say that 14 days is the norm, but it can vary!
I've downloaded a free trial of an OV calender that highlights your must fertile points within the month including when you ov, all you need to know is your last period and av cycle lenght (which we all know off by heart) .

hhtp://www.ovulation-calendar.com
It's a 45day free trial which is enough time to figure out when when you OV.

theboob · 05/01/2009 22:17

thanks all ,will look at that site thankyou ralphie

i have no idea how long my cycle is ,this will be my first month of ttc,have also been looking on fertility friend so think AF is due on the 21st jan.......i really dont want to wait that long it goes so slow lol

hope you are all keeping well and poor DH did not look happy when i informed him that i'm really sorry but we need to send the troops in

so who is testing first on this thread ?

earlynite · 05/01/2009 22:33

You will be before me theboob My AF due around 23rd or 24th.

WizzyWoo · 05/01/2009 22:50

I think I'll be one of the last to test, having just started AF today. Just want it over so can start BDing asap - I'm like a child waiting for xmas! Thanks for warm welcome and good luck to all of us.

1LittlePrincess · 05/01/2009 23:33

Im with you wizzywoo I'm only on CD2 and feeling really impatient this cycle. Cant wait for the witch to go on her merry way and leave me to make a baby

LOL earlynite...the classic I'm not a machine line...to which you answer(or maybe just mumble)while im Ov you are

Have organised the list so that we are able to see who is first to test etc hope this is ok x

MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD19
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD13
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD12
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD12
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD12
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD6
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD6
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD5
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD5
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD4
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD4
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD4
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD2
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD2
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD2
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD1

StealthPolarBear ttc#2 cycle 2 CD?
TrixieVix ttc#2 cycle ? CD?
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Ralphie0596 ttc# cycle? CD?

WizzyWoo · 05/01/2009 23:42

Great idea. I'm so excited by this - I don't want to tell any of my friends/family that we're ttc so I've been feeling about to burst with keeping it a secret. It's so good to be chatting to others about this

idreamofbeanie · 05/01/2009 23:58

I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one feeling impatient. Now that we have decided we are as ready for a baby as we'll ever be I just want to get on with it. I can't wait to be pregnant (although then I'll probably just be impatient to get the next nine months over and have my baby ).

bubblebell1 · 06/01/2009 08:25

MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD14
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD13
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD13
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD7
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD7
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD6
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD6
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD5
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD5
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD5
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD3
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD3
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD3
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD2

StealthPolarBear ttc#2 cycle 2 CD?
TrixieVix ttc#2 cycle ? CD?
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Ralphie0596 ttc# cycle? CD?

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bubblebell1 · 06/01/2009 08:32

hi girls!

ive updated cds for today. (if its wrong pls change it)

hello to the new girls !

trixie i was in the same boat as you before af arrived. i was 2 months late. i went to the dr twice. on the first occasion he said.. 'ER your either pregnant or your period will be here very soon.' then i went again a few weeks later and she said it can be normal for women to just miss periods for up to 6 months! (not heard that before either) but she refered me for a hcg blood test which too came back -tive. that was the 18th dec and then on the 4th jan af arrived no explanation.

i know how awful it is when you just want to get busy with ttc and you have no idea where you are in your cycle.

hope she comes soon xxx

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littlemiss26 · 06/01/2009 09:04

morning ladies

right, I have been doing ov tests and thats fine, but before i had my miscarriage two weeks ago i always had no line at all except the day or two where the LH peaked for ovulation. I have been doing them a week and the last two nights i've had a faint line. I'm confused about whether thats a peak or not?

so... i thought i best find out something about CM and cervix shape. I have to admit i've avoided getting too into this as it seems a bit yuck to me . But i think i need to see if there are any other signs that suggest ovulation. can anyone talk me through what i should be looking for???

iggypiggy · 06/01/2009 09:22

Hello - can I join you all? AF finally arrived this morning - after being 4 days late - I was so convinced that this time I was PG despite the negative HPT! Anyway... am going to try again this month in earnest - so I've added my name to your list - hope thats ok?

MintChocAddict ttc#2 cycle 7 CD20
Girlwithacurl ttc#1 cycle 10 CD14
Idreamofbeanie ttc#1 cycle 2 CD13
theboob ttc#4 cycle 1 CD13
earlynite ttc#2 cycle1 CD13
Homeinthesun ttc#2 cycle 4 CD7
FifiOK ttc#3 cycle 7 CD7
JeanieG ttc#4 cycle2 CD6
Hobnobfanatic ttc#2 cycle 2 CD6
pinkie08 ttc#2 cycle12 CD5
Warmseabreeze ttc#? cycle 7 CD5
DevilsAdvocaat ttc#2 cycle? CD5
Bubblebell1 ttc#3 cycle 2 CD3
Amanda12 ttc#4 cycle1 CD3
1littleprincess ttc#2 cycle7 CD3
WizzyWoo ttc#2 cycle 1 CD2
iggypiggy ttc#1 cycle 4 CD1

StealthPolarBear ttc#2 cycle 2 CD?
TrixieVix ttc#2 cycle ? CD?
Littlemiss26 ttc#2 cycle 1 CD?
Ralphie0596 ttc# cycle? CD?

girlwithacurl · 06/01/2009 09:37

littlemiss excuse if tmi... you need to look out for EWCM (Egg white cervical mucas, or fluid if you hate the m word, which my DP does ) this should look like egg white and be stretchy. This is like the fluid sperm live in and means they can survive for longer. Most people only get 2-3 days of EWCM, although it can depend on your age, diet etc. Apparently drinking grapefruit juice can increase it, but I can't make myself drink it yuck... When you identify EWCM its go go go!!!

littlemiss26 · 06/01/2009 09:43

.... lovely!! thanks Girlwithacurl will try and look out for it. I don't remember ever seeing this before though and i've got pregnant twice, maybe i'm just not very observant! whats the situation with cervix shape then! (she says trying to become an expert in two minutes)

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 12:42

can i just ask you all a question? do you wait until a specific day to do the bd or do you just go for it as often as you can manage?!

last time we just did a lot of bd, i wasn't counting days or anything.

littlemiss26 · 06/01/2009 12:52

i don't wait for a specific day, but i do it the day of positive ov test and then the 48 hours after that guaranteed. The rest of the month its for fun

theboob · 06/01/2009 12:58

well last night was a little strange

we both could not be bothered BD but knew we had to,DH said because he knew it took him a looooong time
he said i'm putting to much pressure on him,in a good way though,well i'll keep up with the BD for a few more days then ill have a rest ,hope you are all well will post longer after college

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 12:59

haha, thanks littlemiss.
ok another qu: do you all do ov tests? if you do is it because you have had problems conceiving?

by the way please ignore me if i'm being too nosey or insensitive.

Ralphie0956 · 06/01/2009 13:13

I only started doing ov tests as we were trying for a while with no joy and the first month I did an ov test I fell pregnant.

It's just a great way to know the best times to get giggy!

Come someone please explain what cycle and CD is please? TCC #1

idreamofbeanie · 06/01/2009 13:19

Hi Devil, I've just started using ovulation sticks this month. DP works away a lot at the moment and I thought it would be useful to know when I ovulate so we can try to get together at the best times if possible. I'm also hoping that it will stop me getting too excited (then really disappointed) the months we don't manage but thats probably hoping for too much.

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 13:29

thanks for all your responses.
i hope we have lots of pg people on this thread soon

what is the best day to have sex in regards to your ov? is it on the ov day?