The WIMBEWAI(N)F Club

[Bucky2008]

OK, so how about we start of on a positive....

I bought the test.

I did the test.

BFP .

Job done.

GG I'm so sorry to read your awful news . Words cann't really express how gutting this must be for you and your DH. Pile of sh*t pretty much sums it up. Massive {{{{{higs}}}} for you both. I'm glad you're getting away together this weekend to give yourselves some time and space to deal with this.

hell, i have no clean clothes. I have been too wrapped up in all this to wash any

picknmix - thanks for your lovely messages (haven't replied yet on FB). Means a lot, it really does. All of you.

Going to go now before I completely lose it in front of New Trainee, who probably would have a fit if he found his supervisor in floods of tears, wailing into her tea about having a miscarriage and failed IVF.

p.s. Bucky - thanks for your text m'dear.

caitni too. X posts.

i can't write any more, 'cause i'm really losing it now. F*ck!

I can't get hold of DH to tell him

GG This is definitely a pile of shit. What an awful few days. Go home - cry, drink, do whatever you need to do. Go and buy new clothes for the weekend so you don't have to do washing.

I hope the weekend away gives you and DH time together to grieve for this cycle. Look after each other. I will be thinking of you both. Hold on to your dreams.

XXXXX

GG so sad to hear it didn't work out. Hope the trip away gives you some space from all this. Please take care of yourself. Xxx

Well just been released from captivity here i.e. training course. GG this ttc stuff is crazy and bad bad bad. But as I said in my text I am in awe of your PMA (Positive Mental Attitude) (there was a lot of PMA going on on my training course today ). That positive outlook will take you a long way missus. Have the best weekend that you can and try and have some fun. xx

Have just got back so can't type much cos I feel like I am on a boat and my fingers are made of rubber....

Anyway, I just wanted to send (((higs))) to you GG. It really sucks that you are going through this. FWIW, I reckon that the fact that you did get pregnant is such a good sign, and I would just hold onto that if I were you. The next few days you will feel a bit all over the place - the hormones (although low levels) can really send you on a rollercoaster- so do take it easy.

Back later, hope everyone else is ok.xx

hey ladies
MrsH welcome back did you have a nice time??
GG hope you are as well as can be expected and you are getting some lovely hugs from your DH xxx {{{{{{{{higs}}}}}}}
bucky anything from your camp yet?? arent you due to test soon?
caitni how are you??
PnM hope all is well with you and your glamorous life
hello to our preggys and the lurkers
i have been feeling quite odd for the past few days which i put down to my cold but thats pretty much cleared off leaving me still feeling odd so i googled early preg symptoms and i have all but 2 off the list sore boobs, back ache, heartburn, nausea, shattering tiredness, dizziness, achey body, headache... in google doth the madness lie...
xx ei xx

Hi everyone,

GG hope you're as well as can be expected. You're in my thoughts xx

Ei this sounds v promising! I'd say step away from the google but I know I'd be breaking that rule if I felt like you (especially cos you and your DH have been very "active" this month no?). Here's hoping you get a BFP

Bucky how are you feeling today? Any more symptoms news? Glad you survived the role playing hell of training!

MrsH welcome back - can't wait to hear how your holiday was and how you're feeling

Not much going on with me. I'm about 7 dpo (can't actually remember despite putting my temp into FF this morning ) but not feeling any different from usual, except that my boobs are less tender than usual . So definitely don't think we got lucky this month!

hey caitni glad you are ok when are you due to test? if we timed things right we have been VERY active around the right time so heres hoping!!

Sounding good Ei . Have you decided what day you'll test? FF has me down for testing next Friday but am definitely not holding my breath (so will be merrily celebrating with cocktails for a friend's birthday tomorrow night!).

Hey girls

No news here. I did use up the test but it was on Wednesday morning I think , so I was some 5 days pre AF, so probably was a bit dumb...obviously it was a BFN! Though once I did it I didn't feel too despondant because I know how dumb it was.

AF due tomorrow. She has not arrived early yet...

Glad to see you back MrsH, felt like you were gone for ages!!!! Let us know if you had a good time. We missed you at the meet up.

Ei fingers crossed, it all sounds good at the mo. Did you say when you can start testing .

Well, I've got half a day at the hairdresser today! It takes FOREVER for me to get highlights! So I gotta run...Hi to Caitni and everyone. xx

hey ladies
hope you lot are ok
bucky sooo...what are your symptoms then?? im tryin not to get my hopes up too high [impossible emoticon] i have my fingers and pom poms firmly crossed and shaken for you
GG hope you are having a relax while you are away and you come back feeling a little better xx {{{{{{{higs}}}}}}}}
i have been doing my chart in FF and my temp says i oved on CD18 (which is what i thought) so that makes me 7DPO so i can test on thursday as thats when AF would be due with the assumption my LP is still 11 days my boobs are getting acheier by the day and i was on the verge of barfing at the smell of DHs coffee this morning!! i had to go upstairs cos my eyes were streaming with the effort i almost weed with the bloody effort hope everyone else is ok
xx ei xx

Evening all

GG I hope you are ok.

Bucky how are the highlights? I once got a full head of highlights - it took 3.5 hours to put the wretched foils in - and I will never do that again! Too much numb bum for me! did your period show up or are you still in the game? [hopeful]

Ei those symptoms sound promising. What a shame you can't test earlier!

Caitni how were the cocktails? I am as alcohol has been one of my main cravings to date! Don't you know that if you got completely bladdered the Law of Pregnativity might just kick in and deliver you a bean?!

You around and ok, PnM and MOB?

Well, news from here? There is none. I still feel queasy a lot of the time and although I am not really off food I lost 3 kilos while in SA so I must be eating less. I am craving milk and watermelon now we're back so I imagine the weight will be back on soon! I have a scan on Tues so am really hoping it will be ok. It should be (statistically speaking, anyway). Holiday was fab. DD and I are tired from the flight still, though, so I am off to bed!

mrsh nice to see you back glad you and DD (and the bean) enjoyed your holiday ooooh 2 sleeps til your next scan then
hope everyone else is having a nice sunday night
xx ei xx

Great to see you back MrsH . Glad you had a good holiday.

The highlights are fine, only 2 hours total which was good going! No AF yet, I'll buy a test tomorrow. My last 2 clomid cycles were 28 days and I am pretty sure I ovulated on CD15 so if she doesnt arrive tomorrow I am in with a chance! CD29 today!

bucky im testing tomorrow too only because i read something about being able to get a BFP on an OPK when you are preg and so i did an OPK for curiosity as usually it is BFN at this stage in my cycle and it was BFP so i am getting a first response tomorrow or some early test cheapies so dya have any OPKS you can do yourself??
xx ei xx

Hm, I think the OPKs are best avoided because they detect high levels of hormone, whereas with an early HPT you are looking for something which detects low levels.

Anyway, that aside, any happy test results out there?

I haven't got a test yet so no testing is going on here! Good luck ei fingers crossed here x

Good morning ladies

EI & Bucky will you both go and test please!!! The suspense is no good for my blood pressure . Everything is tightly crossed for both of you.

GG Hope you and DH had a peaceful weekend away together. Was it a city break in this country, europe or somewhere exotic?

MrsH Lovely to have you back, and i'm pleased to hear that you and DD had a good time. Did you go on safari or anything like that, or was it mainly family time?

Caitni How's the temping going? Do you have an interesting chart we can ponder over??

PnM How are things with you?

Hello to everyone else - RFN2&3, JB, Mibbes, DG

I have got A/L today, mainly because of having to use it all up before April (otherwise they threaten to take it away). I will probably spend a lot of it at the hospital though, as i have an appt with the consultant, and it is likely to be a long wait, as there's always so many booked in to see her. Unfortunately we didn't get any great pictures of the babies at the scan last week. The best ones are still those from last time that i have put on FB. They were, however, able to confirm that they are both definitely boys, so i have to confess that the other day i went and bought 2 little England rugby babygros!!!

OK, somebody slap me because I am feeling optimisitic and we all know that excitement just leads to disappointment. .

There is no sign of AF at all, so unless she is going to sneak up on me, I feel lucky so far. As I took the Clomid the egg would have to had hatched in the specified period, surely this can only be a good thing?

I have probably just jinxed myself by saying all this and TEW will arrive immediately, but I really should go out and buy a test at lunchtime just in case. Maybe its the sun making me so positive today? .

How are you all today? I feel like its summer yippee.... Even if she does turn up I think I could deal with it now because it is so nice!!!

I mean because the weather is so nice...I'm a bit hysterical with the joys of spring!!

are you testing Bucky ...

let us know!

Oh come on. Someone pee on a stick and put me out of my misery!

I am full of the joys of spring too. Days like today make me seriously glad that I don't have a job!

I'm on tenterhooks as well, MrsH . Got to go to the hospital now, so i guess i'm going to have to wait a few more hours!