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Bonkers Anonymous...... The Summer of Love continued - and still no such thing as TMI

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Mandy73 · 22/07/2008 12:18

New thread as requested (panic, panic) - hope the name will do?

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HumphreysCorner · 22/07/2008 16:45

Yeeha!

HC
x

ChocolateEclair · 22/07/2008 16:46

hi everyone - I am away for 2 days and look what happens!!!! (left laptop at work!)

Congratulations to Dawn - I knew you were pg!!!!! You must be so happy - another product of Bonkers Anonymous!!!!! Can you spread a little baby dust over us????

Sorry for all the AF's arriving, and good luck with the new month!! I feel that July is going to be a good lucky month for us all. We do deserve it I think! John Wayne all round then!

bellie and majormoo - glad the scan's went well. So nice to see a wave or a bit of willy! MM you have 1 of each anyway don't you so I guess you probably don't mind either way!

I have officially broken up today for nearly 6 weeks! Yey!!! Had to run a disco and talent show for 200 very sweaty teenagers all afternoon so am knackered! Can't wait to get packing finished and get off to Mallorca on Thursday! (weather forecast is sun, sun, sun!

Love to all
CE xx

bluestarlavender · 22/07/2008 16:52

HC - do you reckon we've all sync'ed to eachothers cycles??

DD - great! we can temp and OV stick together. I'm completely clueless with it all, but it'll be fun figuring it all out. What thermometer did you get? I think I need a new one, mine's digital but only got one decimal place. The temps I've taken so far have been all over the place!!

DaisyJ - not that I wish this horrible cramping pain on anyone...but come join us!!

Mandy - it's so nice to have a glass of wine and have no guilt whatsoever about it!! Pink cava sounds divine!

Hi to everyone else!!

BSL x

FlirtyThirty · 22/07/2008 17:01

Bluestar...can I join your temp and OV club! I'm on the same CD as you
I'm going to use preseed and Ov sticks properly for the first time this month and try hard to BD at the right times. I'm trying not to get DH stressed so am being secretive about all of the technicalities of the process!
Based on previous cycles, I reckon I'll OV around 1st August (next Friday)...

Flirty x

DawnAS · 22/07/2008 17:18

Thanks Ceebee, DaisyJ and CE for all the Congrats guys!! It's still sinking in TBH .

The littleun will be called Pip for now, so I don't have to keep calling it "it"!!

Flirty, probably a good idea to keep the technicalities a secret. I almost passed out myself when I saw what I had to do with the Preseed!! They definitely wouldn't want to know the "ins and outs", 'scuse the pun!!

OMG I nearly died when I took my first lot of Multivitamin things today!! I swear they're really horse-pills!! I didn't know whether to swallow 'em or stick 'em where the sun doesn't shine!! My goodness, I don't know about Morning Sickness, taking those every day is certainly going to exercise my gag reflexes!!

xx

DawnAS · 22/07/2008 17:20

Here we go ladies:-

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Lots of baby-dust for you!! It's windy down here today, make sure you catch a load before it blows away!!!

xxxx

HumphreysCorner · 22/07/2008 17:30

bluestar-when I first started temping my thermometer only had 1 decimal place and FF couldn't pinpoint OV-kept changing it until it got me OVing on day 25 so got a proper basal one and deleted that cycle.

Flirty-I should be OVing either 31st July, 1st or 2nd August.

We really are all in tune!

Wondered where you had been ChocEclair.

belgianbun-how's you?

HC
x

FlirtyThirty · 22/07/2008 17:30

I'm a-catchin' that dust, Dawn!
Thanks!!

So...what's the trick?! How frequently did you actually BD this month? This is a downside for us on the TTC front, as we probably only 'normally' BD once a week
. I'm going to have to makea special effort to be extra seductive this month!
Do you reckon that 48hrs before OV and on the actual day is enough? Am I right in saying that there is no point in doing anything after OVing?

Flirty x

FlirtyThirty · 22/07/2008 17:32

Oh, HC - we have synchronised OV! How clever of us! There's going to be a fair amound of BDing to kick-start August then!

F.x

Mandy73 · 22/07/2008 19:09

Flirty once a week used to be normal for us too. Then every other day or a bit more for a week around OV, or what I thought was OV. Not enough!

However on Super DB Month (yipeee it worked!!) we were at it on CD days 7, 9, 11, 13, 14 (OPK surge detected), 15, 16 and 17.

I had heard it's really good to do it lots in the 5-6 days leading up to OV, then the actual day. And then of course the egg can live for about 48 hours or more, so we kept going (have kicked myself for stopping too soon in the past).

Good luck girls!
Now: Fish cakes - yum. xx

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bluestarlavender · 22/07/2008 19:12

Hi guys,

Thanks for the dust, Dawn!!

HC - will definitely pop and grab myself a proper thermometer tomorrow. I might just have to scrap today and tomorrow's temp that way. Hopefully FF will still be able to predict my OV day from the temps without the first two!

Flirty - you are very welcome to temp and OV stick with us!! The more the merrier!

As for OV day, from last month, I got OV pain 14 days after AF and then obviously 14 days after the OV pain I got my next AF...the problem is OV pain doesn't necessarily mean that it coincides with OV. I'm gonna try to copy Mandy and go for 7 BDs in 10 days (Mandy - is that right??)

CE - glad you've broken up and the disco went well!! So jealous of your relaxing holiday!! I'm off for a week in Singapore at the end of August, but it feels soooo long away!!

Big wave to everyone else!!

BSL x

I figure we might try every other day once I stop bleeding, then every day in the 4 day run up to OV and then OV day and day after. I'm estimating OV will be in 14 days time, so I think about 4th August.

bluestarlavender · 22/07/2008 19:13

Ooops crossed posts with you, Mandy! Thanks for the BD advice!! Can you just remind me of your cycle length...?

BSL x

Mandy73 · 22/07/2008 21:33

28 on average (sometimes a little longer).

xx

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ChocolateEclair · 23/07/2008 08:14

Is anyone awake?

I just got a BFP

Bellie · 23/07/2008 08:17

CE that's fantastic!!

Not very often mn has shouting out loud but you just have !!!

ChocolateEclair · 23/07/2008 08:42

Thanks bellie!

We both have a crazy mix of emotions going on this morning - I think I'm in shock! Lots of tears(of joy)and total disbelief! Very very very happy though. I now have EVERYTHING crossed for the next few weeks.

bluestarlavender · 23/07/2008 08:48

CE - fantastic news!!! Well done and Congratulations!!!

BSL x

ceebee74 · 23/07/2008 08:49

OMG CE - I am so so so so chuffed for you I am sat at my desk at work feeling all goosepimply for you!!

That is just the best news - and, wow, you and your DP must be very fertile Will have everything crossed for you - have you any idea when your due date would be then??

And have just worked out the best thing for you - you have all of the summer holidays to rest during the horrible sicky/tired phase - great timing eh?

Hi to everyone else - will catch up later.
x

ChocolateEclair · 23/07/2008 08:52

Well don't laugh, but it's coming out as 1st April! LOL (4 weeks pg today)

Thanks so much for all your congratulations - you know I wouldn't have had the courage to ttc again if it hadn't been for all you girls on here - you have been brilliant

bluestarlavender · 23/07/2008 08:59

CE - And the nice relaxing holiday will definitely help too!! when do you leave?

BSL x

FlirtyThirty · 23/07/2008 09:12

Bloody hell! It's BFP week for sure on this thread!

CONGRATULATIONS, CE!!! How exciting for you! Did you do the test with your DH or tell him afterwards?! We want all the gory details...and most of all, your secret to success!

Dawn - How did last night go with DH? How did he react when he saw you?! I love all this happiness and good news...

Mandy - thanks for the tips on Super BD. Hmm...I think Dh will think I've gone totally bonkers (excuse the pun!) if I try leaping on him so much...he thinks we're taking this TTC as it comes, rather than on a mission like me!
So, my cycle is usually 25 days, and last month, I tested an OV stick and got a +line around CD7. assuming it's the same this month, then I'll OV around the 1st August. So...I was thinking that we could get down to it on 30, 1 (OV likely detected), 2 and 3...and maybe twice on 2 or 3rd as it's a weekend! I think I may be unrealistic to go for your sex-a-thon at this stage...I'll try, but DGH is usually absolutely knackered after work at the moment, so it could be a challenge to squeeze in any more BDing! That will alreadfy be his monthly quota in 4 days!? Will then try and stick to the every other day part a little longer... One of the problems is that I don't normally initiate sex and in spite of being married and loveing DH to bits, I'm almost embarrassed at the prospect of leaping on him.. This is clearly ridiculous...I must get over myself...

Flirty x

FlirtyThirty · 23/07/2008 09:13

CE and Dawn...you are having cyber-twins on the 1st April...is this a joke?!

ChocolateEclair · 23/07/2008 09:21

cheers flirty - pmsl at cyber twins!

I peed on the stick then left it on the edge of the sink and made DP go and look! He was looking and looking and not saying anything, so I got up and looked for myself! Men hey, I think he wanted it written out for him or something as the line was quite obvious! My temp had stayed up this morning and was expecting a pre AF dip - hence why I tested at 14DPO.

We didn't actually do that much BDing this month as we found it really hard to work out when ovulation would be. Fully did not expect to get pg this cycle! I think the ones that 'counted' were 2 days together, one the day before ov day, and ov day itself (i.e. 2 weeks ago). So, not exactly a recipie for success!

Still really
CE XX

DawnAS · 23/07/2008 09:31

WOW CE yay!!!! CONGRATULATIONS SISTER!!!

This must definitely be the best thread to be on - wait for the influx of ladies from other threads - .

Was it my babydust CE?!

Quick ladies, grab some more!!

Not that BDing doesn't have something to do with it, but babydust moves it all along in the right direction!!

CE Holding hands with you for the next few weeks now. We'll both hang on to Mandy's skirt!!!

xxx

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