TTC ? Waiting for first cycle after miscarriage

[anniehall12]

Is anyone else out there in the wait between the end of a miscarriage and their first cycle ? Xx

AF arrived 😭
I really thought there was a good chance this month.
Next cycle give NYD baby and cycle after would probably give us a due date of our other child 🙈😂

How are you getting on

@anniehall12and @Sparkles512Thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️

i tested this morning and bfn 😢
We did everything right this month timing perfect and as it’s second cycle since loss I thought I’d be extra fertile but bfn. Life is so cruel … But I guess wait for period and on to next month 😞

@Sparkles512 At least it’s arrived now and you can just concentrate on the next cycle 🙏🏽

Morning ladies XX

@Sparkles512 sorry hun! NYD baby would be super cool tho!!!

@Lillybobs86 i always say dont count yourself out until AF arrives...not everyone gets a positive before their period xx

I still haven't tested yet, I dont wanna drive myself crazy so I am literally just waiting for my period in 3 days and if it dont arrive then I will test

However since since yesterday evening I started feeling terribly nauseous, i thought it might have been something i ate during the day...have woke up with that same nausea again...and I have had HG twice so I have that feeling it is HG but maybe my mind is playing tricks and AF will arrive on time!

With my last pregnancy I knew I was pregnant before a test because of HG. Now I am just feeling mixed emotions... i really dont know if i could go thru HG again, especially after having the MMC at 13 weeks. xxx

You’re so strong!
I don’t have the strength to wait till Af due 🙈
Hopefully they are good signs, Good signs but the nausea I can imagine is awful :(
sorry to hear about your Mmc :(

im 13 dpo today so I’m defo out 🤦🏽‍♀️
I finally was able to opened a baby bottle of prosecco earlier now that I know I’m allowed it 😬

I’m just entering the tww. Hoping I can keep myself distracted and not obsessing, but unlikely 🙄. Sounds promising @anniehall12. You are very strong to hold out, I totally understand the want to wait and get a divinities answer though rather than wondering if there is a line there or not. Fingers crossed! 🤞

Definite not divinities 🙄😂

@cobalt123 Good luck!!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you

@Lillybobs86 @Sparkles512 Update ladies??

Me - I'm out! CD1 for me today. I felt so much better not giving myself line eyes. It definitely was needed after the miscarriage to preserve my sanity, lol! Xx

This is the start of my 3rd cycle since MMC*

Yes update is I got on period Monday!!!
Is extremely heavy 😰
I checked this and my bereavement midwife said it’s completely normal as only second period since I lost my daughter so it’s quite nomal to be heavy and painful 😩
Panicking a bit now though and really hoping for luck this next try 🤞🙏🏽🙏🏽

Yes AF arrived and was short only lasted 5 days. Feeling very deflated as I thought it might be our month. Never mind on to the next try!

How is everyone doing?

Hey hey. Sorry to hear about all the afs arriving. I’m on cd 20 now. I’m not too sure when I ovulated as I don’t track so I don’t know if it’s regular post mmc. I should probably really start tracking at this point. I was feeling quite pregnant a couple of days ago which would have been way to early so really I guess it’s just progesterone. I started testing already though, very silly I know. Honestly I must waste a fortune on pregnancy tests! 🙄

@cobalt123i usually start testing around then too 😬
I find it’s the only way to get through the tww!

Ovulation week already - Has come round very quick.
Last month was second cycle since my loss and I was absolutely certain I would be pregnant as we did everything right and had all the symptoms 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
I am interested in other views on when to dtd.
Last month we did every other day once period had finished plus day before and on ovulation day but I’m worried it was too often 🫣
Interested in what others would do with attached please 🙏🏽🙏🏽

I haven’t heard of too often really being a thing. Maybe good to keep going a bit after you ovulate incase you’re actually ovulating later than you think?

Potentially 9dpo this morning and did a clear blue digital. Negative 🙄.

Yes good idea 😬 .. it gets so exhausting though doesnt it 🤪🤣🙈

Also having the same issues. We are dtd every other day and it was my second cycle but still not pregnant.
I am also thinking we need to carry on after ovulation but we just don't always have the time or energy 😴
I feel mentally and physically drained at the moment 😞
I am trying to stay positive but finding things very hard.

@Sparkles512i know it’s exhausting I also feel very drained.

Yesterday we did nothing and now I’m panicking 🤦🏽‍♀️
Not sure if should tonight or leave till tomorrow and then every day till day after ovulation..
What days would you dtd according to below ovulation day?! Help it gets so stressful planning as don’t want to mess it up 😩😩

My predictions are pretty much the same as yours. Says I will ovulate on 12th.
I think we are just going to dtd every other day and hope for the best.
I might order some ovulation tests and give them a try.

12 dpo now for me and BFN. Feeling so tired of it. So much for all you hear about being particularly fertile after a miscarriage 🙄

Hey, please can I join? I am booked in for a d and c on Monday, age forty and lucky enough to have the most beautiful three year old in the world but keen to give him a sibling xx

Hey everyone sorry I haven't been online recently!
It is such a shame that none of us have got our BFP yet :(

How is everyone currently doing?

I am 1DPO! Done the deed every day 5 days before my peak and during the peak.

Ovulation pain sucks too!!!

Xx

Hi feeling very emotional and stressed
Only 4 dpo. I am trying to hold out until AF before testing because I am just using so many tests and driving myself crazy

I’m on cd6 now. Planning to give all the tracking a go this cycle. Does anyone have any tips on the best time of day to LH test? The ones I have say best between 10am and 8pm and since I’m out at work I guess it’s best to do in the evening when I get back? What do others find convenient?

welcome @theotherfossilsisterand sorry to hear you’ve joined the mc club. Hope all goes smoothly for your d&c.

Hello! Can I join? I miscarried last week at 7w (first pregnancy) bleeding has started to ease up and we’re keen to try and give things another go but I’ve lost all the excitement I had the first time around- I know TTC is what I want but now it just feels anxiety inducing and so much pressure if that makes sense!