TTC ? Waiting for first cycle after miscarriage

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Is anyone else out there in the wait between the end of a miscarriage and their first cycle ? Xx

Thank you @cobalt123. My second lost. My first was a year ago. It is a really really shit thing to go through. 🫂 to you too xx

You definitely shouldn't be getting faint positives from the miscarriage. It would have to be a new pregnancy. You should deffo get it checked out see if you can get a scan xx

I think it’s ok. From the info I could find online apparently it can take 3-6 weeks for levels to drop to zero. It varies a lot though. As they were getting fainter and now barely visible it will unfortunately still be hcg leaving my system. If my cycle doesn’t get back to normal within a couple of weeks I’ll book an appointment

Hey lovely how u getting on? so sorry i havent been online, my phone smashed so ive resorted to the old laptop! lol! i hope you are doing well?
Have you tested since your last post? Are you still getting faint positives?

As for me, a massive surprise but I ovulated super early, I got my peak 6 days after my period ended?? im so worried now!!! xxx

Hey @ttcnumerodos im so sorry for your loss and your experience with an insensitive doctor! you poor thing xx Please if u dont mind me asking, was this for your first loss? In regards to the progesterone...as I have heard they only give it after a few losses...but i think they should give it after 1 xx

@Sparkles512 How are you getting on? xx

Hi I am ok thank you.
I guess I am on my two week wait. Not sure exactly when I ovulated but keeping everything crossed 🤞

Hey! I still had a super faint line on Friday but af finally arrived yesterday. It’s quite a relief to be back in a normal cycle. 4.5 weeks since the miscarriage but it’s seems like such a long time of limbo.

Thats interesting that you ovulated so early! Do you think you managed to dtd around the right time? 🤞seems like you managed to fast forward a week 😂. I don’t do any LH or bbt tracking just go off ewcm and roughly half way through my cycle. But if it doesn’t work this cycle again then I’ll think about taking one of those up.

@Sparkles512 I'm in the 2ww as well! Wishing you a BFP! x

@cobalt123 Oh bless you that sounds really hard emotionally. I hope you are doing okay and being kind to yourself x

Yeah really interested that I ovulated that early, but then when i googled the reasons why I started getting scared so I stopped!

We've done the deed quite a bit before and during my peak, but I just got a gut feeling it wont result in pregnancy as i feel my body is still a hormonal mess from the miscarriage xx

How are you getting on?

I feel so deflated and I think I have accepted that we probably won't have another baby 😭

I feel like I'm torturing myself obsessing about getting pregnant and just need to focus on the 2 children we have 🤍

I also have 2 already, when I found out we were expecting no 3 I was sooo excited it just felt so right even tho we didn't plan it. Now we experienced a MMC we have decided to try properly. And I am a bit worried also if it won't happen again.

Strangely I have a very strong positive LH test even tho I had a positive one about 7 days ago. I only tested because of strong ovulation symptoms again and I was right. I didn't even know that is possible 😭😭 xx

TTC number one for us over here. I’m 40 this year though so a bit anxious if it’s going to be too late. Although in the 6 months we’ve been trying we had one chemical a one mmc so at least conception is not impossible for us.

I must say it’s really nice to not be in the month post ttc and not in the tww right now. It’s a bit of a mental break from having it constantly on my mind.

it’s so frustrating that the miscarriage really puts you back a good few months. Such a long process to just end up back where you started.

How are you all getting on ladies?

AF is due to arrive next week 😬
Trying to resist the urge to test

Hey!

I'm only 4 dpo.. it's going to be so hard to resist the urge to test and symptom spot. It will be a long two weeks!

I must confess, after my ovulation peak I'm a miserable cow! Hormones are a powerful thing

Xx

Sorry to hear you are feeling miserable 😞
Keeping everything crossed for a positive 🤞

I tested this morning. I think I'm around 10dpo and negative 😞

Feeling very deflated and irritable 😂

Oh gosh! I'm sorry hugs There is still hope! Don't lose hope just yet!

I'm now 6dpo and got a BFN, not even sure why I tested but thought it's better to do it so I can shut my mind up! For now, eh anyway x

I think I am stressing more because next cycle would be a NYD baby which isn't the most practical due date 🙈😂

Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞

Cd 11 for me I think. So ovulation time coming up but unfortunately dp is away for work for a couple of days. Hopefully it won’t be too late when he gets back on Friday. 🤞

How is everyone doing?

Day 29 of cycle I assume period is due tomorrow but not too sure how long my cycles will be after the miscarriage.

I had some spotting this morning not sure if its the start of my period 😞

Are you going to test or wait it out a bit more? 🤞. Not much news my end as just waiting for ovulation 😏

Hi ladies can I join?
Also TTC after a loss at 20 weeks :(
10 dpo today and bfn 🤦🏽‍♀️
TTC after a loss is such a mind game I felt my body has been playing tricks on me with pregnancy symptoms but seem very similar to AF 🙈

Also approaching 40 😭

Yesterday's test was negative

I think I will try to hold out until the Sunday 🤞

I am so sorry for your loss 😞 sending big hugs 💗

Symptoms are so similar it's really hard to know.
Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞

That's a huge loss. I'm so sorry mummy xx

Did you get a positive yet? Xx

You're sooo good at resisting the attempt to test.

4 days until AF is due and I feel like she'll be with a vengeance. Xx