1dpo - Anyone want to join during the two week wait?

[Ella31]

Hi all, currently 1dpo. Hoping for a lucky month. I lost my twin boys a few months ago at 29 weeks due to TTTS. Two days before this I had a beautiful scan and two perfect babies - only 6 weeks away from c-section. And two days after my scan - our world fell apart. I had no movement and all of a sudden, I was told one of my babies had no heartbeat and then four days later, we had to remove life support from his twin brother as he was so ill. My sons were beautiful, visually perfect babies who were so unlucky. I miss them terribly.

So Here I am 1dpo and hoping for the best. Would love the support from any other hopeful ladies and in turn I'll support ye too. Much luck to us all 😀

@Ella31 aww thanks I’m feeling better today I’ve kept myself busy and now my OH is home!
omg have the best time away this sounds amazing!
@2BabyOrNot2Baby oh that’s good that no AF yet, when are you planning on testing fingers crossed this is it for you! Hope it’s not just an off cycle.
@Negangirlxx this is so exciting!!! I hope it all works out for you

Thank you! 🩷

Thank you! I'm not too sure tbh. I've taken a few up to now, as we really haven't managed to DTD much this month and so far they've all been very much negative. As for Mondays potential ovulation, I'm hoping to hold off til next weekend but will no doubt test early and get sad lol . I've had a few niggly pains so could very well be AF letting me know she's on the way.

I tested today at similar times as op does and got some very visible lines on opk but not as dark as Monday's, so I think peak has well and truly been now.

Good idea 😂

It wasn't really. He preferred it so backfired massively for me 🤣 on the plus side I've got time on my side for more options!

😂😂

Ah well!

AF just arrived ladies and I'm only 10dpo. First month post loss was 9dpo , last month was 11 and today was 10. Is something wrong with me? 😢😢

@Ella31 Hey hun, we spoke ages ago. So sorry you’re still trying. No there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Our bodies are funny things amazing but frustrating at times. The horrific time you’ve been through, you need time to heal and so does your body. The last thing you’d want is for a BFP and for it not to be able to carry after the trauma you’ve endured. I’m 6 months down the line from a mmc, was nothing compared to your horrific experience, I was desperate to be pregnant to replace the lost baby which was due a few days ago, I reflecting now I just wasn’t ready, my body wasn’t ready and I can’t think of anything worse than it happening straight after but having another loss. Go away with your hubby, have the best time, don’t worry about peeing on a stick or drinking lots just have fun. You need this to heal. You’re very young at early 30’s so please don’t panic. Easier said than done I know! Big hugs lovely xxx

Aawwww @Ella31 onwards and upwards for your amazing break away and now AF has arrived you can try and enjoy yourself! Sorry it hasnt happened this month but next month might mean you have an Xmas baby 😆😀

I am out too. CM right up to the day of AF which started as spotting yesterday but has ramped up today! 🥴

Hope everyone else is well!

@Ella31 and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you lovely. It will happen when it's meant to. Lots of baby dust to you xx

Onwards to next month @BabyBorn sorry it came for you too. . I'm looking to start accupuncture for the stress. Booked in for the 25th. Cycle 4 for me.

@Ella31 there's absolutely nothing wrong with you! Your body is just trying to find some sort of regularity and as annoying as it is, it can take a while. It's completely normal! Try not to get yourself too worked up over it. Bright side to AF being early is you'll get to enjoy your time in New York uninterrupted 😉

I'm sorry AF has arrived for you & @BabyBorn. Hopefully next month will be better!

Still no sign of it for me, but I've had a weird pulling feeling in the bottom of my belly on and off all day (which I can only compare to how it felt when I was pregnant and baby was growing, kinda tight?), very very slight cramps in my left hip and sharp lower back pain. The not knowing of when ovulation was, or when AF is coming, is actually pretty unsettling 😩

My Premom app says I’m 12DPO and my OvuSense app said I’m 11DPO. Either way I am
completely symptom free, apart from I’ve got a few new spots around my chin and cheeks and that’s normal leading up to AF so I reckon I’m out.
im going to test tomorrow morning just to double check I don’t have a positive before I go away. I’ll be taking a few tests with me just incase AF doesn’t arrive then I can test again later in the week.
my bbt has never been so stable before though, but I do wonder if that’s due to the ovulation induction meds I took at the beginning of my cycle.

@Ncl31 I just ordered ovu sense advanced monitor. Do you find it good?

@Ella31 i use the ovufirst not the advanced so it’s the skin sensor. I find it brilliant.
BFN for me this morning and a huge temp drop so I suspect AF is around the corner.

I'm sorry you got a bfn , but happy to join you on this next month. We'll have our day.

Cycle day 3 today. Feeling optimistic once more for this month. Cutting out caffeine, swimming, got ovu sense and booked accupuncture for stress. I never cried as much as I did last month. Keep reminding myself I'm 33, not 85. 🤣

Visited my boys yesterday with some gifts for their resting place.

Yes it will, I’m just waiting for AF to arrive then I can start the month once more. In the meantime - I’m going to enjoy my holiday in Cyprus

Oh amazing have you left yet?

We’re just about to board the plane.

Ooo lovely @Ncl31 have a fab time!

Hope everyone is well!

Ah let me know if you think the acupuncture is worth it please! Always been interested in it but never known anyone to actually get it done so never been able to get a decent 'review' so to speak!
Sending love ❤️

Hope you are enjoying cocktails and lots of sunscreen right now 🤣😊😊

I will. I'm off on hols on Friday so starting on the 25th when I'm back. I'm hoping it will distress me

@Ella31 a few nice cocktails and sun lotion yes.
im still being a little cautious with not drinking too much until AF arrives. My temp increased slightly this morning but that could be due to alcohol yesterday.
I might do another test in the morning if not then defo Thursday