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2023 TTC 35+ Part 5

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VixFromThe6ix · 22/09/2023 19:33

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worldwidetravel2017 · 10/10/2023 20:13

CurlyWurly1991 · 10/10/2023 19:44

Sorry to hear it @worldwidetravel2017
and to everyone else expecting AF….

Waiting for ovulation here. Have started taking a supplement for oestrogen balance following my blood tests and now on CoQ10 as well.
OPKs are the lightest they’ve ever been (like barely a line at all) but other signs pointing to impending ov. Could be anytime really with my cycles having been so unpredictable, now I think high oestrogen is the cause of my cycle irregularities.

Dya use a basel themometer?
That helped me
Bought them off Amazon. Under a tenner each

FigandHoney · 10/10/2023 20:17

@worldwidetravel2017 I am so sorry!

@CurlyWurly1991 What is it you are taking to rebalanced your oestrogen levels

And generally yo everyone how do you get hold of your actual blood test results from the NHS? When they did them on me last time we were ttc, the GP just said everything is fine. But I never got to see them

@Pineappleapple I spotted for ages last cycle and asked the same question. I was told by others that AF is the first morning you wake up with a full flow

worldwidetravel2017 · 10/10/2023 20:21

FigandHoney · 10/10/2023 20:17

@worldwidetravel2017 I am so sorry!

@CurlyWurly1991 What is it you are taking to rebalanced your oestrogen levels

And generally yo everyone how do you get hold of your actual blood test results from the NHS? When they did them on me last time we were ttc, the GP just said everything is fine. But I never got to see them

@Pineappleapple I spotted for ages last cycle and asked the same question. I was told by others that AF is the first morning you wake up with a full flow

On the nhs app - under test results

worldwidetravel2017 · 10/10/2023 20:22

Those that use hertility health
For hormone and blood tests
Tests are done day 3 - by then most people are ' bleeding properly '

CurlyWurly1991 · 10/10/2023 20:23

@worldwidetravel2017 yes I do bbt and use fertility friend which I really like. The thing with temping though is that it confirms ovulation based on higher temperatures with progesterone however you can’t know in advance (although I tend to get a noticeable dip beforehand which seems to be happening now). I expect the OPKs will darken over the next few days so will keep testing.
@FigandHoney I requested my full medical records a few years ago and was asked if I wanted these via the nhs app. Since then I’ve been able to read all test results and GP notes on the app. It has been invaluable tbh. Prior to that I would always email the surgery and ask for the results to be emailed to me. What is reported as ‘normal’ can vary widely so I like to do my own research.
I have very high baseline oestrogen due to a liver condition and so what I take may not be helpful for others. I can see I have high baseline estradiol from my day 3 blood tests where it should be under 200 pmol and was 725.

CurlyWurly1991 · 10/10/2023 20:25

@Pineappleapple I would probably count heavy day of bleed as day 1 and go from there. Good luck, it should be helpful to get some info from the blood tests.

Pineappleapple · 10/10/2023 20:31

Thanks curlywurly and fig and honey. I will adjust the app to make cd1 when I had heavy flow and adjust from there. That pushes it along a few days. I am not often bleeding much by day 5 so would prefer to aim for day 2-3. Assume there is a reason they don't want day 1, it would show something different to day 2 I suppose

Pineappleapple · 10/10/2023 20:38

Ahh clear blue test today has flashing smiley. Don't think that can be right. Today is cd5. Cd8 if I counted from light bleeding of period. So I only did clear blue test yesterday (np other days previously as just finished period) which showed low ovulation then I guess in comparison today is high for some reason. Will have do just DTD allll month. I didn't get on with the premom tests, I couldn't see any rise at all so always preferred clear blue

EvelynKatie · 10/10/2023 20:47

Looks like I’m 2 DPO going by my temp shift on fertility friend and my peak OPK. I’m surprised how quickly I’ve settled into a very regular cycle. I’m on cycle 3 since coming off pill and each month ovulation has been CD17 and I have 28 day cycle. I’m slightly concerned my 10 day luteal phase isn’t long enough, but I’ve read mixed things on that.

CurlyWurly1991 · 10/10/2023 21:00

@Pineappleapple it doesn’t matter if you are bleeding on the day you do the blood tests; it is just to indicate the day of the cycle for comparison purposes, and because this is considered a baseline when hormone levels should be at their lowest.

El1988 · 11/10/2023 07:36

Morning ladies!

on my way to work again, hopefully wont miss my stop like the last time I was posting on here 🙈😅

i feel I’m ovulating super late this cycle - I’m on cd17 and I woke up to loads of ewcm, and a small temp spike. My husband was working late last night so we didn’t manage to DTD but we did the day before yesterday and I guess we will as well tonight and just hope that’s enough to catch it… what do you guys think?

SouthwestSis · 11/10/2023 07:46

@El1988 you can only do what you can do! It only takes 1 sperm!

I'm going home from my work trip tonight and can't wait to see my husband and little one but am completely exhausted so need to recharge before ovulation time!

SnookyPook · 11/10/2023 08:19

Morning everyone... 14dpo... well, this just goes to show you are truly never out until AF (doesn't) appear... really didn't think this was my month and have literally been expecting AF every time I've been to the toilet the last couple of days with the cramps etc.

We also only DTD twice this fertile week. One the night before peak opk and one the night after.

I'm feeling extremely cautious after the year I've had but 🤞🏻 This line is also stronger than my CP last cycle ever got....

2023 TTC 35+ Part 5
worldwidetravel2017 · 11/10/2023 08:42

SnookyPook · 11/10/2023 08:19

Morning everyone... 14dpo... well, this just goes to show you are truly never out until AF (doesn't) appear... really didn't think this was my month and have literally been expecting AF every time I've been to the toilet the last couple of days with the cramps etc.

We also only DTD twice this fertile week. One the night before peak opk and one the night after.

I'm feeling extremely cautious after the year I've had but 🤞🏻 This line is also stronger than my CP last cycle ever got....

Lovely news
Fingers crossed

FigandHoney · 11/10/2023 08:56

Aww @SnookyPook I am do happy for you. I vaguely remember having cramps early on in my last pregnancy. As you said you are never out until AF arrives!

@El1988 I think that's plenty. As @SouthwestSis said it only takes one sperm.

8dpo today and temperature still high. But I am expecting it to start it's downward trend tomorrow. That's what it usually does

El1988 · 11/10/2023 09:05

@SnookyPook aahhhhh amazing!!! That’s a great looking line! No squinters here! 🤞🤞🤞 and everything else crossed for you that it works out!

FigandHoney · 11/10/2023 09:08

Oh yes. Wishing you a sticky bean and a healthy uneventful 9 months

El1988 · 11/10/2023 09:10

@SnookyPook in all my excitement I forgot to say congratulations!!! 🌸

SnookyPook · 11/10/2023 09:14

@worldwidetravel2017 @FigandHoney @El1988 aw thank you ladies! I'm excited in a sort of muted way. I hardly dare believe it but fingers crossed this one will go the distance... 🤞🏻💕🌈

Catson · 11/10/2023 09:23

@El1988 I think that's a perfectly good plan

Ahh congratulations @SnookyPook there's no denying that line

Angelsrose · 11/10/2023 10:09

Amazing news @SnookyPook many congratulations!

CurlyWurly1991 · 11/10/2023 12:19

@SnookyPook congratulations to you!!! 💕

FigandHoney · 11/10/2023 14:06

Oh. Just a suggestion. But me and the girls who got our BFP at similar times last time I was pregnant, created a private Facebook group. It was lovely to support each other through pregnancy and early motherhood

Pineappleapple · 11/10/2023 15:01

Ahhh snookypook that's amazing!!

EvelynKatie · 11/10/2023 15:12

@SnookyPook amazing! love to see the BFPs, congratulations!

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