WHAT DO WE WANT??...BFPs WHEN DO WE WANT THEM??...NOW!!!! symptom spotters and 2wwaiters brand spanking new thread [grin]

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so here is our new LUCK-STUFFED thread
anyone got symptoms (or not which is a sympotm) get sharing!!
i have set up a table of cakes, biscuits, sweets and chocolate with the kettle on the boil for our teapot!! some comfy chairs and footstools get comfy and get chatting good luck is in the pot on the table do as you please with it (eat it, put it in your pockets, stir it in your tea) lets all do a concerted effort to get our BFPs
xx ei xx

afternoon ladies pinkgirl30 here decided on a name change

twinklingfairy Congrats!!!!!! So glad to hear one of my old symptom spotting buddies has got a. BFP!! And don't worry about brown spotting, I had three weeks of it and all was well at seven week scan.

Got my 12 week scan tomorrow, when I think I'll be 12+6 but I guess I'll know for sure tomorrow.

DG waves to all the other spotters, especially Ei hatty jb gg bucky mibbles mob coolkat picknmix scaryhairy

Ooooh, hello DG
I'm glad to hear all is going well with you and Digibean. 12 week scan is amazing as it will look a bit like a baby (although a bit like a fish as well). Enjoy!

haha scary you got the ei treatment!!
I wnder if it is really worth reminding her

Hiya digitalgirl thank you so much for you congrats. It is nice to have finally graduated.
Thank you for reminding me of your plight, I remembre now, you were on holiday at the ime. You must have been so worried.
Glad all is well, and that you enjoy your scan tommorrow, it is so exciting, you must pop in and share your joy

I am calming down now and relaxing into believing that it might just be true.
Planning to get PIL up in a fortnight so that we can surprise them with a CBD.
Have managed to convince DH that he would much prefer to tell them in person than over the phone.
Last time DH was working away from home and I had to tell him over the phone, this time was so much better

I hope you get your BFP tommorrow scary then I would have a familiar face over in the anti natal thread. It is scary to have to start again, when I feel I know everyone here so well.

Still no af after that slight bleed on friday. Usually have 36 day cycles so due on wednesday i think.

I am hoping that the Ei treatment is lucky.

No sign of AF here. FF says I am 14 dpo (normal luteal phase = 13 days) and my temps have gone higher. I did a test yesterday and BFN so who knows. Alternatively I could have ovulated 2 days after FF thinks, but if so what were those awful pains I have been having since Thurs? It would certainly be too early for AF.

Am going to pick up a bumper pack of tests on my way into work and do them all tomorrow morning if temps are still high.

Hope everyone is well this morning.
Fairy - get yourself over to the ante-ntal thread. There'll be lots of new Mumsnetters over there who will be more scared than you!!

morning ladies bfn here not going to test for a while as if bean stuck bding last wk wouldnt show on test.
cd 51 for me no af. not over till red lady sings:O

off to my friends laters

Morning all,

fairy What great news! Congrats I'm soooooo pleased for you.

DG Good luck with the scan, do let us know how you go on.

SH Everything sounds promising except that pesky BFN. If you are past your usual LP then I'd still be very hopeful. Fingers crossed for you.

Hatty Hope you had a good birthday.

Shakey Sounds promising from you

P&M Hello! As the others have said I think it would be worth going to the Dr, your cycles do sound very erratic.

Sorry about BFN pink/FD, glad you are still feeling positive.

I didn't test yesterday, I really can't face a BFN. I felt so hopeful but my temp has dipped a bit this morn and just feel like I might have got my hopes up for nothing. I'll have a go at putting a link in to my chart if anyone wants a look.

Hello to ei, mibbes, GG, MOB and anyone I've missed

My chart jollybear

My first ever link

Morning Everyone!!

I have changed over to my Easter name (thank you Bucky - your suggestion!!)

Fairy thank you for all your details - it really does help the rest of us. I am still struggling with the thought of a fairy doing it from behind!!!! Please don't worry about the "brown gloop", cramps or your temps - you are pregnant - enjoy! (I know though that not worrying is easier said than done)

scaryhairy strange - everything is sounding promising for you, apart from the BFNs. Do let us know if you do a sneaky one today. And wow, if you get a BFP after having the EI treatment - we'll all want it!! (Morning EI )

hattyyellow i'm pleased you had a nice birthday weekend. I know what you mean about feeling that things are never going to happen, but hang on in there.

DG lovely to hear from you. I will be thinking about you and your scan today. Please do let us know how it goes.

FDCO/pink You must be frustrated with all this waiting around for AF / BFP, but you always sound so positive. I reckon you will get one or the other in about a week / ten days, going by the symptoms you had last week.

JB Thanks for sharing your chart. I know nothing about temping, but that still looks high to me. As you are 13DPO according to your chart, i guess any test should be reasonably accurate, but I do understand what you mean about not wanting to test yet, and I admire your resolve. Do let us know if you do test though!

PicknMix i would echo everyone elses thoughts and see a GP, just for peace of mind if nothing else - it sounds that new one you mentioned may be far more suitable!!

Good morning to any other ladies i haven't mentioned.

HELP ME - i am going a bit mad here!! After feeling chilled and relaxed last week, i am now in a pathetic state! BDed on Friday (as you all know but have not since, due to absence of EWCM. Cervix felt open yesterday but still fairly low. Then yesterday afternoon i had some pinky / brown stained discharge for a few hours . This morning (CD 18) a bit of creamy CM but no EWCM. What does this all mean???? I panicked yesterday and got a CBD OPK - no smiley face, but second line was apparent although not too strong, just how it normally is a day or two before a +ve OPK. I would normally have a reasonable amount of EWCM though. So where has my EWCM gone???? (It's missing - perhaps it is hiding with beaniesteves cervix ) And what on earth was that blood??? Now i think that the reflexology may have broken my insides... And have we missed the egg? Or hasn't it appeared yet??? Sorry to ramble on, but if anyone has any suggestions i would welcome some help!

Morning MOB,

You can get a little bleeding at ov apparently so it could be that. Would this be a v late ov for you? EWCM can get stuck up near your cervix (not beanie's cervix ) so you could try going on a EWCM hunt. If I was a betting bear I'd say that you are about to ov if your cervix is still open. Maybe the reflexology has made your ov stronger, hence the blood .

Thanks for looking at my chart! My temp is still high, it is just the dip that has got me in a bit of a tizz as I'd got my hopes up . If my temps remain in the high range I'll try and pluck the courage up to test on Wednesday.

Your temp is still really high jollybear and mine dipped the day after I tested. And continued to do so in fact yesterday it was practically at the coverline. So I have thrown the thermometer away.
I think you are still in with a chance.
How long is your norm LP, have you passed it yet?
I coull be getting excited for you here!

Oh MOET You made me cringe to say it so blatently

It could be that DH was a little over enthusiastic.
My Bro's GF had a small amount of blood recently cos of that (she is about 9wks pregnant now) He was dead chuft, roll of eyes, men!
But if your cervix is open but medium, I imagine it will rise in the next couple of days. Mine always went in that order.
Can you jump on DH again?

If it's any consolation not only can I not find my cervix, I have had no EWCm this month and no positives on OV sticks

Still, did a lot of sex so who knows!

Hey ladies can I join you? Am currently spotting ov symptoms.

Thanks TF - You have given me hope my last cycle was v long and although my temps rose I'm not convinced I ov as it gave me a LP of 18 days the chart looks different from this one too, more jagged and lower high temps. I'm still too scared to test though .

Glad you have binned the thermometer. I think DG was worried about her temps after her BFP and she was advised on the pregnancy board to chuck it away and not worry!

beanie I think the sex is the most important thing so fingers crossed for you! Are you testing or waiting it out?

Sorry cross posted there clairepo! Yes of course you may, pull up a chair and tell all

JollyBear... I broke and tested on Saturday but nothing. (was 5/6 days before my period is due) Thing is that I know I ovulated later in my cycle last month so I am guessing if I did the same this month I proibably wouldn't detect a pregnancy yet (My LP was 8 days last month!) so I guess there's still hope.

I have had symptoms but have dismissed them all as I really just don't feel like I am pregnant.

Scary am very hopeful for you missus, esp with temp rising - everything crossed !
Fairydust sorry for BFN, good idea to hold off testing, you are very strong-willed.
DG hope scan went well - update us please !
Hi Jollybear good to 'see' you missus. Your chart is interesting as there is a possible imp dip on 5dpo (which is the earliest imp can occur but perfectly possible) and if you disregard 4dpo temp as a one off you have a triphasic pattern after 5dpo !! The dip today is minor, I wouldn't be concered about it.... ooohhh JB sorry to raise your hopes but I really do think this looks good for my FF CB !!!!
Ei feel free to ignore me just in case it brings luck ...
MOB I doubt the reflexology has broken you - but a funny thought ! Agree with JB that it could mean ov about to happen. Maybe EWCM didn't make it to your knickers - I never get any on pants just when I wipe (and particularly after a bowel movement). Get some BD'ing in just in case missus
Hi ClairePO what are your ov symptoms missus ?
beanie you've had quite a few very good symtpoms, I am really hoping you get a result soon xx

I had day 21 bloods taken earlier today, 2-3 weeks until I get results. Plus have to wait until they have scan results too and get the lot together so it will be ages before I know anyhting. I am rubbish at being patient.

I was hoping you might cast your expert eye over my chart mibbes! Glad to hear that at least your bloods are in the system. It takes soooooooo long! Hopefully you'll get a nice BFP before then anyway .

I'm glad you don't think the dip isn't anything to worry about. fairy said the same thing! I'll see how my temp is tomorrow and maybe test on Wednesday .

beanie I'd disregard that test! Lots of ladies on here have had no symptoms and a BFP too.

ooohh JB I'd love to see you get BFP - crossing fingers, toes, legs and anything else I can contort into a cross position...

afternoon ladies
hope you are all well
DG nice to see you and good luck for youe scan tomorrow
shakey i hope AF stays away and you get your BFP
TF pmsl at 'the ei treatment'
scary everything is sounding very positive for you (except those pesky BFNs) esp with your temps rising etc
JB looking at your chart i wouldnt say your temp has dipped much at all it looks still quite good so hopefully it will stay that way and you get your BFP
MOET love the name
clairePO hi what symptoms have you got for us then??

hi to everyone i have missed fairydust bucky tanti GG LL hatty
xx ei xx

evening ladies had a great time @ friends
thanks for support
does sombody mind updating my new name on next list cheers

woohoo blanked by Ei almost a guaranteed BFP for me then !
Bucky are you out there lurking ? Pop in and say hello if yoyu are xx