TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
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@FfayeN I'm in the cardiovascular risk category 🙄 with previous stroke. I'm 9 stone not even slightly overweight so might be genetic but will find out soon Xx

Hallelujah!!
Hoping you get some good results soon lovely 🥰 xx

@mummatara omg you made me laugh so much!

I can join in with annoying husband's tonight. I gave him my phone for 19 minutes whilst I was getting our DD ready for bed and said "please can you watch my phone in case the hospital calls" (for my blood test results). A couple minutes later he comes up and says "ah I just missed the call, I was washing up." FFS! I've been literally hovering over my phone since 8am this morning and he can't even take it for 10 minutes?! Of course the hospital haven't called back, it wasn't a number I can call them back on... Goodness knows when I'll finally hear about my HCG levels. I also need to ask them for a scan. I'm livid right now.

@RaliaMusca dear god why?? Why did he NOT ANSWER?? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@FfayeN hoping so! Being so good (apart from wine) I have to DTD tonight and be careful LOL it makes no sense in my world 😬

@Luna57 I'm so sorry you are bleeding😢 If you are with the hospital I went to they are absolutely brilliant and I'm hoping all is well. I'll be thinking of you my lovely

@RaliaMusca OMG how much do you actually want to kill him right now 😳😳

@RaliaMusca Wow... I cannot believe he did that. I am not surprised you're angry.

@mummatara oh jeezus 🤦‍♀️ they just think we wave a wand and 'ta-daaa' it's all done and dusted. Sorry he's being a total pain. The deadlift suggestion did make me lol though. I get that he's trying to be helpful but really?! Drink the Prosecco. Have a hangover in the morning. Tell DH he can teach DC how to deadlift whilst you nurture a hangover 🥂

@RaliaMusca that is literally THE most annoying thing. It's typical they call when you step away from your phone! I feel your frustration, especially when they call on a unknown number 🤦‍♀️

@Luna57 how are you doing lady? I hope the bleeding has eased up 💕

@bunnykins123 I don't know how but I have no hangover 😂 small mercy's

@Luna57 good luck lovely I hope you get some positive answers. What time is your appointment?

Thinking of you today @Luna57 , hope everything goes well 💕

Girlsss sorry tmi question here but has anyone ever had yellow discharge in early pregnancy ?? Noticed it yesterday and last Saturday. Bit concerned it's going to turn into spotting.

Ovulating today. First one after first AF since MMC. Hope dh is on the same page as me…

@Luna57 thinking of you xxx @Mariabombia I'm sure I had the yellow discharge xx

@Luna57 good luck today 💕 I hope all goes well.

@Mariabombia I've had it both in pregnancy and not in pregnancy. I think it's yellow due to progesterone. Totally normal though!

@mummatara you did well! I had 3 glasses on Friday night and felt like death yesterday...

@calimc83 @bunnykins123
honestly I'm just shitting it about everything. Feel so anxious. I darent have sex at all, go to the gym, go for long walks , see certain people as I'm scared about catching a bug/virus, have a bloomin bath 😢

I was walking around for ages shopping yesterday & I got this yellow discharge and last week I did after going to Pilates. i just feel like I want to wrap myself up in bubble wrap for 9 months. I know i'm being over the top but honestly I can't seem to help it because of the mc. Had a big chat with dh about it last night and he's feeling the same. I think we're both just so terrified :(

I’m not sure how the scan went. Measurements from the scan were between 6+2 and 6+4 weeks. Looking back those dates would coincide with when I felt O pain on my left side about 4 weeks ago but I didn’t think it was O pain at the side and she was able to see the cyst on my left ovary where I ovulated from. But my pregnancy tests were far too positive for a week after ovulation surely? Only thing, she couldn’t see a heartbeat she didn’t seem worried there was nothing there yet. But I feel a heartbeat should be seen from that GA with transvaginal? I’ve 2 weeks of cyclogest and back again in 2 weeks for another scan to make sure things are progressing. All in all I’m not very hopeful. Scan was really sore as well. I haven’t lots of bleeding anymore it’s on and off but still no pain. She said the bleeding could be many things hormones, sex or could be a mc starting. Just feel so deflated.

@Luna57 sorry you didn’t get the answer you was hoping for :( glad they are rescanning you in 2 weeks then! Have they offered that as a reassurance scan due to previous MC? Still keeping everything crossed for you!

@Mariabombia i think they are all normal feelings to have, especially after a MC. Hope you’re being kind to yourself!

@Everythingzrosie good luck today, hoping DH is on form

@Luna57 it's so hard. Wait and see wait and see. So sick of waiting and seeing

We DTD last night. Unprotected. I mean I'm CD6 so I know I'm not fertile yet but it seems DH forgot? I'll have to speak to him ffs

@Mariabombia yellow discharge sounds perfectly normal to me, I’ve had it too

@Luna57 it’s really positive that they can see something and the dates match up, but i bet it’s still going to be a very anxious two weeks for you. We’re here for you to unload all your worries x

just had my bloods done, might get results today but if not then tomorrow. Please please please be going down!!

I’ve now brown discharge again so I’m really hoping that’s the end of the bleeding for a while. I’ve been on google which I know I shouldn’t but seen a few people saying their baby’s heartbeat wasn’t detected til 7 weeks+ so maybe I’ve a bit of hope 🤷🏼‍♀️ Was only a small little blurry blob. Has anyone used cyclogest pessaries before? I feel like I read on here somewhere someone recommended using them rectally instead of vaginally as they kept falling out?

@Luna57 oh lovely, I'm sorry the scan wasn't very reassuring. The uncertainty is very difficult and two weeks is a long time to wait. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

I finally got my blood test results and my HCG has doubled in 48 hrs from 1070 to over 2000 so that's looking good. Bleeding has stopped and I did a cheap pregnancy test this morning which was darker than the control line. But I'm still not convinced after that clotty bleed two days ago. I'm having a scan next week though when I'll be 6 weeks so hopefully an answer then. Although I know I also won't be reassured until I can see a heart beat

@Luna57 so sorry to hear it wasn't stone-bonker news either way. It's so tough.
I have read before that vaginal is best at night, rectally in the morning. Minimal leakage that way apparently. 😘 xxx

@Luna57 oh I'm sorry it's not given the reassurance you were looking for. I've taken cyclogest - they are actually pretty easy to use. 1 in the morning, 1 before bed. I prefer up the back passage, MUCH easier and less leakage (if you do go with the hoo-ha, be warned you will get discharge and it stains your underwear so wear old ones). If you go up the back passage, your poo will be a bit white, do not be alarmed!

@Luna57 oh really sorry it wasn’t more conclusive for you. This is the issue with these early scans at 6 weeks ish. Sometimes they cause more worry for a few days until further reassurance.
but I don’t think panic yet. I have had a heartbeat at 6+1. But I think it’s 50/50 at about 6 weeks ish whether one will be present or not. If you take the smaller measurement of 6+2. Then 48 hours can make a difference and in 2 days there could be a heart beat. There was a fetal pole she could measure. So that’s positive.
2 weeks seems a long time to wait tho doesnt it 🙈

@LuckyMoonstone oh bloody fingers crossed hey 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Come on hcg! Piss off lol xx

@RaliaMusca good news on the doubling hcg!

@RaliaMusca great news about doubling HCG! How far along are you now? 4 weeks?

Thanks ladies, it's gone more browny yellow this afternoon so I'm freaking out a bit :(

@Luna57 sorry the scan wasn't very reassuring but positive that they can see something and they're monitoring you and putting you on cyclogest. I don't think everyone sees a heartbeat at 6 weeks so try to keep positive, it's still so early ❤️❤️❤️