TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

@Luna57 I'm so sorry. I know right now your mind must be all over the place. Really hope time goes quickly for you and you get the answers you need tomorrow x

@LuckyMoonstone
I just tried to find a pic of one of my tests, but I think I just deleted everything when it was all going on. My last blood draw was 36 and it was still visible on that same test-very close to yours I think, so to me it looks like it's going in the 'right' direction. It took another two weeks for mine to leave my system, I really hope yours is quicker!

So I'm 5dpo today and I'm spotting- WTF?! I'm not thinking it's implantation bleeding or anything. Definitely sure of my dates as I temp, but very confused! It's very very light, but definitely there.

Haven't heard back about my blood test results yet. The said they'd call me last night or this morning at the latest. But nothing so far. I rang them earlier and the doctor was "unavailable".
My bleeding has nearly stopped again, just some brown spotting when I wipe and a bit of dark red in my pad earlier but not much at all.
No cramps anymore either. Not sure if I've already passed it all or if it was a random benign bleed again. But the dark red blood and clots yesterday, even though very short-lived, looked quite final.

@LuckyMoonstone here you go!

@theblueflowers are you sure on your O day? Sometimes the rupture of the follicle can cause some brown/pink bleeding? Not sure how many days past O day it can happen tho?

@RaliaMusca hope you’re okay! I’m going with the saying ‘no news is good news’ keeping everything crossed for you x

Thanks @HalWin2221 . I still have the hope that the bleeding (this one and last week's) has something to do with the fact that I had surgical management of my MC only two weeks before I got pregnant again. On the other hand my realistic brain is telling me to be prepared for bad news in the next few days.

At least I have a fun few days coming up. It's my DD's fourth birthday on Tuesday and we're having a party for her tomorrow. Currently making a "chocolate brownie banana cake" as per her brief.

@theblueflowers thank you for that! Yeah they don’t look too dissimilar. I hope it’s going down🤞

@RaliaMusca well that sounds bloody delicious

@thanks! Yeah pretty sure of my O day- both my temp and OKPs lined up. I wonder if that's what it is, or maybe a cyst bursting? It's gone now, so hopefully something to just forget about.

Just catching up with the posts. @Luna57 I really hope it's nothing to worry about, so lucky you have a scan tomorrow so they can hopefully appease your nerves and it's all ok 🙏🏼.

Ok @ChloeN here goes....I also can NEVER feel my cervix unless it's really low and only then just once before right before my period. Anyway, when you get it in as far as poss, try and keep one finger (or two if you can) on the edge of the cup bit, with the other hand pull on the 'tail'. It should stay in place as high as you can get it then. I feel contorted trying to get in a good position to do this, not in-front of DH too I might add 😂.
It gets easier with practice xxx

Ladies I've drunk half a bottle of champers and I'm def very tipsy 🙈 also my DH keeps forgetting that I'm in the middle of bleeding what would have been our child and it's irritating the fuck out of me what is wrong with him 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

@FfayeN thank you!!!🙌 I don’t think I’ve ever felt mine really so similar to you! So hold like the outside rim bits with my finger?? I’ll give it another go tonight lol, it was quite hard to get out even though I didn’t get it in properly!

@mummatara lol it is the weekend after all!! What do you mean he keeps forgetting?!! Like just pretending it’s not happening??

@ChloeN yeah just try and keep the edge pushed up as you gently tug it the other way, don't try and hold on to the edge that would be impossible up there 😂. Yeah, first few times I thought the tail was gonna ping off it had such good suction, now I try and push it out pelvic floor wise as well as pull on the dongle 😂😂😂. Things we do hey!!

@mummatara mine was the same. I'm sure he just assumed it was a normal period and just didn't get the pain I was in or the emotional side and asked why I was so upset. They just don't get it, but then how would they I guess. Don't take it personally, we all know what you're going through 😘 xx

@ChloeN 😂 ahhh if only I could voice note 😂 I think in his head because it was a couple of weeks ago we found out he just doesn't equate the two as it's happening now. So I asked him the other day to make sure he wasn't working to take DS swimming today he asked me why what was I doing 🙄 he obviously thought I had other plans I was like I'll be bleeding and today I've had horrible back ache and he said oh you should do some dead lifts to help with that ffs I was like deadlifts won't help at all with this moron. There's been a few times where I just haven't felt right and his first question is oh why is that 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ I honestly despair he's actually very supportive in the normal way so I know he just isn't putting two and two together but it's getting on my nerves 😂 also the champagne was a very nice vintage bottle that was a wedding present I was very very sad when not even one drop more came out 😭 I might open the wine in the fridge I've put DH in charge of the child when he wakes up coz you know he will and I'm gonna enjoy myself 💁🏼‍♀️

@FfayeN I know right bloody morons 🙈 I'm just fed up of reminding him what's happening 🙄 I'm usually very patient but it's starting to piss me off

@FfayeN i was thinking wtf will I do if the stem pings off and I’m left with an inside out cup stuck inside me 🤣🤣

@mummatara omg i would love voice notes on here😅😅 absolute memory of a goldfish it seems🤦🏻‍♀️ he must just not be thinking, I suppose because it’s been going on a little while has his life returned to normal a little bit?? I think he would be getting on my nerves also lol🤣 you need to enjoy yourself lol go for it

@mummatara 😂😂 omg you make me laugh so much..deadlifts??! Wtf!!

@mummatara gimme has number I'm half a bottle of wine down. I'll voicemail the heck outta him😂 men are idiots 🙄🙄 mines looking a bit tonight..will have to keep drinking 😂

@ChloeN honestly I'm one of those awful people that leaves a voice note and because I've rambled on about crap it's 10 minutes long 🤣 I know he doesn't mean anything by it but I'm like just please use your very normally intelligent brain and figure this out before I divorce you 5 months into our marriage 😂

@MrsCristianoX hahaha he always says deadlifts will help my back ache which I used to get often from being at the yard all day riding and doing stable chores but this is a whole different kettle of fish 🤦🏼‍♀️ there is no helping this kind of ache honestly I'm just putting DS to bed then I'm going to have more wine I've opened the wine floodgates 😳

@mummatara yea I'm feeling miscarriage backache isn't the same? Go girl 🙌

Im washing my brown rice and veg down with wine 😂

@mummatara deadlifts?! Where has his mind gone to come to that conclusion?! That's so random!

@MrsCristianoX I'll pay for this tomorrow but who cares 😬 haha that sounds like you've made your dinner much much tastier 🤣

@theblueflowers I suppose he thinks deadlifts will strengthen my back muscles 🤔 even when I was having pt sessions before covid I was rubbish at them so I still don't think they would help me anyway🤷🏼‍♀️😂 and they def won't help with this 🙄

@MrsCristianoX well done you: healthy eating for me is not for a Saturday, pizza and wine for me 🤣

@mummatara deadlifts......DEADLIFTS? When the products do come out offer for him to come and have a look...that should remind him about where your body is at right now....men 🙄

@FfayeN I know 🙄 they are a rule unto themselves it's given us a Saturday laugh at least 😂

@FfayeN I have to 😭 that's my reason for the pin in ttc cholesterol levels too high. No cholesterol in Prosecco though 🙌🙌