TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

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Thanks girls. I conceived literally two weeks after surgical management of my previous miscarriage. Maybe my body wasn't ready for this one yet.
I'll treat this miscarriage as a new cycle and a new chance to make this seemingly elusive second child of mine.
Hopefully I won't dwell on it too long.

@RaliaMusca i haven’t looked at anything yo redecorate just 😂 we had a leak in the living room so waiting for builders to come out from insurance company so I’ll start mentally redecorating in my head til they’ve sorted everything.

i know exactly what you mean when you blame yourself for a bleed etc. the day before I started getting mc cramps I went to an outdoor water park (lots of swimming, slides and upper body strength needed) I felt a pain on my right side low down the moment I started swimming dh could see I was pained but I didn’t let on.

@calimc83 it seems I get a pain and then I’ll have a bit when I wipe I’m really hoping it’s stretching and implanting. I think if I phoned epu they still would say I’m 5 weeks so wouldn’t do anything. Maybe put me on the crazy lady list for phoning 3 times in nearly 3 weeks 😂 today has been the first where I’ve been feeling nauseous more easily and of course anything im snacking on to keep it at bay im having to share with ds so there’s nothing left in the house 😂

My bleeding seems to be getting lighter this afternoon 🤷🏼‍♀️ I def haven't passed it yet so odd

@mummatara mine at 9 weeks was very light to start start, then heavy and painful with everything very visible :( and then medium to light. Lasted about a week. I have to say mine was nothing like the 'heavy period' epu predicted.
Hope you're doing okay, glad you managed to get a better rest last night ♥️

@RaliaMusca hope you're okay, it won't be because of that but I know exactly how you feel. Let us know how you get on with your bloods this eve.

@lovenaps yeah I get that, I would have defo used them to see when I ovulate too but it seems to stress me out for some odd reason so I stopped using them. Hahaaa you can have too much of a good thing can't you! Are you in your tww now then?

@ChloeN I think you are supposed to ovulate the day after your surge so if you dtd the day after a dark positive it's not necessarily too late to catch! How did you find the ferti lily? Too messy for me lol!

@Luna57 oh bless you, only 2 days to go now lovely.
Do you actually think there's a crazy lady list lol? The thought has actually occurred to me.

With my first pregnancy I had period like pains nearly every day until I miscarried. This one not many period type pains but I'm getting like stabbing/shooting pains instead , hoping it's equally normal 😬 it happens in each side and the middle of my pelvic area. Anyone had similar ? Xx

@mummatara sorry to hear it's not passed yet, take it easy lovely. It it's a big thing for your body to go through and it could be getting lighter as the big bits get to your cervix. I'm so sorry it's awful to describe. Mine was similar to a period until I had an internal scan and then the next day it happened, I think the scanner must have knocked my body into gear. 🥺 hoping you're through this ordeal soon.

@RaliaMusca so sorry to hear you're going through another MC 😢

@LuckyMoonstone how are you doing hun?

@Luna57 wishing you all and only good news for Sunday, I'm sure the CM is nothing to worry about 🥰
xx

@Mariabombia OPTK is super dark today (still), it's positive for a 3rd day in a row now and super dark for a 2nd day in a row... I probably have not ovulated yet so I am probably not in the TWW... Really hoping we managed to try again tonight/tomorrow morning as last time we tried was on Wednesday!

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@RaliaMusca I just saw that you're bleeding. Really really hoping all is going to be okay, we are all wishing the best for you ❤💐

@FfayeN I’m ok thanks chick just enjoying the weekend, I’m not really stressed about next blood test results. If hcg is coming down that’s great but if not then I’ve made peace with no TTC for 12 weeks, this is my favourite time of year so that’ll get me through it :)

@FfayeN thanks I never thought of it like that but does make a lot of sense hopefully it means it might get stuff passing soon 🤞🏼

Got my ferti-lily boiling ready for tonight lol🤣🤣

@ChloeN haha my DH caught me doing mine and I think his words were: WTF! 😬

@ChloeN 🤣 good luck 🤞🏼

Just found out my city won Eurovision :D I'm chuffed haha.

@ChloeN 😭😂 hilarious..mines hidden in a drawer til the time is right! I'm pure rattling with vitamins and I have literally no idea what they do..one helps the eggs I know that and the others are antioxidants?

@Luna57 how are u doing? It could easily be implantation and stretching lovely, I still check for bleeding every time I go to the toilet..Sunday will be here before u know it, u can do this xx @mummatara I hope u are ok? Thinking of u xx

@FfayeN @mummatara it reminds me of a sperm🤣🤣 hopefully it does the job I’ll let you all know if it’s successful, knowing me I probably won’t be able to get it in and I’ll of wasted 30 quid 🙃🤣

@MrsCristianoX is the egg one the ubiquinol?? I keep debating starting that one

@ChloeN I just got mine this week and it is better than I thought! You will be fine!😌

@calimc83 thanks lovely I'm ok I'm a pure grumpy cow though I am trying very hard not to be. Cramps have ramped up a bit this evening

@MrsCristianoX I'm a full on rattler these days I have 6 different kinds of vits I'm taking 😂

@ChloeN you're so young you don't need it! I got the vitamin I think I you got @mummatara lipoic acid? I must admit I didn't read the book. But full on health kick now 😬

@TheBirdintheCave woop! I love Eurovision 😁 selfishly pleased lpool got it as it's closer to me haha

@lovenaps how do you pop it round, anytime I pull it, it starts to come out 🤣🤣

@MrsCristianoX do you think?? Maybe I’m better to not take stuff if not needed!

@ChloeN it's a good vitamin for aging eggs but I think you are early 20s ? I could be wrong on your age but very much doubt you need it..it's bloody expensive too. I think I paid £60 for 60 tablets. Will give DH the crappy ones from Amazon 😂

@ChloeN also good luck with the 'proper' cup method😂 keep us updated I'm a bit wary too though not needing it yet

@Luna57 all the best for your scan 🥰

@MrsCristianoX yeah I’m 24 so maybe I’m best sticking with just folic acid and vitamin D!

I feel like it’s kind of worked but I don’t think I could feel my cervix?? I couldn’t push it in any further because I couldn’t reach 😫😫🤣🤣🤣