TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

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@MrsCristianoX I had 25 sticks. Managed to use all of them in less than a week 🫣😩 I’m sticklers this morning after doing the last 20miu at 10dpo. Gagged when I cleaned my teeth.

@lizziecat1 it’s horrible isn’t it, I honestly feel like I can’t show my face there again because it’s almost embarrassing, which is a really stupid way to feel but I can’t help it.

it’s going to feel so weird not TTC this month. I keep thinking omg it’s November I’m so desperate to be pregnant soon then having to remind myself that I really don’t want to be pregnant over the Christmas period! There’s no way I could hide an early pregnancy over Christmas, and I absolutely wouldn’t want to tell people. Im still gonna keep an eye on this cycle, see if I ovulate any earlier or later since the MC.

@mummatara no it’s definitely not half, maybe she said 0 but it sounded like 8 😂 but it is going down so that’s good

@LuckyMoonstone is this because people would be suspicious if you do not drink alcohol? Could you say that you are e.g. on antibiotics and absolutely cannot drink alcohol? x

@Everythingzrosie it's 10 DPO so there's still hope ❤how are you feeling?

How is everyone doing? I am on A/L right now, ending soon but honestly, going back to work seems really challenging right now mainly because of comments I sometimes get and I am overly sensitive and get upset! And I do not bring up TTC at all but need to find a way to shut the comments/questions.
Planning to spend the day slowly cleaning the house.
Has anyone been reading or watching anything good on Netflix recently?

@lovenaps There is ☺️ I don’t feel any bfp symptoms 🙁 got 4 more days to obsess though…

@lovenaps don’t bother with The Watcher. I got really into it but found out the true story and needless to say I’m not watching it anymore.

@lovenaps nah that would never fly with my family & friends for the whole of December 😂

@Everythingzrosie do you usually feel symptoms? Thanks as I saw it was Top 1 in the UK at the moment and did think about watching it! x

@LuckyMoonstone okay, they are not a gullible bunch of people 😂x

@lovenaps I didn’t the last time, I was shocked to find out I was pregnant because I had my usual mood swings and no sore bbs.

@Everythingzrosie Neither did I, never had any symptoms. I know I have not a good ending yet BUT I know people who have children and did not have a single symptom!
I think it is said to be about 20% of people that do not get any pregnancy symptoms, remember reading something like that!

Sorry for not making much sense, was typing too fast and deleted some words!

@LuckyMoonstone yes that's what I'm thinking it sounded like 8 but could have been 0. I'll ask when I go back tomorrow what it was 😂

@Everythingzrosie I was planning to start the watcher when we got back from hol, maybe not anymore 🤣

@lovenaps no they are a suspicious bunch 😂 anyway, I do want to have a few drinks and enjoy all the Xmas parties. I’ve been pregnant the last two runs up to christmas (plus xmas day last year), I’m looking forward to my wine advent calendar 😅

Did anyone’s ovulation change post miscarriage? I had my first period pretty much bang on 28 days after passing the tissue, and I’m currently CD15 and still getting negative OPKs. In the last 12 months or so I’ve never had a negative test at this stage! I know it’s only a day or 2 different but I’m already worried I won’t ovulate this month 😫

@RainbowSearching pretty sure I always ovulated day 14, first cycle after mmc was day 15, had a chemical last month and it was day 17 this month! I feel like my hormones are still all over the place. Do you get a quick LH surge? Mines nothing to a peak within hours really xx

@RainbowSearching I totally get how you feel but please do not worry ❤I ovulated on day 13 one month than day 18 another month, it absolutely does not mean you will not ovulate this cycle ❤
@LuckyMoonstone you've been through a lot and it's so good to see you still got things to look forward to and enjoy! 💐x
@ChloeN haha 😂everyone's praising Dahmer series but I would find it too dark 😳

@lovenaps i watched a couple of episodes but it was so bloody weird I gave up🤣

@ChloeN I’ve always used the clear blue advanced previously, and generally go from 1 or 2 flashing smiley days to solid smiley. This month I’ve went for the pink version (Amazon were all out of advanced!) which just go from circle to solid smiley 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know I shouldn’t already be worrying, it’s just so stressful thinking about possibly wasted months.

@lovenaps thank you ❤️

@RainbowSearching ah okay I use them too! I normally have a couple of days of flashing to then solid, I get quite a few days of ewcm before peak too so I seem to just produce loads of estrogen maybe?🤣 I guess with the one you’re using it’s just waiting for that peak which might be a day or 2 out? Xxx

@RainbowSearching even with a peak I worry about actually ovulating or not so I definitely feel you with the anxiety, hopefully you get that solid smiley soon xx

Hi gals - sorry I've not been as active recently. Just beginning to find this all a bit too much and I'm feeling horrible all the time as the hydroxy means I have every bug out there. I think I've got a uti now so it's looking like the drugs are well and truly suppressing my immune system. I hope everyone is doing well and it's so lovely to see so many bfps! Xx

@bunnykins123 oh you poor thing ☹️ sending lots of get well quick vibes your way 💕