TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

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New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
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@Luna57 I switched to reusables years ago now and haven't had to buy another pad :D Bloom and Nora are the ones I use if you're interested.

@Indianna2006 What time is your scan?

@cocoforbes the thought of no Kit Kats would break me too today😭

Feeling a bit better, just am in angry awe of how men (well my DH) was so blasé about it 🤷‍♀️

@Indianna2006 3.30pm 😩 so nervous!

@TheBirdintheCave so nervous I’ve tagged myself ffs 🙈😂

Ah thanks everyone for your support with this, can’t believe this has taken up a whole month!!

@Indianna2006 you funny 😂 all the luck I can send comes your way my lovely 🙏

Ah the late ones are the worst. My 12 week scan with my son was at 4.30pm I was terrified all day and burst into tears when went into the scan room. Funnily though, at lunch time on that day I felt him move for the first time, little flutters like a goldfish in a bag. I didn't know that's what it was at the time though.

I hope this last hour goes really fast for you!

@TheBirdintheCave no lolll, but good point! I can imagine that stuff even staining cm! Maybe you should go for your bloods doing in case a pregnancy test isn't picking it up for whatever reason?

@bunnykins123 when I look it up it just says infection and not the high progesterone thing, but I do hope that's the case as that would surely be a good thing ☺️ no smell at all, just clear when I wipe followed by random bits of bright yellow, then clear again. It's thin and slippery, not like thrush discharge. Very odd. Hoping it's not blood.

@theblueflowers ahh really, who told you that? All I can find online is infection related stuff 😐
Great news about your pregnancy, hope you're feeling well in yourself! What is your Ttc journey if you don't mind me asking ♥️?

@FfayeN 😂😂😂 whoops that's story has given me a well needed chuckle. if it was me I would have one after go away in the belief all is fine esp as 6 weeks can still be inconclusive you don't want to panic more than you will over the time your away over what ifs. There's no wrong or right way though you have to do what feels right for you ❤️

So I rang the EPU this afternoon and I've been for a blood test go back weds for another and she said once they've seen bloods they will book me in for a scan. I had a random small bleed when I wiped this morning and then nothing else. But haven't bled since last weds other than 3 small spots.

@Mariabombia I asked both my GP and midwife as it freaked me out! Anecdotally I also know quite a few friends who also had the same thing- they also had successful pregnancies.

Thanks! Just nervous. We've been TTC #1 for 18 months now. Conceived in Dec '21 but miscarried on New Years Eve. Think I was around 6 weeks, but with I have irregular cycles so it was hard to know! The MC happened before I could get a scan. Conceived the cycle straight after that, but unfortunately had a MMC at 9 weeks. Heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks. That was in March, and now we're here again. It's hard to feel hopeful tbh.
How are you getting on?

Okay so scan all went well😊. Waited ages to go in though 😩

NT measurement was low which was good. Baby was very active. Moving about and dancing all over the place. Moved ahead 3 days so am now 13 +2.
Got a very clear photo and a VERY good clear nub shot so give me your guesses ladies. I’m thinking maybe another girl?!

Feels a bit surreal tbh!

@Indianna2006 how amazing!! 🥲 congratulations lovely & thanks for sharing your scan - it’s giving me the hope I needed today!

@Indianna2006 great scan photo, and that’s great news.

I will guess girl, purely a guess though.

@Indianna2006 awh great news! What an adorable little baba. I'm going with girl guess too! 💕

@Indianna2006 eeeeek what a great photo ❤️ I have no idea on nubs but I'm going for boy 💙 im so so pleased for you. It's always the worst near the end of the day because they are invariably always behind 😭

@Indianna2006 amazing news! Such a great photo. I have no idea what nub theory is, so to go against the grain I'll say boy!

@Indianna2006 Amazing news! I feel like a good 12 week scan is like a graduation for us here 😂

@Indianna2006 yay, so lovely to hear your good news and to see little baby! I'll say girl as well.

@Indianna2006 ❤️❤️❤️ massive congratulations 🥳 I'm notoriously wrong for guessing scan genders but I think a little girl head..💕

@TheBirdintheCave how right you are 😂

@Indianna2006 ah that’s so amazing! What a great pic 😁

omg guys this is the most painful period I’ve had in a long time 😫 my uterus is full on aching like it’s been to the gym 😂 and literally radiating all the way to my arse 🤣

@Indianna2006 massive massive congratulations lovely, what a great photo too 🥰. It's actually made me feel quite emotional. Xxx

@Indianna2006 glad everything went well☺️☺️ congratulations lovely xx

I was genuinely like omg it’s in there 🙈🙈 sounds so silly but just kept thinking the worst. Sonographer said it seems very happy in there dancing about ☺️

can’t wait to tell our DD now. But we’re waiting until weekend when we tell our family too. She is going to be SO excited. And we’ve waited such a long time for this. Now she’s 4 she really will understand and actually it’s going to be lovely. It was meant to be So now I be mummy to two rainbow babies ❤️❤️🌈🌈 my DD and this little one. How precious is that.

@LuckyMoonstone prob cos it is like the end of something more than period. Alwhas make it heavier and worse symptoms I felt. Ugh that period aching is the worst. Hope it eases up for you

@Indianna2006 ah thank you for your sympathies! Literally been fine all day and then suddenly this evening it’s gone horrendous 🙈 but I’m grateful for it I guess