TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

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New thread ladies sorry if I've missed anyone feel free to add 💗
@MrsCristianoX @Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave @mummatara @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @HalWin2221 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @everythingzrosie @ChloeN @ChickenT2b @Chellooo @theblueflowers @RaliaMusca @Margo34 @Mariabombia @emhope @lovenaps @

@Mariabombia thank you so much for sharing that you have similar experiences. And you are very right, both parties are involved in the process and both people are grieving... I think us, women, we tend to blame ourselves a lot.

@lovenaps Can we see the tests? :D

@lovenaps we definitely don’t need a break from you! Keeping my fingers crossed! 🤞🏽

@TheBirdintheCave my phone quality is rubbish, I will upload if/when they get darker but lines will probably be even less visible on the phone. Just feeling really anxious... I had a think about left sided pains to try and remember when they started and from what I remember, they got more intense probably 4-6 days ago and I understand that it must be something unrelated- so no longer concerned about that.

The brand I was complaining about was e@h, I think they're based in US, I e-mailed them this morning just so they could look at that batch thinking more people might be affected. They replied within 15 mins, on a Sunday, really can't fault them at all when it comes to communication. I still think yesterday's could've been an indent as it did not have pink in it I think... Today's one seems to have a tiny bit of pink.

Just really waiting for DP to go to the bathroom, he does seem to be a bit annoyed with me and I can't blame him though. He struggles when I hit the rock bottom and I totally understand it might not be easy for him to live alongside me then. I understand he must be feeling anxious so at the moment he is keeping himself to himself. We will probably both be very cautious for some time now.

@HalWin2221 Thank you ❤

@bunnykins123 I came off a thread about NK cells as I found myself thinking I needed to do more but you might find it informative (if you're not on it already!) it's called 'pred thread' or something.

@HJA87 so sorry for your loss 🤍

Well I can safely say my underwear is going to be destroyed with this progesterone! What a messy thing that is 🙈

@Indianna2006 another vote for seeing your little one tomorrow. Positive news is always welcome here, we are so invested xx

So much happening here today not sure I've kept on top of it all 🙈 I've had super back ache the last two days which I had before bleeding started so I'm wondering if it's going to start up again I wish it would make up its mind I don't think I can go on for weeks and weeks stop start bleeding that would just be eurgh 🙄 I haven't bled for 5 days now so would be odd

@HJA87 sorry for your losses lovely it's not easy when they come one after the other 💕

@LuckyMoonstone I think that test looks a bit fainter be interesting to see what level you're at now

@Indianna2006 def post a picture ❤️ can't believe how fast those weeks have flown 🙈

@lovenaps hopefully it's the start of something for you 🤞🏼post the tests if you want some extra line eyes

@MrsCristianoX hope you're ok lovely 💕 men can be very insensitive without meaning to xx

@TheBirdintheCave it does seem like your body is playing silly buggars! Xx

@lovenaps we really do, it's so sad. Thank you for sharing yours too ♥️ please don't stop sharing and don't apologise at all. That's what this group is for, we support each other.
That sounds really promising re your test!! I have everything crossed for you lovely, keep us updated 🤞🏻

Went to have a quick chat with DH and he does not think it is positive. He said it is probably just an indent. Really wish I could show it here properly. Men are not good at squinting at sticks 😅
He won't believe until it gets darker. Really don't know what to do with all this and I feel alone in this.

@lovenaps i dipped the easy@home ones in water to see if they have indents, would that not work? Xx

I am going to try my best to capture a good quality photo but I know phone messes them up..

Please believe me when I say the lines are 2x more visible in real life... Very rubbish phone quality...

@lovenaps they’re definitely positive. That’s what mine looked like this time when I first got the BFP. DH told me I was crazy. Mine also have very visible indent pre dipping but it’s true that they disappear if negative x

@lovenaps Definitely not indents! :D

@lovenaps they look like much more than indents to me

@HJA87 @TheBirdintheCave @LuckyMoonstone Thank you so much ladies, it means so much ❤xx

@lovenaps definitely pink lines!! 🤞🏽

@HalWin2221 thank you ❤

@lovenaps i can see them too☺️ when I’ve done them before they were always really negative! I was like you with them last month thinking they were indents but don’t think they were in the end!

@ChloeN thank you for sharing your experience ❤
I know it's too early to be jumping with joy, will wait and re-test on Tue or Wed x Will just try to take each day as it comes for now.

@lovenaps tentative congrats! What was your previous history like with miscarriage(s)? Sorry I’m fairly new to their thread. I know it’s hard but try to think positively.

@HJA87 my first pregnancy was a missed m/c after a fetal heart was already seen on the scan.
Second one was just under 5 weeks so technically a biochemical, lines got a nice point and then stopped getting darker, then started fading.
So if that makes sense, I know that lines (even very clear) of fetal heartbeat on an ultrasound do not necessarily equal good outcome... SUPER cautious.

*got to a nice point

*or heartbeat
Sorry for all the typos!