TTC after miscarriage thread 12 🌈✨💛💕

[FfayeN]

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I figured it can't hurt to give it a go and could be quite helpful for low sperm motility as it's cutting their swimming distance a little 😂

@Luna57 I always took it rectally as I read quite a few people had problems with discharge and bleeding when vaginally. I'm fairly sure that the nodules would be the pessary irritating your lining, I wouldn't worry.

@TheBirdintheCave I think that's a great way to look at it. You hear of women all the time falling pregnant when their partners have low motility etc. I think there is a (expensive 😬) vitamin called proxseed which is meant to be good.

@LuckyMoonstone I'm so hoping the numbers have gone down on Sundays blood test!

@bunnykins123 thank you, me too! Can’t believe how long this is dragging on for

@bunnykins123 my first bleed came around maybe a day after me and dh had sex. We’ve only had sex 2/3 times from bfp I told him I was too scared he’s scoop the baby out. He said last night he feels to blame for the bleeds which is stupid because they’re still happening now. I finally bit the bullet and done a pregnancy test. It’s still very positive (same as control easy@home strip) even with diluted urine so I’m right in thinking this bleeding isn’t a miscarriage otherwise it would be getting fainter? I’m absolutely exhausted today and I’m worrying now the fresh bleeds have taken a toll on my iron levels.

@LuckyMoonstone I think it looks slightly lighter 🤞🏼hopefully by the time you do your blood test it will be all gone that's the vibe I'm putting into the universe today ❤️

@Luna57 lots and lots of people have said in my various forum/Google readings that vaginally can irritate the cervix and they did it rectally. Yours is obviously very sensitive already so they might not be helping. Glad the test was strong that's an excellent sign

My temp is now down the pre O. Bleeding went back to spotting last night and stopped completely again today not even a hint of anything when I wipe. I'm tempted to ring EPU next week if my test is still positive( let's face it it's going to be😂) and tell them it's been 3 weeks it's positive as I would really like a scan to check for retained products I think that's just what's worrying me atm that nothing significant has come out yet and it's still in there. Next Tuesday would have been 3 weeks since my scan and I didn't need to let them know when I started bleeding for all they know it could have started that day not a week later do you think that a bit too cheeky 🙈

@Luna57 it's so shit you're going through such a worrying time. I do hope it eases off.

@TheBirdintheCave so sorry it was a BFN this month. I had such hope for you with your mammoth efforts! Definitely give the fertilily a go, there is nothing to loose. I am holding off testing until Saturday, my temps are still high but symptoms wise I am expecting AF before then so it could go either way 🤷🏼‍♀️

@LuckyMoonstone fingers crossed for a lower number on Sunday!

@mummatara I think that's a very reasonable thing to do. Sometimes we have to tell little white lies to get our own peace of mind xx

@mummatara yeah Id just tell them it was a little earlier how are they to know, unless they make you have medication or surgery since it’s been a while?

@ChloeN it's only a weeks difference and I don't think they will offer to do anything else unless a scan shows anything left in there 🤔 tbh the bleeding may still start again you never know 🤷🏼‍♀️ it likes to keep me guessing 😂 in which case if I'm still bleeding next week then I'll just wait another week and ring if positive

Hi everyone, not been on for a while and now too much to catch up on 🙈 but hope everyone is doing ok 💕

I’ve not been great after getting AF again (now on CD7) and been in a bit of a low place…decided no OPK’s this cycle and have even deleted all my period tracking/conception apps. Honestly just feeling completely hopeless and really feel like I will never see those two lines again. Has anyone else got to around 6/7 cycles and felt the same?
One positive is my scan appointment came through for next week which should be right around ovulation so be good to check everything at that time I guess.

@mummatara very true and I suppose if there is anything in there you might need something to help get it out anyway! Tbh my epu told me to lie next time I got pregnant and say I had pain so I got an early scan, so they probably won’t mind a little fib from you🤣🤣

Hi @emhope sorry you've been down about everything- completely understandable!

I have been exactly the same. I'm on cycle 7 post MC and it just feels like a lifetime ago. I didn't use OKPs this cycle. I did temp, but just because my cycles are super irregular, and I stopped that once ovulation was confirmed. It has actually been really nice-I actually forgot the other week what CD I was on!

I feel a lot more content this cycle, so even if it's a no-go, I think I'm going to keep like this for a little while as I have managed to think about it less. No doubt I'll change my mind again soon though!

@emhope I was cycle 8 before we conceived our baby we lost, sorry you're not in a good place, please don't give up hope ♥️ you will see those two lines again xx

Yup, cycle 6 post miscarriage (10 months since we started) is nearly over and I've spent today looking at how we could get a loan for IVF as I'm so fed up of waiting.

Hugs to everyone feeling low. It is so understandable ❤
@LuckyMoonstone I hope everything resolves and you can finally get this nightmare come to and end and get a fresh start!

Everyone is so strong here. I was actually thinking that today. Knowing that so many women been through this and they persisted and did not let it destroy them, that really gives me hope 💓

@lovenaps aww that’s so nice ❤️ You are really strong too, we are all here for each other x

We are around year 3 of TTC no.1 with a couple of breaks inbetween. Yep....it's draining alright. CD13 and just had some romance with DH. Luckily this part of the cycle means I can go to the loo straight away...but either AF is on her way or he poked too hard 🫤. Temp tomorrow or test Saturday and ill know for def.
Sigh. So nice to be part of this supportive group you ladies are appreciated xx

So, not AF. Here we go again. I am going to do a FRER tomorrow to show DH, until then I need the day to prepare myself. Already in my mind this isn't going to work out 😨.
The panic is real!!!

@FfayeN amazing news! Congratulations!

It's seems that I am right there with you...
11DPO this morning. My head is all over the place!

I screamed 'WTF' so loudly this morning it woke DH, so no hiding from him 😂

@FfayeN @theblueflowers yay lovely news ladies ☺️☺️ hoping I’ll get the same result this month!

@FfayeN @theblueflowers congratulations ladies! Incredible news!! ✨ how many dpo are you both?? 😊

@FfayeN @theblueflowers Wow guys, congratulations! I so hope these are your sticky beans! 🥰

@FfayeN & @theblueflowers amazing news ladies 🎉🎉🎉!!!! I have everything crossed that these are both sticky beans for you both xx

@theblueflowers I am not gonna lie I am glad we're going through this together! I had to get up and leave for work early so saving my reveal for tomorrow when we get the day together.
I'm 13dpo xx

Thanks ladies 🥹

@theblueflowers Sorry I forgot to say congratulations!! That's a good line for 11dpo too, crossing all possible limbs and digits for sticky little ones this time 🙏🏼 xxx